Millers in Marriage

Whenever I'm browsing what should I watch in Toronto Film Festival, I always rely on reading short plot/synopsys and with strictly avoiding to watch the trailer as to not receive/spoiled more than necessary. And in this case that was mistake. While plot summary seemed inviting, with strong direction that is sort of serious drama from marriage(s), visual side screwed all the intentions. All, but literaly ALL women characters were all the time with perfect make up (even when waking up in bed) perfect hair style (even when going doing things in kitchen), on high heels (even during the day in their own houses). Although they are all from some middle upper class, and not from aristocratic level, all interiors, even in cottages, were like from 'Home and Garden' magazines with pristine care that every item is on it's place ready for photo shooting. I thought this 'Dinasty' style of making movies was long time ago history. Seems not.

I love films written, directed and acted in by Ed Burns. He knows exactly how to create a realistic and poignant portrayal of life, where the characters, the geography (typically New York), the era and the story each play an equal part in the audience's journey from beginning to end. This is no exception. It touches on what it means to reach your 40s or 50s and wonder what could have been had you made different decisions, how marriages become a very different type of relationship once the nest is empty, and how professional aspirations are lost or fulfilled, or both, but perhaps without the expected exhilaration or satisfaction. This film has a cast of A-list actors at their very best, no one of them being any more or any less integral than the other. It is supremely touching and will no doubt resonate with anyone "of a certain age."

For decades now, Ed Burns has created films that me feel at home. While not the type of movie in today's movie culture that's going to hit on awards, I venture to say this is the very best of Ed Burns.

This film is delicately woven together with a warm score and veteran acting skills. The writing is classics Ed Burns and highlights the details of life that typically gets glossed over today.

I'm always happy to see a new release from Burns and this one hit just right. The flow of the film was warm and inviting and I can't say enough about the performances of the main group of characters, some of whom we have waiting far too long to see.

Overall, a great film for people who like movies rooted in conversation and characters.

Feels like all these couples need individual therapy to figure out how to be married after kids launch. It's like no one paid attention to their marriages during their marriages. Now they are all struggling. I love ed burns and his movies...they feel like unhealed people seeking others to fill something within. Great acting beautiful scenery. Worth a watch for sure. Seems like intelligent people who won't seek support to resolve internal issues creating external problems. I'm sure many couples can relate to these three couples And their struggles. There has to be a more effective way to work though these situations.

The movie has an essence of soap opera, not real life people. They always drink wine and champagne, they are never hungry, they never do real life things, they never finish conversations that matter. They just behave like 15 years old, not mature 50 plus years old people. Unfinished conversations, feelings, relationships. Things are not explained. Why do people behave the way they do? The constant ending of a scene and jumping to another and then another is tiring and frustrating. What this movie is is three unhappy couples who should have divorced years ago. Did this movie teach me anything new? Not really.