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Difficult Women by Roxane Gay
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I'd give this 4.5 stars.

This is a crazy-good collection, filled with stories that are sometimes quirky, sometimes moving, sometimes ribald, sometimes funny, but nearly always utterly compelling. There are 21 stories in this collection—some last little more than a page, while some are much longer, but there is a real power in Roxane Gay's storytelling, whether the stories have an almost frenzied pace or proceed in a slower, more contemplative fashion.

While the title of this collection is Difficult Women , I don't think you could classify all of the main characters as difficult. Passionate, complex, unique, fascinating (in both good and bad ways), yes, but in my opinion, the word "difficult" connotes a negative quality that not all of these women have. Some of the characters are in the flush of love or suffering the pain of loss; some are motivated primarily by the need for sexual conquest, fulfillment, even degradation, while others want tenderness and companionship, if anything. Some are fiercely protective of others around them, while some are steadfastly selfish; some are wounded by the world around them, while others are ready to give as good as they get.

I enjoyed nearly every story in this collection, but my favorites included: "North Country," about an African-American engineer who takes a job in Michigan's Upper Peninsula, and has to fend off the curiosity and advances of many of her colleagues, while coming to terms with her own secrets; "The Mark of Cain," which tells of a married woman whose husband has an identical twin brother, and she pretends not to notice when the brothers switch places; and "Break All the Way Down," a moving story about a woman numbed by extreme grief, who uses infidelity and rough sex to feel something again, and whose life is turned upside down by a late-night visitor.

Other favorites included "I Will Follow You," which focuses on two sisters who were abducted as children and are inseparable as adults, even though one is married; "How," about twin sisters each rooted in their own unhappiness, desperate to escape what is holding them back from what they crave; "La Negra Blanca," which focuses on a young stripper working to pay for college, who must face the demands of an entitled customer; and "The Sacrifice of Darkness," a story with a fairytale-like feel, about a couple living in a world of darkness and the curse they must bear.

I have never read anything Gay has written, so I was really blown away, by her use of language and imagery, the sexual frankness of many of her characters, and the richness of her characters. There's probably a story for everyone in this collection, although all of the stories might not appeal. (For those of you squeamish about descriptions of harm coming to animals, there are a few stories which go into graphic detail about hunting and other things.)

Difficult Women is a unique, powerful, well-told collection that will stay in my head for a long time. If you're a fan of short stories featuring women with a mind of their own, pick this one up.

See all of my reviews at http://itseithersadnessoreuphoria.blo..., and see my list of the best books I read in 2016 at http://itseithersadnessoreuphoria.blogspot.com/2017/01/the-best-books-i-read-in-2016.html.
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Erin Great review Larry! I just bought this book on Tuesday glad you liked it. Also you should read Bad Feminist its so amazing and really powerful.


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Larry H Erin wrote: "Great review Larry! I just bought this book on Tuesday glad you liked it. Also you should read Bad Feminist its so amazing and really powerful."

Thanks, Erin! I'll have to check that out...


Hannah Wonderful review of a powerful collection, Larry!


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Larry H Hannah wrote: "Wonderful review of a powerful collection, Larry!"

Thanks so much, Hannah! It really was powerful--and surprising!


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Karen Wonderful review, Larry. I'm really looking forward to this one!


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Lata Lovely revier, Larry. I keep hearing good things about this collection.


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Larry H Karen wrote: "Wonderful review, Larry. I'm really looking forward to this one!"

Thanks, Karen! Hope you enjoy it!


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Larry H Lata wrote: "Lovely revier, Larry. I keep hearing good things about this collection."

Thanks so much, Lata! It's really something!


Rachel León If you're interested in reading more of her work, Bad Feminist is so great!


Jessica J. Did you read her novel, Untamed State? It was so hard, because it's so visceral and violent and full of ugly things, but so well written that it was hard to look away.


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Rachel León Jessica wrote: "Did you read her novel, Untamed State? It was so hard, because it's so visceral and violent and full of ugly things, but so well written that it was hard to look away."

Yes, I read that too. Gay is such a knockout writer. I'm looking forward to her memoir coming out this year too.


message 12: by Basia (new)

Basia Larry, thank you for speaking about the different stories and what they explore. Great review.
Book sounds compelling! It makes me think of Rebecca Brown's The Terrible Girls. Have you read it? It's also a wonderful collection of short stories that are surreal, succinct, beautiful in their ugliness ... just a rare treat. I know some people here get weird regarding recommendations, so no offense intended; I feel like you'd enjoy it immensely, given your review.
:)


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Larry H Rachel wrote: "If you're interested in reading more of her work, Bad Feminist is so great!"

I'll have to check it out. I'm not a big nonfiction reader but she's such a great writer!


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Larry H Jessica wrote: "Did you read her novel, Untamed State? It was so hard, because it's so visceral and violent and full of ugly things, but so well written that it was hard to look away."

This was the first book of hers I read. I'm so blown away by her writing, so I'll have to add that one to my list.


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Larry H Basia wrote: "Larry, thank you for speaking about the different stories and what they explore. Great review.
Book sounds compelling! It makes me think of Rebecca Brown's The Terrible Girls. Have you read it? It..."


Thanks so much, Basia! I don't get weird about recommendations...the least you can do is listen; no one is forcing you to read the book! LOL. I've never heard of that one but will have to check it out. This was just so good!


message 16: by Esil (new) - rated it 4 stars

Esil Great review, Larry. I agree that Gay is really talented, but I found this stories quite brutal.


message 17: by Debbie (new) - rated it 4 stars

Debbie Great review, Larry! I share your love of this one, though there were a few stories that were blahs. Thanks for giving a few words about your favorite stories--allowed me some euphoric recall. The stories got under my skin.


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Carol Excellent review, Larry. I've just purchased An Untamed State by the same author. I hope that it's as good as you found this novel.


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Larry H Esil wrote: "Great review, Larry. I agree that Gay is really talented, but I found this stories quite brutal."

Thanks, Esil! I agree, some of them really were quite brutal, but as I dove more into the stories I tried to understand why the characters would want to be treated that way. This is definitely not a book for everyone, though!


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Larry H Debbie wrote: "Great review, Larry! I share your love of this one, though there were a few stories that were blahs. Thanks for giving a few words about your favorite stories--allowed me some euphoric recall. The ..."

Thanks, Debbie! I agree, there were a few stories that felt incomplete or just didn't pack a punch, but the ones that did--wow!


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Larry H Carol wrote: "Excellent review, Larry. I've just purchased An Untamed State by the same author. I hope that it's as good as you found this novel."

Thanks, Carol! I've heard that's pretty brutal, but really well written. I'll look forward to your review!


Jennifer Fox Larry I'm still reading this but I cannot put it down!! I'm exhausted today from reading so late last night :) I agree completely with your review.
What a gifted, unique author!!


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Larry H Jennifer wrote: "Larry I'm still reading this but I cannot put it down!! I'm exhausted today from reading so late last night :) I agree completely with your review.
What a gifted, unique author!!"



Thanks so much, Jennifer! I totally understand what you're saying. I look forward to hearing what you think overall!


message 24: by Elle (new) - rated it 3 stars

Elle (ellexamines on TT & Substack) It's hilarious that we have almost the exact same favorites list!! How and La Negra Blanca were my two faves. The only one on your faves list that wouldn't make mine was North Country, which I honestly thought was kind of mediocre?? But everyone else has it as their fave, so I almost feel like I just didn't get it.


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Larry H Elise wrote: "It's hilarious that we have almost the exact same favorites list!! How and La Negra Blanca were my two faves. The only one on your faves list that wouldn't make mine was North Country, which I hone..."

It's hard to remember exactly why I loved North Country so much, but I think I just found the protagonist of the story fascinating. But La Negra Blanca in particular was so great.


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fantastic summary. should you read her recently released memoir, you should be able to decipher some of those stories' origins in her account.


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Larry H paulie wrote: "fantastic summary. should you read her recently released memoir, you should be able to decipher some of those stories' origins in her account."

Thanks, Paulie! I didn't know that...I do have her memoir on my (very long) to-read list!!


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