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The Giver by Lois Lowry
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“I don't know what you mean when you say 'the whole world' or 'generations before him.'I thought there was only us. I thought there was only now.”

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We don’t live in a dystopian world, but we do have a growing number of our population who believe that all that exists is NOW, that history is irrelevant, and that there is no future. It simplifies existence when a person can convince themselves of this. No need to learn about the past, no need to think about tomorrow, they just react to what they have to do today.

I insist on being a more complicated creature. What I learn about the past helps me make decisions about the present. The dreams I have for the future influence my decisions in the NOW. The past, the NOW, and the future all mingle together with very little delineation.

Reading this novel, experiencing this future society, my nerves were as jangled as if Freddy was running his metal tipped fingers down a chalkboard over and over again. That is not Lois Lowry’s fault it had much more to do with my natural abhorrence for everything and everyone being the same.

“The life where nothing was ever unexpected. Or inconvenient. Or unusual. The life without colour, pain or past.”

When Jonas turns twelve he, like every other twelve year old, is assigned his life’s work. He is delegated to the ancient, wise, old man called The Receiver. Because Jonas is now The Receiver, the old man by definition becomes The Giver. He is the vault, the keeper of memories, the only person in the community that knows there was a past. Jonas is understandably confused, overwhelmed with the concept of anything other than NOW.

Jonas is seeing red. In a monochrome society devoid of color, it is the equivalent of seeing a UFO or a Yeti. Color changes everything. As The Giver lays hands on him, transferring more and more memories to Jonas, he starts to see the world as so much more. Color creates depth, not only visually, but also mentally. Jonas’s expectations increase exponentially, quickly. He wants everybody to know what he knows, but of course that is impossible, most assuredly dangerous.

“They were satisfied with their lives which had none of the vibrancy his own was taking on. And he was angry at himself, that he could not change that for them.”

SAMENESS eliminates pain, discrimination, desire, pride, ambition, choice, thinking, and all the other things that make us uniquely human. To eliminate bad things also requires an equal measure of a loss of good things. In making this society the holes in the strainer were just too small.

The Elders select your mate for you (no homosexuality allowed in this society), but then with the elimination of desire, by a cornucopia of pharmaceuticals, it doesn’t really matter if one is gay, straight, or pansexual. Your mate is really just a partner, someone to schedule your life with. Children are assigned to you. They are nurtured by others until they are walking, and then like the stork of old they are plopped into a family unit. Two children only per couple. Women are assigned for childbearing, but only for three children, and then they are relegated as laborers for the rest of their lives. Childbearing is looked on as one of the lowest assignments a woman can be given. The Elders decide what job you will have for the rest of your life, well up until you are RELEASED.

No decisions necessary...ever.

“The worst part of holding the memories is not the pain. It's the loneliness of it. Memories need to be shared.”

The Giver, his mind not as elastic as it used to be, is consumed by the pain of the memories. He needs to speed up the process of passing some of that distress to Jonas. For the first time in his life Jonas feels real discomfort. Pills in the past had always taken away any pain he felt, from a skinned knee or even a broken arm. As The Receiver he has to understand the source of the pain, and to do so he must feel it.

There was another Receiver. She had asked to be Released. A more than niggling concern to young Jonas.

Even though the rule for The Receiver, You May Lie, bothers Jonas, it becomes readily apparent the more he learns the more imperative that rule becomes. The veil has been lifted from his eyes, and it is impossible to put the genie back in the bottle. He must choose the path that his predecessor chose ( to be released), or he must go into the great beyond of ELSEWHERE which is anywhere but there. The Giver has had to be so courageous, staying, holding memories for everyone, bearing the annoyance of only being consulted in moments of desperation, knowing so much that could be so helpful, and yet, made to feel like a dusty museum piece with the placard stating: Only Break Glass in Case of Fire.

The conclusion really bothers people, but I consider the ambiguous ending as one of my most favorite parts of the book. For those who read the books Choose Your Own Adventure, this is a Choose Your Own Ending. Pessimists and optimists seem to choose according to their natural preference for a glass half empty or a glass half full. I was struck by an odd parallel between the ending of Ethan Frome and the ending of this book. Only, being an optimist, I of course chose a very different result than the finale of Ethan Frome.

If your children have read this book or are currently reading this book, do read it. The language is by design simplistic. The concepts though are much larger, and you will enjoy your discussions with your children. This is a perfect opportunity to slip in some of your own brainwashing by including some of your own views of our current society into the dialogue.

In an attempt to make Eden they produced a Hell.

I kept thinking as I read it of the culling and the brutality that had to occur to gain this much control over human beings. I most certainly would have been RELEASED in the first wave. Compared to a future like this, we are living in a PARADISE. With all our issues, we still have choice. We have color. We have desire. We have ambition. We have a past, a future, and a present. We are not drugged zombies (well most of us, well some of us). We can read a book and see the world from another’s perspective. We can choose our mate, as dicey as that seems for most people. We can have a child, if we choose, who will be The Receiver of our collective memories and in the process we gain another generation of immortality.

Regardless of how everyone feels about this book, I would hope that most people come away from reading it feeling a little better about life as it is now, and also realize the importance of a remembered past and a hopeful future.

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Reading Progress

July 28, 2014 – Started Reading
July 28, 2014 – Shelved
July 29, 2014 – Finished Reading
January 7, 2015 – Shelved as: post-apocalyptic-dystopia
June 29, 2016 – Shelved as: book-to-film

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message 1: by Forrest (new)

Forrest I remember having some great discussions with my children on agency/free will after my son's friend starred in a local stage production of this work. This work forces you to think and think hard about choice and morality/ethics. Maybe even force-feeds it a touch, but I can stomach that.


Jeffrey Keeten Paul wrote: "Too much dystopian future stuff? That's what my wife said when she read it. I'll wait for your review."

This is for sure dystopian, but a quick read and with your kid(s) insisting that you read it I think you will find the opportunity to connect with your progeny a good reason for reading it.


Jeffrey Keeten Forrest wrote: "I remember having some great discussions with my children on agency/free will after my son's friend starred in a local stage production of this work. This work forces you to think and think hard ab..."

It is for sure a bit heavy handed, not much ambiguity here. The ended was a nice touch. I liked the restraint Lowry showed with that. Nice to hear from you Forrest! I am knee deep in your intriguing writing creation. I hope to get time to finish it in the next couple of days.


message 4: by Mary (new) - rated it 4 stars

Mary I remember reading this in grade school and being thoroughly amazed by the ideas. The whole dystopian theme was a new concept to me, and it was absolutely foreign to think of living without choices and emotions, without memories. I recently reread it and was less enthralled - I think because I am more aware of the greater implications and possibilities that the story represents. It's more disturbing to me as an adult reader. I will be interested to see what my daughter thinks of it - like the reader above, I think this book could generate some great discussions on free will.


Jeffrey Keeten Mary wrote: "I remember reading this in grade school and being thoroughly amazed by the ideas. The whole dystopian theme was a new concept to me, and it was absolutely foreign to think of living without choices..."

This a great book to create discussions with kids. Discussion expands the depth of the ideas that Lowry presents in the book. I couldn't help, but feel a greater appreciation for my life thinking about the possibilities of how much worse it could be.


message 6: by Bill (new) - added it

Bill Great review can not wait for movie!:)


message 7: by Forrest (new)

Forrest Jeffrey wrote: "Forrest wrote: "I remember having some great discussions with my children on agency/free will after my son's friend starred in a local stage production of this work. This work forces you to think a..."

Thanks, Jeffrey. Enjoy!


Samadrita I believe it is always a dystopia for the dregs of society living anywhere, at any point in time.

"Reading this novel, experiencing this future society, my nerves were as jangled as if Freddy was running his metal tipped fingers down a chalkboard over and over again. That is not Lois Lowry’s fault it had much more to do with my natural abhorrence for everything and everyone being the same."

This is exactly why I quit reading this after going through the first few pages. I'll only pick up this book again if I am stranded in a bookless place with only a copy of this to read.

Loved your review and the note of optimism on which it ended. We never appreciate the freedoms we enjoy, always taking them for granted.


Jeffrey Keeten Barbarian King wrote: "Great review can not wait for movie!:)"

Thanks Barbarian King! I hope the movie delivers.


Jeffrey Keeten Samadrita wrote: "I believe it is always a dystopia for the dregs of society living anywhere, at any point in time.

"Reading this novel, experiencing this future society, my nerves were as jangled as if Freddy was..."


This society does stretch the bounds of what I can believe, but maybe with the right mixture of drugs you could control a society to this extent. I was horrified thinking of the genocide that would, in my mind, have had to happened to establish this society.

I was very close to bailing early as you did. The only thing that kept me reading was the fact that I had a household of people waiting to discuss it. The discussion was excellent, certainly made my time with the book worthwhile. All that said it was a close thing me pushing through my irritation and annoyance with this concept.

I'm glad you took the time to read my review despite your reservations about the book. I try to come away from any book enriched and certainly after having the heebee jeebees reading this book I could look at my life with refreshed eyes. Thanks Samadrita! It is good to know that I wasn't alone with my skepticism.


message 11: by Mark (new) - added it

Mark Sounds like a fascinating read and a really intriguing review. You have sold it to me, anything which encourages people to not take for granted the life we now lead, with all its warts and drawbacks, has got to be a good thing.


Jeffrey Keeten Mark wrote: "Sounds like a fascinating read and a really intriguing review. You have sold it to me, anything which encourages people to not take for granted the life we now lead, with all its warts and drawback..."

I'm looking forward to reading your thoughts on this one. Certainly it is a book that has resonated with many people and serves as a great teaching tool in many schools. Thanks Mark!


message 13: by Maria (new) - added it

Maria Thrilling!!! I need to read this one PRONTO. Sounds like an exciting read!
I also liked your existential reflection here: " What I learn about the past helps me make decisions about the present. The dreams I have for the future influence my decisions in the NOW. The past, the NOW, and the future all mingle together with very little delineation."
I think so too. We are the result of our good and bad decisions and should use our experiences to make better choices. Most people say we cant change, but I sure believe we can improve and keep achieving our dreams. Superb review Jeffrey! :)


Jeffrey Keeten Maria wrote: "Thrilling!!! I need to read this one PRONTO. Sounds like an exciting read!
I also liked your existential reflection here: " What I learn about the past helps me make decisions about the present. T..."


I try to use everyday to help myself improve my chances of making better decisions in the near future and the far future. You never know what nugget of information will prove critical. This book will certainly inspire a reaction out of everyone who reads it. I will be looking forward to how it will strike you. Thank you Maria! What an inspiring comment to remind me of why I write reviews. :-)


message 15: by Jennifer (new)

Jennifer My favorite book


Jeffrey Keeten Jennifer wrote: "My favorite book"

You are not alone. This book resonated with a lot of people.


message 17: by Helen (new) - rated it 4 stars

Helen Really great review, Jeffrey, thank you for writing it! I read this phenomenal book last year. And I can't wait to see the movie.


message 18: by Trish (new) - rated it 4 stars

Trish Morck Love the book.


message 19: by Jeffrey (new) - rated it 3 stars

Jeffrey Keeten Helen wrote: "Really great review, Jeffrey, thank you for writing it! I read this phenomenal book last year. And I can't wait to see the movie."

Thanks Helen. You are most welcome. Sorry I missed this comment. I hope you enjoyed the movie.


message 20: by Jeffrey (new) - rated it 3 stars

Jeffrey Keeten Trish wrote: "Love the book."

I'm glad you did Trish!


message 21: by Trish (new) - rated it 4 stars

Trish Morck The was slightly confusing. It definetly made it harder to read... I think that's why I liked it so much. It also writes about a utopian world and I like reading about other people's "perfect" worlds.


message 22: by Jeffrey (new) - rated it 3 stars

Jeffrey Keeten Trish wrote: "The was slightly confusing. It definetly made it harder to read... I think that's why I liked it so much. It also writes about a utopian world and I like reading about other people's "perfect" worlds."

There are plenty more for you to explore! Enjoy!


message 23: by Qendresa Childs (new)

Qendresa Childs you are the best we love you so much (:-)


message 24: by Jeffrey (new) - rated it 3 stars

Jeffrey Keeten Qendresa Childs wrote: "you are the best we love you so much (:-)"

Thanks Qendresa! :-)


message 25: by R.a. (new)

R.a. "We don’t live in a dystopian world, but we do have a growing number of our population who believe that all that exists is NOW . . ."

And, there's nothing like "NewsSpeak" to ensure the past gets buried . . .


message 26: by Starlight (new) - added it

Starlight  gold Jeffrey Great review
but when I read this book it was so boring and i didn't understand it


Jeffrey Keeten R.a. wrote: ""We don’t live in a dystopian world, but we do have a growing number of our population who believe that all that exists is NOW . . ."

And, there's nothing like "NewsSpeak" to ensure the past gets ..."


Yeah, NewsSpeak...don't get me started. :-)


Jeffrey Keeten Ivy wrote: "Jeffrey Great review
but when I read this book it was so boring and i didn't understand it"


Thanks Ivy! Maybe you should watch the movie! See what you think then.


message 29: by Glenn (new)

Glenn Russell Fine review, Jeffrey.
When I reflect back on my own past, I recall all the painful stings that prompted me to become more awake and alive. If all was milk and honey or an undifferentiated grey, I suspect I could have remained nearly fast asleep.


Jeffrey Keeten Glenn wrote: "Fine review, Jeffrey.
When I reflect back on my own past, I recall all the painful stings that prompted me to become more awake and alive. If all was milk and honey or an undifferentiated grey, I s..."


Thanks Glenn! I was in a bit of trouble with the wife when I first launched this review due to the 3 stars because it is one of her favorite books, but she appreciated the way the review was written so I got off the hook. :-)

It reminds me of the Matrix movie. When they made it so everyone had a great life people began committing suicide right and left so they had to include failure and conflict. It seems we are designed to need the challenges. Unchallenged we become despondent. We need to have times when we do better than everyone else. If everyone is succeeding we become demotivated.


message 31: by Vivian (new) - rated it 5 stars

Vivian I understand why you were in trouble with the wife, Jeffrey - The Giver is one of my all time favorite books as well; I even taught it in my English classes years ago. The middle school kids really related to Jonas's dilemma, and it was a fun way to bring up serious subjects. And, yes, your very detailed and appreciative review redeems you ;-).


Jeffrey Keeten Vivian wrote: "I understand why you were in trouble with the wife, Jeffrey - The Giver is one of my all time favorite books as well; I even taught it in my English classes years ago. The middle school kids really..."

Thank you Vivian! My wife has taught it many times over the years as well. It is a great book to generate discussion. I'm not a fan of young adult books which may have been why I was somewhat put off by the writing style. I love books to challenge my vocabulary. I'm glad I was able to redeem myself. :-) I hope you get a chance to teach it again.


message 33: by [deleted user] (new)

This was the only school-assigned book last year in 10th grade that my daughter LOVED! :-)


Jeffrey Keeten Christy wrote: "This was the only school-assigned book last year in 10th grade that my daughter LOVED! :-)"

People by nature are against any reading that assigned to them. I find that many people reread books they hated in high school and discover that they like the book...since it was now their choice to read it. :-) I'm glad she scored a hit with The Giver.


message 35: by [deleted user] (new)

I agree about self-determination in our reading choices, in general, but I guess I was a freak who basically dug pretty much whatever her teachers wants to dish out in terms of real books (I only loathed textbooks, as I recall...). I wonder if I reread some school-age reads I'd NOT like them now?? :-)


message 36: by Kk (new)

Kk Mishra is this book free?
do tell me it seems good


message 37: by Vessey (last edited 26 sept. 2016 08:13) (new)

Vessey This reminds me of what Virginia Woolf says in “A Room of One’s Own”

"Ought not education to bring out and fortify the differences rather than the similarities? For we have too much likeness as it is."

I have said more than once that sometimes the good and the bad come from the same place. Like with le Carre and his father. In your review you say that what made his father a conman made le Carre a good spy. If we let ourselves become intolerant and decide to reject and destroy everything in a person that even mildly deviates from our image of perfection, we may end up destroying something we may be sorry for later. It is like when you are determined to make your kids “behave properly”. You hurt them, thinking that you are simply “teaching them a lesson” and insisting that it’s “for their own good”. Yes, they will become all too ready to study and have good grades and keep their rooms clean and everything else. You will have taken away everything that might make them even think of doing something unreasonable, bad or whatever you want to call it. But you also take away their dignity and self-respect, you crush their spirit and ambition and desire. You create this cold, perfect thing that simply blindly follows orders. Yeah, the kid may grow up to become successful, respected, straight-laced member of society, but what’s the point if he/she won’t be enjoying any of it? I think that no matter how much you want your loved one to be on the right path, there are borders that shouldn’t be crossed. In Crime and Punishment Dostoevsky says:

To go wrong in one's own way is better than to go right in someone else's.

Thank you SO much for this insightful, thought-provoking and full of compassion and understanding review, Jeffrey!


Jeffrey Keeten Christy wrote: "I agree about self-determination in our reading choices, in general, but I guess I was a freak who basically dug pretty much whatever her teachers wants to dish out in terms of real books (I only l..."

I could not get my hands on enough books when I was growing up. Re-reading is always interesting. I've been holding off re-reading Fitzgerald because I'm afraid I won't like him as much as I did in my twenties. I've read Hemingway since then and he isn't the same writer for me now.


Jeffrey Keeten Vessey wrote: "This reminds me of what Virginia Woolf says in “A Room of One’s Own”

"Ought not education to bring out and fortify the differences rather than the similarities? For we have too much likeness as it..."


What was interesting about this book was how much has to be taken away from people for them to be...the same. We have so many aspects of ourselves that determine who we are. Here in America we are an over medicated society for a lot of different reasons. People are trying to be "normal" whatever that means and use medication to try and fit in with everyone else. That is an over simplification, but I do think that stress levels are high and the expectations of what is considered successful is higher than ever before. The news is so depressing because we have access to so much more news than ever before. Now people know instantly about anything that goes wrong anywhere in the world. I just feel like the screws of society have been tightened too far. With all this medication floating around it makes me wonder if we are that far from The Giver right now. Thanks Vessey! Awesome quotes.


message 40: by [deleted user] (new)

Jeffrey wrote: "I just feel like the screws of society have been tightened too far."

Have to LOVE this line as a sociologist! :-) A good analysis of our compulsive-obsessive culture, Jeffrey! The Giver's automated and programmed life seems like the older child's version of Bruno Bettelheim 's analysis of fairytales, in that they both serve to fortify and desensitize children by presenting scary, even horrific, visions of a reality even worse (if be possible) than the world they were to inherit in reality.



Jeffrey Keeten Christy wrote: "Jeffrey wrote: "I just feel like the screws of society have been tightened too far."

Have to LOVE this line as a sociologist! :-) A good analysis of our compulsive-obsessive culture, Jeffrey! The ..."


I have been running into more and more people who have downshifted their life. They jumped on the wheel and ran and ran and ran, but have finally decided that success is being happy not rich. We work hard thinking there is going to be a big payoff when we retire, but the closer we get the further away it seems. I would be curious to know what % of the population has dropped out completely. About everyone I know is on some form of anti-anxiety medicine. When did this happen? I think we are sold a much more horrific, vision of reality than what is actually out there by the news, by our politicians. The news is our fairytales. I'm going to have to ponder that for a while. Thanks Christy!


Amanda NEVER MANDY Well said.


message 43: by [deleted user] (new)

Thank YOU, Jeffrey! Important ideas.


Jeffrey Keeten Amanda wrote: "Well said."

Thanks Amanda!


Jeffrey Keeten Christy wrote: "Thank YOU, Jeffrey! Important ideas."

Thanks for moving the dialogue Christy!


message 46: by Deanna (new)

Deanna Excellent review, Jeffrey!!


Jeffrey Keeten Deanna wrote: "Excellent review, Jeffrey!!"

Thanks Deanna! Lots to work with here.


Sidharth Vardhan Amazing review, Jeffery. It is often the systems that punish the mistakes and failures from very early age which create fear of having to choose - they induce a fear for rest of life. There is a vast student population in India and it is sad to see almost all of them going for traditionally established professionals often at cost of their real ambitions - because they are 'safe' choices.


Jeffrey Keeten Sidharth wrote: "Amazing review, Jeffery. It is often the systems that punish the mistakes and failures from very early age which create fear of having to choose - they induce a fear for rest of life. There is a va..."

If I were to say to my Dad or my wife or my friends or my children that I was going to quit my job tomorrow and start writing the Great American Novel they would think I had lost my mind when in fact I had just found it. Conformity and safety are considered one and the same when it comes to our lives. We are conditioned to take the "safe" job and we also are conditioned to convince those we love and care about to do the same. It is the biggest most grandest conspiracy in the history of mankind. *Sigh* If you hear a rattle that is the chain rubbing up against the desk leg I'm chained too. Thanks Sid! I hope you find a way to break free and make a living in an alternative fashion .


message 50: by [deleted user] (new)

Shades of Max Weber's "iron cage" of modern bureaucracy with the image of those leg chains-to-desk! It's Cavinism without Calvin. Work ethics without ethics. Same old drill...


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