Thank you so much for posting this! I’m looking to get myself - and my recently-out daughter! - our first pairs. This is absolutely full of things I had no idea about. 💜
Gift_of_Gab (they/them)
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Gift_of_Gab (they/them)@lemmy.worldto WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone•Nicole Rudolph - Why are Modern High Heels so Bad?1·8 months ago
Gift_of_Gab (they/them)@lemmy.worldto Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•Deleting my certified banger of a comment on WomensStuff because I respect the rule119·8 months agoIt’s true, I should spend less time here on Lemmy.
EDIT: If you think I haven’t heard/experienced those things on Lemmy, oh boy do I have bad news for you. I’ve had to make multiple accounts for every time a bunch of MGTOW guys decide to spam my account with messages/downvotes, so I’m used to it. Downvote away :)
Gift_of_Gab (they/them)@lemmy.worldto Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•Deleting my certified banger of a comment on WomensStuff because I respect the rule2622·8 months agoOh yeah, whenever I see men whining and complaining about something to do with women, I feel this sense of euphoric calm; this feeling of ‘I remember this. I’m not part of that group anymore. They don’t speak for me.’
It has a tinge of melancholy afterwards, because I still have to deal with men, yet I feel less embarrassed for myself.
Gift_of_Gab (they/them)@lemmy.worldto Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•Deleting my certified banger of a comment on WomensStuff because I respect the rule3010·8 months agoReading over these comments brings me back to why I came out as non-binary, and the gender euphoric boost is quite nice.
Gift_of_Gab (they/them)@lemmy.worldto Political Weirdos @lemmy.world•In a now deleted tweet, weirdo Azealia Banks shares that "fucking 14 year old girls was really only made a social taboo in the 1990s"47·9 months agoBack when I was a kid, pedophilia meant what she said - attraction to a prepubescent child. If someone was an adult who thought a physically developed 15-year-old was sexy, that was just logical.
Was this the 1890’s? I was born in '82, and I can’t think of a single time someone was like “oh an adult and a 15 year old child? Yeah that’s okay.”
I find it strange that we use the same word for someone who rapes a toddler, as someone who “statutory rapes” (as it would be called) a 15-year-old. They are both wrong, but it seems to me that one is much worse than the other. Both because of the attraction (or I guess power fantasy) on the part of the adult, and the impact to the victim.
This is straight priori falacy. Why the fuck are you arguing the ‘degrees of okay-ness’ for sex with children. This is fucking baffling.
Gift_of_Gab (they/them)@lemmy.worldto Games@lemmy.world•Phone call campaign to tell Payment Processors to stop censoring adult content | Details insideEnglish411·9 months agoTheir managers are also call center employees who will filter that noise out. That’s one of the reasons to employ a call center.
Then how did Collective Shout cause all of these companies to do what they want with ~1000 phone calls?
Gift_of_Gab (they/them)@lemmy.worldto Lefty Memes@lemmy.dbzer0.com•Be the feminist you aspire to beEnglish107·9 months agoIs this a kill all men thing or like
A threat saying to fight back against catcallers
Gift_of_Gab (they/them)@lemmy.worldto News@lemmy.world•US Olympic and Paralympic officials bar transgender women from competing in Olympic women’s sports11·9 months agoPatricio Manuel is 3-1 in boxing. His main issue is men won’t fight him now because they’re terrified of losing to a trans man. It’s patriarchy all the way down, so generally the accomplishments of men who’ve transitioned and suppressed, because it kind of shatters the entire ‘unfair’ claim when trans men can win. It also doesn’t help them that being a trans woman isn’t some kind of automatic win; I can’t remember her name, one woman was claimed to be ‘cheating’ because she was trans, but she got 6th in the event. So the entire ‘huge advantage for people born men’ thing keeps getting disproved time and again.
Gift_of_Gab (they/them)@lemmy.worldto Technology@lemmy.world•Vibe coding service Replit deleted production databaseEnglish27·9 months agoReplit is an agent that does stuff for you including deploying to production.
Ahahahahahhahahahahhahahaha, these guys deserve a lost database for that, Jesus.
Gift_of_Gab (they/them)@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•I had a hysterectomy on Thursday and recovery is boring and painful. Do y'all have any questions for me?4·9 months agoHow are you? Are you okay?
As an AMAB them-fatale who found out they had male pattern baldness the day they came out, I, uh, I needed to hear this. 😭 EDIT: I really do appreciate the ideas and help, everyone, but I think we all misunderstood the assignment given the quote: “…femininity doesn’t have to come from hair or any of those traditional female archetypes of appearance…” 😂 Thank you all though, I have happy tears reading your replies.
The ‘incident’ at the corner store is uh, not great either, eh?
Gift_of_Gab (they/them)@lemmy.worldOPto 196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Birthday Spankings Rule (?)English30·9 months agoI don’t know if this was just a tradition in my family, but it also involved being picked up by two people at your wrists and ankles and swung back and forth while a third person spanked you (hence why it was only done to fairly young kids).
Not sure if this will provide you with any hope, but there’s some good news as to our* numbers. While it may not seem like much, it’s a massive jump generationally. In the US, out 2SLGBTQIA+ people are almost 10% of the entire population. Considering how many of our siblings are closeted, it’s a pretty big boost.
(*I discovered last month that my being enby counts as a ‘trans experience’ so I am tentatively trying out including myself.)