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Toi, lui, elle et nous

Original title: Du Sie Er & Wir
  • 2021
  • 13
  • 1h 28m
IMDb RATING
5.4/10
1.6K
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Paula Kalenberg, Jonas Nay, Nilam Farooq, and Louis Nitsche in Toi, lui, elle et nous (2021)
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After a four-week partner swap, two couples meet again in a remote beach house and discover that everything has changed. Suddenly, their feelings are put to the test and they start reevaluat... Read allAfter a four-week partner swap, two couples meet again in a remote beach house and discover that everything has changed. Suddenly, their feelings are put to the test and they start reevaluating their life choices and expectations.After a four-week partner swap, two couples meet again in a remote beach house and discover that everything has changed. Suddenly, their feelings are put to the test and they start reevaluating their life choices and expectations.

  • Director
    • Florian Gottschick
  • Writers
    • Florian Gottschick
    • Florian von Bornstädt
  • Stars
    • Nilam Farooq
    • Louis Nitsche
    • Jonas Nay
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  • IMDb RATING
    5.4/10
    1.6K
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    • Director
      • Florian Gottschick
    • Writers
      • Florian Gottschick
      • Florian von Bornstädt
    • Stars
      • Nilam Farooq
      • Louis Nitsche
      • Jonas Nay
    • 10User reviews
    • 9Critic reviews
  • See production info at IMDbPro
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    • Director
      • Florian Gottschick
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      • Florian Gottschick
      • Florian von Bornstädt
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    5play-me-a-symphony

    Promising beginning and middle

    Promising beginning and middle, but a very disappointing ending. Just riddle me this - why or, rather, how, was she throwing up, if you watched the film to the end?.. Does not make sense.

    Ditto with the sleeping pills. How is this review too short? Ok, here are more letters. And more. Still not enough letters?.. Good acting, good premise, disappointing ending as, a the result, a disappointing movie.

    Promising beginning and middle, but a very disappointing ending. Just riddle me this - why or, rather, how, was she throwing up, if you watched the film to the end?.. Does not make sense.

    Ditto with the sleeping pills. How is this review too short? Ok, here are more letters. And more. Still not enough letters?.. Good acting, good premise, disappointing ending as, a the result, a disappointing movie.
    6imatthenry

    Promising Concept, but They Forgot the Screenwriter

    The premise of _Du Sie Er & Wir_ (The Four of Us) starts off promising: four friends, two couples, a partner-swapping experiment lasting four weeks, all governed by the rules of an "adult experiment." The stage is perfectly set for a biting, provocative, and daring social critique.

    The problem is that as the film unfolds, it becomes increasingly clear that someone forgot to hire a real screenwriter. The script relies on superficial dialogue, predictable situations, and characters who-despite the actors' efforts-fail to rise above the surface.

    There's a lack of dramatic depth. The film seems lost between its desire to be provocative and its reluctance to truly dig deep, resulting in a flimsy development with no narrative pulse and no real evolution of conflict. The "big idea" is there-yes, the critique of traditional relationship models, the exploration of desire, insecurity, envy, and jealousy-but everything remains at the level of intention.

    The writing is apathetic, unable to truly provoke the viewer or deliver any genuine discomfort. The characters are underdeveloped, and this is a basic error: there's no emotional evolution, no impact. The script merely skims the surface of its major themes without the courage to dive in, as if it's afraid to get its hands dirty. The result is a film that promises revolution and delivers little more than empty talk disguised as "contemporary drama."

    In the end, _Du Sie Er & Wir_ is a beautiful display window with no product. It has style, it has aesthetic, it has that pretentious "look how modern and free we are" attitude, but it lacks substance, courage, and structure. I give it a 6, and I might be being generous. The film lacked a script, but had plenty of attitude.
    6kosmasp

    Who with whom and why

    Well you probably won't ask too many questions and if you can't suspend your disbelief and get behind the idea of the movie ... and its characters, you may have issues staying interested throughout. That being said, the movie has some neat ideas and twists throughout.

    Not everything works drama wise I'd say and you may feel more annoyed than connected with the people involved. But the movie does a decent job overall to explore all the relationships and the impact intense and intimate connections can have ... and what they mean for the future. Not great, but not a bad movie overall and quite well acted too.
    6witra_as

    Not ideal but quite interesting subject

    Not ideal but quite interesting German dramedy about swapping partners. Florian Gottschick brought philosophical approach into troublesome relationships. Four leads had more exchanges than sex and held our own opinion towards 'em till its flimsy plot twist.
    1sebastianaster

    Watch out: This MOVIE involves very mean Spoiler of GOT

    In a very unexpected situation, this movie spoilers the end of Game of Thrones because the characters talk about the series. In my opinion, this is an absolute taboo! Hence: only one star.

    Besides from that: average dramedy with some funny moments. ;)

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    • Release date
      • October 15, 2021 (France)
    • Country of origin
      • Germany
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    • Language
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