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Tu peux oublier ma bat-mitsva!

Original title: You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah
  • 2023
  • PG-13
  • 1h 43m
IMDb RATING
5.9/10
27K
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POPULARITY
3,785
1,974
Adam Sandler, Idina Menzel, Jackie Sandler, Samantha Lorraine, Sadie Sandler, Sunny Sandler, and Dylan Hoffman in Tu peux oublier ma bat-mitsva! (2023)
It follows Stacey Friedman as she prepares for her bat mitzvah, but her plans comedically unravel and threaten to ruin the event.
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Stacy and Lydia are BFFs who've always dreamed about having epic Bat Mitzvahs. However, things start to go comically awry when a popular boy and middle school drama threatens their friendshi... Read allStacy and Lydia are BFFs who've always dreamed about having epic Bat Mitzvahs. However, things start to go comically awry when a popular boy and middle school drama threatens their friendship and their rite of passage.Stacy and Lydia are BFFs who've always dreamed about having epic Bat Mitzvahs. However, things start to go comically awry when a popular boy and middle school drama threatens their friendship and their rite of passage.

  • Director
    • Sammi Cohen
  • Writers
    • Alison Peck
    • Fiona Rosenbloom
  • Stars
    • Idina Menzel
    • Jackie Sandler
    • Adam Sandler
  • See production info at IMDbPro
  • IMDb RATING
    5.9/10
    27K
    YOUR RATING
    POPULARITY
    3,785
    1,974
    • Director
      • Sammi Cohen
    • Writers
      • Alison Peck
      • Fiona Rosenbloom
    • Stars
      • Idina Menzel
      • Jackie Sandler
      • Adam Sandler
    • 157User reviews
    • 59Critic reviews
    • 71Metascore
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Awards
      • 2 wins & 2 nominations total

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    Idina Menzel
    Idina Menzel
    • Bree Friedman
    Jackie Sandler
    Jackie Sandler
    • Gabi Rodriguez Katz
    Adam Sandler
    Adam Sandler
    • Danny Friedman
    Sadie Sandler
    Sadie Sandler
    • Ronnie Friedman
    Sunny Sandler
    Sunny Sandler
    • Stacy Friedman
    Samantha Lorraine
    Samantha Lorraine
    • Lydia Rodriguez Katz
    Dylan Hoffman
    Dylan Hoffman
    • Andy Goldfarb
    Sarah Sherman
    Sarah Sherman
    • Rabbi Rebecca
    Dan Bulla
    Dan Bulla
    • Cantor Jerry
    Ido Mosseri
    Ido Mosseri
    • DJ Schmuley
    Jackie Hoffman
    Jackie Hoffman
    • Irene
    Luis Guzmán
    Luis Guzmán
    • Eli Katz
    Dean Scott Vazquez
    Dean Scott Vazquez
    • Mateo
    Miya Cech
    Miya Cech
    • Kym Chang Cohen
    Ivory Baker
    Ivory Baker
    • Megan Levy
    Dylan Chloe Dash
    Dylan Chloe Dash
    • Tara
    • (as Dylan Dash)
    Millie Thorpe
    Millie Thorpe
    • Nikki
    Zaara Kuttemperoor
    Zaara Kuttemperoor
    • Zaara
    • Director
      • Sammi Cohen
    • Writers
      • Alison Peck
      • Fiona Rosenbloom
    • All cast & crew
    • Production, box office & more at IMDbPro

    User reviews157

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    6Top_Dawg_Critic

    A little too kosher for this pickle.

    All the best parts and any attempts at humor are in the trailer, so don't expect to see anything more that may make you laugh throughout the bloated and predictable 103 min runtime. The story was targeted to a younger teen audience and will mostly be relatable to those that understand the culture and religion of this film's theme. As a whole, the story is rather cliched and bland, and something that's been done many times before, and much better, with the only difference being the cultural theme. There are many better coming of age stories and funnier ones too. Adam Sandler's daughters gave a better performance than he did, as it felt Adam had better places to be at instead of this film. It's probably one of his most bland, underwhelming and amateurish performances I've seen him in. I'm baffled by the high Tomatometer rating, as this film at best is a generous 6/10 from me.
    6fgmdpwwp

    Cute little movie

    It's a cute little movie that i sbviously made for the younger crowd.

    I love the fact this is truly a family film, Adam Sandler, his beautiful wife, and two daughters.

    The clothing is modest. I don't recall hearing any foul langauge. Yeah, there is some crude Sandler style humor but not outragous.

    Sandler's daughters are cute as can be and actually have some talent. Granted it will grow with time and training. It will be fun to watch them grow.

    I can't pretend to understand the concept of such a great expense of a party at that age, but then again I don't understand the concept of expensive weddings. So what do I know?

    Sit back. Enjoy the show. Learn a bit about the Jewish religion and watch the struggles of a young teenage girl navigating hte world and a father's equally painful struggle with watching his little girls grow up.
    5hala-zabaneh1981

    Meh

    Good for kids I think. Although...I will still give it a 5 because the adults were quite funny. Also the older sister haha. But the rest was just annoying. Then again it was not meant for my group age.

    It is a family business movie. Obviously it was made so they can bank from it and also so they can work together. The latter is kinda cute because why not! Must have been fun for the girls to work with mom and Dad on set haha. I know I would! Lucky ladies.

    Otherwise its just a silly movie. Although not sure we should encourage girls to believe that they become adults at the age of 13 especially at this day and age. But hey who am I to judge a whole culture. All I say is be careful and being a kid is a precious time! Enjoy it while you can.
    6paul_m_haakonsen

    Enjoyable teen comedy...

    While I am not particularly a fan of Adam Sandler, then I still sat down to watch the 2023 comedy "You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah", as I was asked if I wanted to watch it. And I believed I was in for a traditional Adam Sandler comedy here, as I had heard nothing about the movie.

    Turns out that this was not your archetypical Adam Sandler comedy, for better or worse. Nay, this was a coming-of-age story of a girl having her Bat Mitzvah, but things don't go as planned. I will say that writers Alison Peck and Fiona Rosenbloom actually put together a good and enjoyable script for the movie. And while the movie might be aimed at a younger audience than what I fall into, then the movie actually was entertaining nonetheless.

    The acting performances in "You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah" were good, and it wasn't an Adam Sandler lead movie, for better or worse. I found it nice to see him in a support role here, and the leading young actresses Sunny Sandler (playing Stacy) and Samantha Lorraine (playing Lydia) carried the movie quite well. The movie had good acting performances and there were some good talents on the cast list.

    If you enjoy teen comedies, then "You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah" is a movie well-worth checking out and spending 103 minutes on watching. I was genuinely entertained by it.

    My rating of director Sammi Cohen's 2023 movie lands on a six out of ten stars.
    6kevin_robbins

    A unique take on the coming-of-age genre that is well worth your time

    My wife and I recently enjoyed You Are Not Invited to my Bat Mitzvah (2023) on Netflix. The story revolves around a teenager as she navigates the complexities of popularity, friendships, love interests, and her upcoming Bat Mitzvah.

    Directed by Sammi Cohen (Crush) and featuring a cast including Adam Sandler (Happy Gilmore), Luis Guzmán (Traffic), Jackie Sandler (Pixels), Sadie Sandler (Jack and Jill), and Samantha Lorraine (The Walking Dead: World Beyond).

    This coming-of-age film is a unique and somewhat uneven experience. The storyline incorporates a multitude of distinctive elements and perspectives, making for both entertaining and occasionally frustrating circumstances. Every situation depicted feels grounded, realistic, and authentic. The bond between the Sandler sisters and Adam Sandler adds a heartwarming touch, although the main character can be rather annoying at times. The resolution at the end is both worthwhile and rewarding. This has a sitcom caliber comedic content that's entertaining and fun.

    In conclusion, You Are Not Invited to my Bat Mitzvah offers a unique take on the coming-of-age genre that is well worth your time. I would give this a rating of 6/10 and strongly recommend checking it out.

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    • Trivia
      Although Sunny Sandler and Sadie Sandler have worked with their dad Adam Sandler before, this is their acting debut with him in a supporting role instead of as the main character.
    • Goofs
      Stacey's weekly Torah portion is Ki Tisa, the story of the Golden Calf. Based on the Jewish calendar, this is read in the winter. But Stacey's bat mitzvah is in June.
    • Quotes

      Bree Friedman: D'your mom and dad know we're taking you?

      Lydia Rodriguez Katz: Well, I told my mom, and she told dad's lawyer, so were good to go.

    • Connections
      Features Chucky, la poupée de sang (1990)
    • Soundtracks
      10 Things I Hate About You
      Written by Leah Kate (as Leah Kate Kalmenson), Mike Wise (as Michael Joseph Wise) and Madison Yanofsky

      Performed by Leah Kate

      Courtesy of TenThousand Projects/Virgin Music

      Under license from Universal Music Enterprises

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    • Release date
      • August 25, 2023 (France)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Official sites
      • Film Sözlük
      • Komedi Filmleri
    • Languages
      • English
      • Hebrew
    • Also known as
      • ¡No estás invitada a mi bat mitzvah!
    • Filming locations
      • Toronto, Ontario, Canada
    • Production companies
      • Alloy Entertainment
      • Happy Madison Productions
      • Netflix
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      • $27,000,000 (estimated)
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    • Runtime
      1 hour 43 minutes
    • Color
      • Color
    • Sound mix
      • Dolby Digital
    • Aspect ratio
      • 2.39:1

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