Carmen & Bolude

This film captures a search for identity under the guise of getting married. The lead characters find themselves, and acceptance, while following a trail of love and hope and new beginnings.

Insights are provided by random people from different cultural backgrounds who find themselves and provide guidance for knowing yourself.

Love, friendship, and family are woven together and provide a rich backdrop for acceptance. Knowing who you are and who you want to be are so wrapped up in cultural differences which end up demonstrating the similarities.

Such a beautiful and heartfelt movie, with laughs, tears, and everything in between.

Still thinking about this movie now, weeks after I watched it.

Did I love it because I have always struggled with my identity a bit? Did I love it because my friend co-created it?

I loved it because it's just a really great, complex movie that gets into hard topics with a tonne of humour, lovable characters, great locations and a sense of warmth that wraps around you like your favourite old jumper - full of memories and impossible to live without.

What really stayed with me was how effortlessly the film moved between laugh-out-loud absurdity and these beautifully vulnerable moments. It never felt preachy, never tried to teach you anything outright - but somehow you left feeling a little more open, a little more seen.

Carmen and Bolude's friendship is the kind of movie relationship I love: messy, hilarious and real. There's something so powerful about seeing two women - each from wildly different cultural backgrounds - lean into each other's chaos.

And let's talk about the '100 Welcomes' moment. What could have easily become a gimmick turns out to be one of the most joyful sequences I've seen on screen. Not just because it's heartwarming, but because it shows what belonging can look like - strange, stitched-together, sometimes awkward but fully human.

I also think this is the kind of story that will land somewhere inside anyone who's ever felt between places, between expectations or between versions of themselves.

More like this, please. Xx.

It is an amazing movie, addressing the societal issues we face but delivering it in an easy to digest manner.

While dealing with important issues, the use of comic relief to lighten the mood is a welcome development.

The movie also made me be in all my feels as the actors made me feel what they felt. Laughing at the funny moments and crying too when the actors had to deal deep and personal issues.

I love how inclusive and intentional they were to ensure the authenticity of the characters and portrayal of the cultures represented in the movie.

It is such an entertaining and informative movie.

Carmen & Bolude is genuinely funny, with laugh-out-loud moments throughout the whole film. Even the emotional scenes were supported and relieved by touches of humour, ensuring that the film didn't drag like a straight emotional drama.

The characters are chaotic and flawed yet so loveable, and you can't help rooting for them. The two female leads are exceptional and it was refreshing to see a womance (rather than another bromance).

It was also great to see male characters who were there, not to outshine the women, but to support and bolster them.

Overall, it's just great to see an Australian comedy that's actually funny!

I'm not normally a movie goer but I was invited to the Australian premier of Carmen and Bolude and thought "sure, could be fun". It was more than that. This movie explored themes of friendship, home, love (romantic and familial) and culture. More importantly it explored how they intersect. If it had been delivered as a drama it probably would have bored me to tears. Instead, the comedic approach lightened what could have been dark moments and had me laughing. There were also moments where my tears flowed freely. I can't remember the last time a film moved me as much as this one did. Watch this movie. You won't regret it!