Enamorandonos

My husband and I got hooked on the show several months now, but we are about to stop watching it altogether. We like the witty banter between the 'flechados' but it seems like it is slim-pickens these days because the guests have nothing to say. Understandably it must be very nerve wracking to be on TV but for the sake of us Viewers, be a little more picky with the auditions. Plus some of the match-ups are ridiculous. Yes, one should not be SHALLOW, however, my husband now just gets up and goes to his office when he sees someone show up that there is no way in hell they will be 'chosen' to hit the bar. Also, can they please STOP with these super long dragged out declarations of love and weddings and proposals. Keep it short. Enough already, congratulations, move on.

When they started was a promise of a show , but now it is just boring , bringing in all the good looking people , models , just to save their rating , but it is turning bad.....because you can see that "ugly" people have no place there , are just sent home ......keeping only the "good looking " on the show......and now who's joing the show , it is a nice looking person who just want to be on TV , or coming for modeling.....and i think that the ones seating on the "park" , are being paid to be there to save the show......just boring...!!! Lets be real....

A huge majority of people wasting their time and effort and staying away from loved ones to fail at finding love. Not to mention the male host being a humongous clown.

Who celebrates every 100 episodes? Waste of time.

Contestants are constantly turning down others and when they do say yes, it is only for a day or so. Their "success" rate is horrible.

I think that some contestants only go to that show because the show pays for their flight, hotel and dinners. And it's way too long at two hours.

And big people stand no chance at all. Always being turned down because of their size.

Cancel it.

I feel embarrassed to say that I do watch the show for its entertainment value. The show comes from a show that genuinely wants to make people experience their fairy tales, but it rarely success because it appears that other things do matter more to the participants, like Instagram followers or senseless toxicity just to get some attention. The show shows the superficial core in American society, where beauty and shallowness are priced. Like any other reality TV, the show is devoid of authentic or interesting ideas, focusing on low-level interpersonal drama caused by the participants, who, for the most part, do not even know what they are looking for (the butterflies at first sight is just another sigh of the superficial nature of society) or even why they are even on the show on the first place. Sometimes they just want fame and have not really done anything exceptional to deserve it. Celebrity for its own sake is a sort of soul-sucking medium.

Enamorandomes can tear up a person's life because of trivialities such as the way they look on camera. It is harder on older people or people who have had little or zero experience in dating. The hosts Rafael and Ana Maria sometimes like to play Cupido's role and force a relationship where there is no space for love to grow. Rafael's sense of humor keeps the show alive, but at the same time, he can break people's lives by using sarcasm/ making fun/offending their responses on such a big show. As any other reality show, there is something real but also something scripted, sad, and pathetic behind the scenes.

At the end of the day, the spectators never know what really happened to the relationships that were so promising and ended up badly. There have been cases of abuse in the show and the hosts never side with the victim or even try to expose the abuser or to stop other innocent people from being mistreated by the same person again. There is also something cruel, judgmental, and powerful about watching the failures/ offenses of people who are not you. It is the same deal as a gruesome car crash: you want to look away, but you must see the horror. There is a civil responsibility that comes with television. What you put in the minds of the viewers will have a small or big impact. From a moral viewpoint, Enamorandonos causes more harm than good and should be cancelled immediately.

For everyone who wants to participate and be part of the audience, save yourself a bad moment. We made the reservations for a specific time and at the last hour we received a call changing the time to an hour earlier. After we arrived, they had some refreshments and bags of chips for the audience. I didn't finish mine and put it inside my pocketbook. Before you go Into the studio there are 2 checkpoints like when you enter a federal building. The first one checks inside your bag and if they find food they make you toss it. The 2nd checkpoint is for metal detectors like when you go to the airport. Once you can go inside DON'T DARE TO SIT DOWN WITHOUT GOING TO THE BATHROOM FIRST. I went in to secure my seat and leave my small pocketbook on the chair and then, I wanted to go to the bathroom after waiting outside the studio for 70 minutes with no bathroom access. One of the producers told me you needed to do that before sitting down but in a very despotic way. After another producer sat me in one place, another one came and overruled the other producer and changed me again as if I were a puppet. That day half of the audience chairs were empty. I can understand why now. The producer told me that when I wanted to go to the bathroom, I needed to let her know, which I did. It was in vain because she didn't allow me until another producer gave the order for everyone to go at the same time. Of course, the bathroom was full and you had to make a line to be able to use 2 stalls. Production provided everyone with plastic glasses and plastic collars to make it look like it was all fun and good times to once the filming is over ask for it back. It is a very good way to transmit covid or any other disease. Never again I will go back.