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  • dvoraqs@lemmy.worldtoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldoh he mad
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    1 month ago

    The context as far as this meme goes is that he’s mad and showing it physically. Whatever the reason is doesn’t matter because we subvert it with the other text.

    This is the narrative being established: We say he’s chosen to be on a healing journey, and he might be learning the hard way what that looks like, going through the stages of healing, where anger is one of them. But that’s not it yet, we also say he thought the process would be predictable, so he’s actually either mad that isn’t or is mad that we are noticing him having trouble with this. He would be even more mad to learn that this is a meme being shared on the internet and madder still that this whole narrative came up around it that could be true or entirely made up.




  • dvoraqs@lemmy.worldtoPolitical Memes@lemmy.worldEvery time...
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    1 month ago

    My sources say you can in all 50 states by listing a park, shelter, or other place where you spend time as your residence and shelter, church, etc as your mailing address. You should be able to go to a polling location and get a ballot even if you don’t receive one in the mail.

    Just saying that I think there are options for you next time if you find yourself in the same situation. You are not without some power.









  • I think you’re being too strict with your definition of an identity because it is not just one thing. Identities are multi-faceted and fluid. I think that you ignore an important part of the picture when you ignore perceptions of you as part of your identity. They add to a conceptual cloud around you that is you and how you come across to others. I rather like to avoid oversimplification which I feel you are falling for, although I still do believe that one’s own identity is most important of those and ought to be respected by others.

    Have you seen the Clayton Biggsby sketch on the Chappelle show with the blind black white supremacist? He had no knowledge of being black, but I think most people would still argue that it formed a major part of his identity regardless of his own concept of himself.

    To nuance your previous point, being misgendered is a negative experience because that person’s “concept of you” does not agree with yours, becoming a point of conflict between you two and even inside yourself, not necessarily because they are wrong (although you are free to have that opinion). Sometimes people close to you will know you better than you know yourself.