I’m going to touch on two items : one is the drivers license, I personally believe it should be a lot harder to get a drivers license than what it is in the United States. I think it’s way too easy. I’ve been driving for over 30 years now and the crazy and stupid stuff I’ve seen yeah it should be harder to get a drivers license. Medical exam for drivers license , I think it’s a good idea.
The second one that I’m going to touch on is if a doctor is literally telling you to seek help it might be a good idea to seek help.
You just described how life works. You have to do it the hard way first so that you appreciate it when you get it easier way.