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    • Skyrmir@lemmy.world
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      11 months ago

      The GoP needed a cultural political weapon. So they picked the weakest minority, gays and trans people. To use as a distractions, while they rob the public and destroy the country.

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        11 months ago

        I would love to go back to not giving a shit but people can’t just mind their own fucking business so I keep getting into arguments about why does it matter if a trans person uses the bathroom they want to. Just leave people alone so they can shit in peace.

          • lightnsfw@reddthat.com
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            11 months ago

            Yeah if that is your hill you should be arguing for shower stalls anyway. Like you said nothing stopping anyone from perving in there as it is. Gender has nothing to do with it.

            • sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works
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              11 months ago

              Yeah, it’s certainly irrational, but as you said, it’s very real. I don’t want people of the opposite sex looking at me naked (or even the same sex, but that’s less bad), and I’m sure they feel the same about me.

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                11 months ago

                To me that sounds quite sad. Non sexual nudity is a unique experience it’s unfortunate that many will never be able to enjoy it or disassociate it from sexuality.

                In Germany there are big and accepted nudist spaces. It was also quite the cool experience meeting strangers in a public sauna in Finland. It was such a peaceful environment, as everyone was literally exposing themselves and showing a certain vulnerability that we do not encounter otherwise.

                • sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works
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                  11 months ago

                  Yeah, I’ve been to a public bath in E. Asia and, while it was uncomfortable for me (very different from my culture), it was fine. But I bet most people from my region wouldn’t even consider going.

            • weker01@sh.itjust.works
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              11 months ago

              Nudist spaces (for example sauna) are relatively common in some parts of Europe. I don’t think it’s necessarily a western thing.

    • jballs@sh.itjust.works
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      11 months ago

      It’s not all Americans, just one specific political party that happens to have gone completely batshit crazy.

  • [deleted] in lemmy@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    I love the unisex bathrooms at the Kansas City airport!

    Floor to ceiling stalls that I don’t have to dance around in to open and close the doors. Large open spaces to move between stalls and the sinks.

    Sure, the open stall count and lights aren’t reliable and the workmanship on the sinks and soap dispensers is pretty crummy, but the layout and convenience are fantastic!

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      11 months ago

      And it’s not like there are only unisex bathrooms there. It’s easy to choose another one if you prefer.

      But why bother. They’re more private than most other public bathrooms in the US. 🤷🏻‍♀️

      I fly through KC often and the gender neutral bathrooms are right past security, so I go in there nearly every time to at least wash my hands. There used to be a tiny jolt of surprise when I saw a man in there just because I’ve been so conditioned against seeing that for over 30 years, but that’s gone away because why tf do I care who sees me wash my hands?!

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      11 months ago

      I hadn’t considered how much space you can save, how much better you can plan for traffic, by not having 2 separate areas.

      • [deleted] in lemmy@lemmy.world
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        11 months ago

        Not to mention balancing the demand, more toilets instead of urinals, and more privacy.

        Not to mention that they are inclusive just by their design.

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      11 months ago

      She pisses and shits outside in the driveway.
      Her neighbours aren’t happy.

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      11 months ago

      She’s okay with her bathroom being for men and women. What she really means is she doesn’t want trans people to use the same bathroom, and she would not invite trans people into her home. But don’t worry, no trans people want to be in her home, either.

  • Olgratin_Magmatoe@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    “I’d rather publicly expose myself in the public parking lot than allow people to mind their own business. It’s those evil wokists that are the real problem and exposing their genitals to kids”.

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    11 months ago

    there is an all gender bathroom at a business near me that has a picture of a male, female, and disabled person in a wheelchar on it.

    i giggle every time i pass by it because i am handicapped gender.

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    11 months ago

    Remember in starship troopers they had co-ed showers. If we can fight bugs while accepting gender neutral showers, wtf are we even doing today?

    I’m doing my part.

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    11 months ago

    Airports are infrastructure buildings. This is like seeing a billboard telling you not to hatecrime gay people and boycotting the highway.

    • Cheradenine@sh.itjust.works
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      11 months ago

      Wait, gay people are allowed to use highways? Next you’ll be saying gay trash is mixed with my trash in the truck. My pearls have been clutched so hard they’re powder.

  • FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.com
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    11 months ago

    I have gender-neutral toilets in my house, so do all my friends

    In fact, every household I’ve been in had gender-neutral toilets

    They worked out fine

    I’ve had creepy guys stare at my dick in men-only toilets, I’ve never had a problem with it in gender-neutral

    It stands to reason that the problem is segregated toilets

    (actually, it’s men, but I’m sure even here there will be the “nOt AlL mEn!” types)

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    11 months ago

    I insist that we should figure out who can go in a grayhound bus restroom.

    Is it for men? For women? For trans or LGBTQA? Who?

    We need a “if you gotta go, you gotta go!” Law.

  • ThePantser@sh.itjust.works
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    11 months ago

    Can we just get a bathroom design where they are a wall of stalls with a urinal and toilet inside and the hand washing station is on the outside without a door blocking the path? I hate bathroom doors after washing hands, especially when they don’t have a way to open the doors without touching the handle. Just put the sinks outside the bathroom.

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      11 months ago

      I have been to places with this layout.

      Private stalls. Sinks and hand washing open and visible to the hallway. Nobody feels threatrned or uncomfortable.

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      11 months ago

      No one needs urinals.

      Case in point: No one has one in their home.

      • ThePantser@sh.itjust.works
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        11 months ago

        Ah but the toilet sitters do appreciate how much less urine is on the seats and around the bowl. I would have a urinal in my home if I was to remodel my bathroom. They are convenient.

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          11 months ago

          You can also just sit to pee, so that there’s less urine on the seats and around the bowl. No need for a urinal, which also has splash back.

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          11 months ago

          If you splash urine all over the place when peeing you’re sitting wrong.

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        11 months ago

        Home bathrooms are single-occupancy, plus most people don’t have the room. They’re definitely beneficial for higher volume places as add much more capacity for less space, and act as an “express lane” of sorts.

      • Tippon@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        11 months ago

        That’s a bad argument. How many people have hundreds, maybe thousands of people using their toilet every hour? Urinals are made for high traffic areas, where large numbers of men need to pee, and they also save water by not needing to be flushed every time.

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    11 months ago

    The last Biden mandate was that every home would have a gender inclusive restroom, and every home has one by default. Lol