Uncoupled

I am a 60 year-old gay man. This is a typical Darren Star fantasy fest. I HATE the fact that people watch this, and think that THIS is gay culture. Rich, New York gay men, behaving in the most ridiculous manner imaginable. It's a total cliché.

Yes, I loved "Sex and the City," as obnoxious as it often is. A cartoon.

I sat down, and watched this with four gay men. They lasted four episodes - I stayed through the end.

GIVE. IT. A. REST. With this elitist fantasy world. Perhaps it's your reality, but it does NOT represent gay men.

Most gay men are not ripped, and avoid carbs. And live in expensive homes. And act like jerks.

Just cringe-worthy, at every level. Neil Patrick Harris, are you having an identity crisis?

Ohhhhhhhh, LAME Grindr jokes. Check out the movie "Pit Stop," for a truly meaningful gay experience.

Best thing about this series: the stunning aerials of new York City.

Worst: most of the rest.

Seems so unrealistic and listening to Michael whine for eight episodes was a bit much, despite his probably having good cause. And although I like Harris, it was hard to believe all those young hot men would instantly fall into his arms (and bed.)

Most endearing character was Suzanne; least was Claire. Character who should have had a bigger part: Jack. Smaller part: Claire.

Was too hard to relate to this sub-section of society (rich people not doing much to make the world a better place.)

Very relatable to any person (any sexual orientation) who had been in a relationship for decades and finds themselves starting over. The grief of losing that person, the self doubt, all the insecurities coupled with great, supportive friends. That said the cast was great! Looking forward to Netflix renewal for season 2, want to see what's next for ALL of the characters.

Let me start by saying that a gay rom-com shouldn't and can't be "all things to all people" who try to identify with it, any more than "The Dick Van Dyke Show" represents every straight American couple who happens to write for a hit TV show and lives in New Rochelle. I tire of people who say "well, this isn't me." It's not supposed to be you, nor could it reflect every viewer watching it. I enjoyed the peek into the life of NYC real estate agents as much as I did seeing the main characters struggle with their identities. At first, it sported too many cliches, but the cast was likable and the story kept moving forward. I stayed with it, and the final two episodes really paid off. I found myself laughing and crying, which was unexpected. Try not to pin a heavy agenda on this (or any TV show), and just enjoy a mainstream gay rom-com that might not tick off all the boxes, but still provides plenty of entertainment in the comedy-drama dept.

As another middle-aged gay man writing a review of this, I'm on the boat of this show is just not very good. I so wanted to love it. I watched the whole season and I'm happy that this is not my social circle in any way, shape or form. It's all super shallow characters putting on the facade of caring and emotion. It's just one stereotype after another parading through scenes. It's surreptitiously judgmental and cruel in the guise of sarcasm and cutesy snark. A cast of great actors are utterly let down and left in a wasteland of a vapid script and storyline. And I didn't mention the female characters because they're such an afterthought and underwritten in this show that it's a disservice to the great Tisha Campbell and Marcia Gay Harden to even bring it up. Why bother when the writers didn't?