Stop rspec-retry for almost all directories

What does this MR do and why?

Stop rspec-retry for almost all directories

Except for features

This additionally adds: bin channels commands components config contracts db dependencies dot_gitlab_ci experiments finders

This means we only rspec-retry for spec/features (and some other directories under ee/spec which doesn't present in FOSS)

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Related to #438388 (closed)