then when I see people talk about biracial people, they’re out there saying shit like, “Biracial people look different from Black people. They are racially ambiguous, have light skin, and have curly hair instead of coily hair. They can never truly understand the monoracial Black experience.”
Because this is bullshit that any reasonably aware black person who’s spent time in community with other black people would shoot down immediately as nonsense (it also isn’t even accurate; while I have wavy hair, my brother’s is coily such that he grew out both an afro and dreads just fine).
This part’s also only my experience (and may differ from yours) but I find that kind of discourse only really happens online, where there’s no social pressure to slap such inanity down.
There’s so much art about the biracial experience and how you won’t get treated as anything other than just black most of the time by society that such discourse feels like a psyop; I wouldn’t put much of any real stock in it, honestly.
100% this; cheese on its own is always a wonderful snack.