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Tu peux oublier ma bat-mitsva!

Original title: You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah
  • 2023
  • PG-13
  • 1h 43m
IMDb RATING
5.9/10
26K
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POPULARITY
3,785
1,974
Adam Sandler, Idina Menzel, Jackie Sandler, Samantha Lorraine, Sadie Sandler, Sunny Sandler, and Dylan Hoffman in Tu peux oublier ma bat-mitsva! (2023)
It follows Stacey Friedman as she prepares for her bat mitzvah, but her plans comedically unravel and threaten to ruin the event.
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Stacy and Lydia are BFFs who've always dreamed about having epic Bat Mitzvahs. However, things start to go comically awry when a popular boy and middle school drama threatens their friendshi... Read allStacy and Lydia are BFFs who've always dreamed about having epic Bat Mitzvahs. However, things start to go comically awry when a popular boy and middle school drama threatens their friendship and their rite of passage.Stacy and Lydia are BFFs who've always dreamed about having epic Bat Mitzvahs. However, things start to go comically awry when a popular boy and middle school drama threatens their friendship and their rite of passage.

  • Director
    • Sammi Cohen
  • Writers
    • Alison Peck
    • Fiona Rosenbloom
  • Stars
    • Idina Menzel
    • Jackie Sandler
    • Adam Sandler
  • See production info at IMDbPro
  • IMDb RATING
    5.9/10
    26K
    YOUR RATING
    POPULARITY
    3,785
    1,974
    • Director
      • Sammi Cohen
    • Writers
      • Alison Peck
      • Fiona Rosenbloom
    • Stars
      • Idina Menzel
      • Jackie Sandler
      • Adam Sandler
    • 157User reviews
    • 59Critic reviews
    • 71Metascore
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Awards
      • 2 wins & 2 nominations total

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    Idina Menzel
    Idina Menzel
    • Bree Friedman
    Jackie Sandler
    Jackie Sandler
    • Gabi Rodriguez Katz
    Adam Sandler
    Adam Sandler
    • Danny Friedman
    Sadie Sandler
    Sadie Sandler
    • Ronnie Friedman
    Sunny Sandler
    Sunny Sandler
    • Stacy Friedman
    Samantha Lorraine
    Samantha Lorraine
    • Lydia Rodriguez Katz
    Dylan Hoffman
    Dylan Hoffman
    • Andy Goldfarb
    Sarah Sherman
    Sarah Sherman
    • Rabbi Rebecca
    Dan Bulla
    Dan Bulla
    • Cantor Jerry
    Ido Mosseri
    Ido Mosseri
    • DJ Schmuley
    Jackie Hoffman
    Jackie Hoffman
    • Irene
    Luis Guzmán
    Luis Guzmán
    • Eli Katz
    Dean Scott Vazquez
    Dean Scott Vazquez
    • Mateo
    Miya Cech
    Miya Cech
    • Kym Chang Cohen
    Ivory Baker
    Ivory Baker
    • Megan Levy
    Dylan Chloe Dash
    Dylan Chloe Dash
    • Tara
    • (as Dylan Dash)
    Millie Thorpe
    Millie Thorpe
    • Nikki
    Zaara Kuttemperoor
    Zaara Kuttemperoor
    • Zaara
    • Director
      • Sammi Cohen
    • Writers
      • Alison Peck
      • Fiona Rosenbloom
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    User reviews157

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    6michaelvanviersen

    I dont know how people are rating this badly

    Somehow this movie is getting rated badly, it isnt that bad. Hopefully people give it some decent numbers to try and change the star rating to what it should be.

    Its a classic Sandler movie, but you can tell theres been some real thought put into this one.

    Theres some good laughs and tear jerkers and it has a good story. Its a decent comedy and worth the watch.

    It will be interesting to see where the sandler girls go from here you can tell this is the start of something big for them as there is some true talent there.

    A well done flick with laughs about the highs and lows of becoming a adult, watch it and dont be the jerk giving it 2 stars.
    7ellic1

    Delightful coming of age film

    I can't say that I'm an Adam Sandler fan but i have liked some of his work. This film is one of them.

    I was exhausted and decided to crash in front of the TV. I started Netflix and the movie started before I could see what else was on. I was too lazy to change it.

    Sandler did a put together a very enjoyable and poignant film. The writing is good as are the directing and editing. His daughters have talent and felt at home in their parts. And I just loved Luis Guzman as a Jewish father.

    The movie is obviously a coming of age film and it depicted the trauma and joy that can engulf a family, in this case Jewish, at a critical developmental point in life.
    6pawanpunjabithewriter

    Light, Bittersweet Teen Turmoil

    The movie steps into the realm of teenage comedy, attempting to blend heartwarming moments with the chaos of preparing for a significant event. While the film brings a certain charm to the screen, it struggles to break free from the confines of its predictable storyline.

    The protagonist's journey is meant to be a comedic rollercoaster, but it sometimes feels more like a leisurely stroll. The film toys with the concept of a teenage coming-of-age story, yet the execution often falls into familiar territory, failing to fully explore the potential of its premise.

    Adam Sandler's presence lends the film a sense of familiarity and saves the movie big time. His natural comedic prowess shines through even in a supporting role. The young cast, including Sandler's daughters, adds a touch of authenticity to the teenage interactions, occasionally delivering moments of genuine humor and relatability. The chemistry among the younger actors, Idina, Jackie, Samantha is evident and carries the movie through its lighter moments.

    Although the film falls short in truly engaging the audience, the background score kept entertaining. The attempts at humor sometimes land flat, and the character development often remains surface-level. What it majorly lacks is stronger character arcs. Even though the writing is quite so-so, the execution looks weaker.

    On the brighter side it manages to present relatable teenage dynamics and familial interactions with a certain warmth. The themes of growing up, friendship, and family love are visible threads woven into the narrative adding to it a humorous chick-flick. Yet, the film occasionally stumbles in balancing these elements, resulting in a movie that can't quite decide whether it wants to be a heartfelt family story or a zany teen comedy.

    With its mix of endearing moments and missed opportunities, it manages to evoke a few smiles but leaves room for improvement. For those seeking a lighthearted diversion, the film may have its moments, but it won't be taking center stage among the classics of the teen comedy genre.
    6paul_m_haakonsen

    Enjoyable teen comedy...

    While I am not particularly a fan of Adam Sandler, then I still sat down to watch the 2023 comedy "You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah", as I was asked if I wanted to watch it. And I believed I was in for a traditional Adam Sandler comedy here, as I had heard nothing about the movie.

    Turns out that this was not your archetypical Adam Sandler comedy, for better or worse. Nay, this was a coming-of-age story of a girl having her Bat Mitzvah, but things don't go as planned. I will say that writers Alison Peck and Fiona Rosenbloom actually put together a good and enjoyable script for the movie. And while the movie might be aimed at a younger audience than what I fall into, then the movie actually was entertaining nonetheless.

    The acting performances in "You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah" were good, and it wasn't an Adam Sandler lead movie, for better or worse. I found it nice to see him in a support role here, and the leading young actresses Sunny Sandler (playing Stacy) and Samantha Lorraine (playing Lydia) carried the movie quite well. The movie had good acting performances and there were some good talents on the cast list.

    If you enjoy teen comedies, then "You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah" is a movie well-worth checking out and spending 103 minutes on watching. I was genuinely entertained by it.

    My rating of director Sammi Cohen's 2023 movie lands on a six out of ten stars.
    Fanjina342434

    It's hokey but really OK!

    Very familiar story but cute film! Think diary of a wimpy kid but female. I liked the Sandler girls in this movie! I thought Sunny was great in her role as Stacy. I thought the role of Andy G ("factssss") was perfect for what this role was going for. I know this is an Adam Sandler movie but it's also feeling like a hand off of comedic career to his daughters. His eldest was very funny in it even though i felt more of her was needed. It is touching to see him older as dad and the focus on his daughter. It's a young teen vibe and movie. The actress playing Lydia was very good too as was the friend Kyle. He was ADORABLE! But we didn't see enough of him unfortunately. The Mateo kid I didn't really get , he is awkwardly younger and the flirting between him and the lead felt just as awkward as the accent they have him trying to use. But if they were going for awkward i guess they hit it? I also loved the character of the rabbi- the actress is from SNL and she was really fun to watch. The story has been done in different ways and I found it interesting they did the "dear god..." thing like in the Margaret film/books but overall it's a film where the chemistry between the two leading actresses as well as the sisters felt very authentic. I thought Adam as dad was sweet and honestly it was also sweet that he took a backseat to his daughter. She really did a great job!

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    • Trivia
      Although Sunny Sandler and Sadie Sandler have worked with their dad Adam Sandler before, this is their acting debut with him in a supporting role instead of as the main character.
    • Goofs
      Stacey's weekly Torah portion is Ki Tisa, the story of the Golden Calf. Based on the Jewish calendar, this is read in the winter. But Stacey's bat mitzvah is in June.
    • Quotes

      Bree Friedman: D'your mom and dad know we're taking you?

      Lydia Rodriguez Katz: Well, I told my mom, and she told dad's lawyer, so were good to go.

    • Connections
      Features Chucky, la poupée de sang (1990)
    • Soundtracks
      10 Things I Hate About You
      Written by Leah Kate (as Leah Kate Kalmenson), Mike Wise (as Michael Joseph Wise) and Madison Yanofsky

      Performed by Leah Kate

      Courtesy of TenThousand Projects/Virgin Music

      Under license from Universal Music Enterprises

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    • Release date
      • August 25, 2023 (France)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Official sites
      • Film Sözlük
      • Komedi Filmleri
    • Languages
      • English
      • Hebrew
    • Also known as
      • ¡No estás invitada a mi bat mitzvah!
    • Filming locations
      • Toronto, Ontario, Canada
    • Production companies
      • Alloy Entertainment
      • Happy Madison Productions
      • Netflix
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    • Budget
      • $27,000,000 (estimated)
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    • Runtime
      1 hour 43 minutes
    • Color
      • Color
    • Sound mix
      • Dolby Digital
    • Aspect ratio
      • 2.39:1

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