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Cake day: September 9th, 2023

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  • Lesson from South Africa: by the time they are at your door it’s too late. Perimeter fencing, preferably a 2m high wall with razor wire AND electric fence on top (including on gate). Garden: floodlights, motion sensing alarms, beams, AI cameras. All doors and windows: bars and security gates. Inside: separate living and sleeping area with lockable gate in the hall between. Panic buttons…

    None of that is going to stop a legal intrusion, each just buys you time before the paid security company arrive with guns to chase away intruders. Given time, any determined attacker will get in eventually…


  • Refurbished an electric guitar on my own. I found a Washburn (decent make) for next to nothing in a junk store and got a kit from Temu for the electronics which were totally shot.

    Total cost was 1/4 of the price of the same guitar second hand in working order. YouTube tutorials sorted me out - only one of the pickups actually works well but it’s the humbucker which is the only one I like anyway.

    Context: 12 years ago I used to play professionally but sold my equipment when I had a kid (musician job does not pay well).

    I actually like my new home made electric guitar better than my old one. Also, I now play for fun which is nicer than rehearsing repertoire all the time



  • tomjugglertoMental HealthIt really does
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    4 months ago

    You are right, this was 30 years ago for me. I do remember the absolute feeling of helplessness, hearing someone else’s positive experience is less than helpful. But I stand by my advice to communicate, I had no idea at the time just that one thing can turn it around



  • tomjugglertoMental HealthIt really does
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    4 months ago

    Not a single positive comment?

    I used to be depressed, somehow pushed through. There is hope ppl.

    Therapy is a real solution. Talk about it, don’t bottle up your feelings.

    Do something, anything is better than nothing. Do the dishes, make the bed!