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fancycheeaecake@lemmy.worldOPtoMental Health@lemmy.worldâ˘I am here because Reddit was not safeEnglish1¡11 months ago
fancycheeaecake@lemmy.worldOPtoMental Health@lemmy.worldâ˘I am here because Reddit was not safeEnglish47¡11 months agoHow are other trans people going to face consequences? How? I donât see the connection at all. The victim has a right to call that monster wherever she wants, trans or not. You canât make other people call you what you want. Why are you making this about trans peoples feeling instead of how that poor victim felt when the sub ganged up on her and told her she was âtransphobicâ for misgendering her abuser?
Language is a human right. You canât police other peopleâs language. Maybe in your country you managed to do that, but where I am from you cannot demand people to call you something they donât believe you are if you donât even bother yourself with respecting them. I might not like to be called by my full name, but people call me that all the time. Should I file a report for hate speech? I am over this convo because you people are so self-absorbed completely incapable of understanding that your demands are oppression of otherâs freedom and safety.
fancycheeaecake@lemmy.worldOPtoMental Health@lemmy.worldâ˘I am here because Reddit was not safeEnglish912¡11 months agoThe victim should have a choice to choose wherever they decide to respect their identity or not. He left a strong male imprint in her and that cannot be erased or minimised. And itâs not about hurting the abuser, itâs about protecting the victims dignity and reality.
Favourite talking point on Reddit is âfreedom doesnât protect you from consequences of that freedomâ . Well of you decide to torture someone for 10 years there will be consequences. I donât understand that the movement is so eager to protect abusers instead of casting them out. To now own them. They shouldnât be accepted, same goes for pdf files. Are we going to respect them too after they raped a child because it âhurts other trans peopleâ? Thats absolutely sick.
I am not sure, she deleted the post and then her account so I couldnât find out.