Don's Party

Don's Party, thankfully, turns more to tears, sex, argument and some painful home truths for this group of Australian suburbanites, in the 1970's. Don uses the General Election results on TV as an excuse to get his mates round, who all have 'interesting' wives.

Like many a similar escapade into the lower echelons of human civility, the sexual innuendos and chauvinism is flowing as fast as the wine and beer and the election results fade from our attention.

It's often hilarious, frequently bitter and with a fair amount of full nudity, male and female, not least of which stems from the "borrowing" of next door neighbour's swimming pool. Bruce Bereford's slinging attack on what everyday people say and do when inhibitions slip is as far a cry from Picnic at Hanging Rock as is possible.

I only use that as a reference because this film is one of the DVDs in my Australian Cinema Collection 12 disc boxed set, as is 'Picnic at...' not because Beresford directed it. Beresford did direct a good number of Australia's most noted films - and not always for their quality, either. However, Don's Party is as good as this sort of adult sex comedy drama gets and could equally be set in the UK, US or indeed, anywhere. It's certainly one of Bruce's best.

A delightfully morose and humorous deconstruction of married life in the wake of the sexual revolution, set in Melbourne on election day 1969. The political aspect to the story is just as insignificant to the film as the election eventually turns out to be for most of these characters. What really concerns and consumes them is how disappointing their marriages, careers and lives as adults have turned out to be. Generally speaking, the guys want to sleep around more, and the gals want to be loved more. And every single one of these couples are locked in a struggle for control over their own and their partner's sexuality. There's an inevitable conflict between the basic human feeling of jealousy and the new morality established by the sexual revolution, claims playwright turned screenwriter David Williamson. A realization that might ring truer for most viewers than they'd care to admit. Which is why it's nice to see these bunch of characters admit it for us, although they don't seem to become any wiser or experienced in the process. Director Bruce Beresford (later of Tender Mercies and Driving Miss Daisy) infuses his film with just the right amount of spite and mockery, but there's also a warmth deep down below which ensures the viewing never becomes unpleasant or hopeless. Don's Party is a valid study of universal, timeless themes which has aged surprisingly well.

Anybody who lived through this era will understand that this film is a quintessential snapshot of Australia's cultural reality of this time. Let alone the greatest gathering of Australian acting talent.

Don's Party is a really funny film. It also is a glimpse at how the 60's sexual revolution invaded suburban Australia. The dialogue is taut and sharp, the characters both quirky and realistic, and the setup funny in a tawdry, Blake Edwards kind of way. A fun rental well worth seeing.

Watching this during the current lockdown of social distancing helped a little. Brilliant performances by all and full of funny lines and scenes, though bookended by the downer of real life. People go to parties to let their hair down and escape the restrictions of work and order. Yes, they make fools of themselves too. How those things are missed now...This is an Australian classic, one of the top ten Australian films in my view. Watch it.