Evm/node: split tx queue callback

Checklist

- [ ] Provide automatic testing. - [ ] Add an item in the changelog

Internal modification for code quality.

What, why and how

meta-issue for the over project: #7785

Split the tx_queue callback type into two variant. This allows for a more fine grained definition of callback inside the tx_queue. It's hidden in the implementation of the tx_queue and so the signature of the module is untouched.

Why ? because I've spend a stupid amount of time looking to understand why my callback was not call, and it was simply because it was never called. The problem was instrumented_callback adds the given callback to the pending_transaction and not the instrumented one, this is stupid but with more precise callback definition I would have seen that faster. Also when debugging I wrote most of the code, and so I thought it was a good code improvement.

see !16829 (merged) for a first usage