This is the story of women those are live in polygamy life. It's about their consequence to accept the status as other wife.This is the story of women those are live in polygamy life. It's about their consequence to accept the status as other wife.This is the story of women those are live in polygamy life. It's about their consequence to accept the status as other wife.
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Dominique Agisca Diyose
- Ming
- (as Dominique)
Tio Pakusadewo
- Koh Abun
- (as Tio Pakusodewo)
Rieke Diah Pitaloka
- Dwi
- (as Rieke Dyah Pitaloka)
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If I put all of my favorites Indonesian films on the wall, "Berbagi Suami" would surely be on the very top.
The idea of intertwining characters; complete with their own unique encounter with polygamy - in so many different circumstances, that accidentally meets along the story is BRILLIANT!! Beautifully presented with precision timing that puts us in complete awe.
The film would surely stab the conscious so many Indonesians that either being involved within or even considering to get into the realm of polygamy.
A surely smart yet amusingly funny in a way, a film really worth watching.
The idea of intertwining characters; complete with their own unique encounter with polygamy - in so many different circumstances, that accidentally meets along the story is BRILLIANT!! Beautifully presented with precision timing that puts us in complete awe.
The film would surely stab the conscious so many Indonesians that either being involved within or even considering to get into the realm of polygamy.
A surely smart yet amusingly funny in a way, a film really worth watching.
As an indonesian people I like this film very much. I think this film is one the best film from indonesia for year 2006.
Its a dark comedy that tell a story about polygamy in Indonesia. divided in three parts, each story connected in a coincidence way. Each part also display polygamy in Indonesia in different perspectives as well.
I think this film will have deeper meaning if one understands the background story and tradition in indonesia. Such as why a smart woman *she is a doctor* still accepted her husband to marry another woman. This condition would be understandable if you understand the religion of that woman, and so on.
Overall as an indonesian people I would like to rate this film as 8/10 for such a interesting storyline. But I imagine it would be 7/10 for common viewer .
Its a dark comedy that tell a story about polygamy in Indonesia. divided in three parts, each story connected in a coincidence way. Each part also display polygamy in Indonesia in different perspectives as well.
I think this film will have deeper meaning if one understands the background story and tradition in indonesia. Such as why a smart woman *she is a doctor* still accepted her husband to marry another woman. This condition would be understandable if you understand the religion of that woman, and so on.
Overall as an indonesian people I would like to rate this film as 8/10 for such a interesting storyline. But I imagine it would be 7/10 for common viewer .
An Indonesian friend gave me this DVD, and I wish it could get a wider audience. The English subtitles are easy to follow. The characters are complex. It is not simply "polygamy is bad."
I just got the opportunity to watch this movie on VCD, and it was such a splendid time.
I can definitely say that comparing this film with such a highly pretentious horse s**t as 'Ekskul' was like comparing Heaven and Hell! ('Berbagi Suami' as Heaven, of course...) I honestly can't understand what the FFI-committee thought when they picked Ekskul as Best Picture. Furthermore, that horse s**t also won Best Director!! Oh, come on, give me a f**king break, will you?! Giving a 'Best Director' award to a director that, apparently, disliked 'The Godfather'?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! They should have given the award for Picture and Director to this movie, instead! Berbagi Suami is an earnest, simple film about three families adopting a polygamy way of life, and many consequences (not a few are dire ones) that they have to face. It is funny at times, heartbreaking, and will bring smiles to all the audiences.
Maybe the members of the FFI committee are just too cheesy to pick a film as beautiful as this one.
I can definitely say that comparing this film with such a highly pretentious horse s**t as 'Ekskul' was like comparing Heaven and Hell! ('Berbagi Suami' as Heaven, of course...) I honestly can't understand what the FFI-committee thought when they picked Ekskul as Best Picture. Furthermore, that horse s**t also won Best Director!! Oh, come on, give me a f**king break, will you?! Giving a 'Best Director' award to a director that, apparently, disliked 'The Godfather'?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! They should have given the award for Picture and Director to this movie, instead! Berbagi Suami is an earnest, simple film about three families adopting a polygamy way of life, and many consequences (not a few are dire ones) that they have to face. It is funny at times, heartbreaking, and will bring smiles to all the audiences.
Maybe the members of the FFI committee are just too cheesy to pick a film as beautiful as this one.
10savatose
It's one of Indonesian main issues nowadays.. Polygamy can happen to anybody, rich/poor people, well educated/low educated, rural/urban.
In the movies, polygamy describe without prejudice, just go with the flow, allow viewers to decide is Polygamy a good thing or a bad thing? It has 3 sides of the story. First, a wealthy doctor woman who found out that her husband have more than 1 wife. Second, a rural girl in the city & marry her supposed to be uncle or something (I kinda forgot :P) live in a small house with his other wife & kids. Third, a young Chinese girl fall in love (or in lust?) with her boss who happen to be married. The maker of the movie no doubt have her inspiration from the scene and music from Wong karwai movies, or those kind of typical movies, but still have her own style.
About polygamy it self: Some of the people that conduct polygamy said that they want to help other by marrying them (save them from poverty), some of them said that it's better than cheating (because it's allow by the religion & it's not perceive as sin. For me polygamy is a disguise for satisfying a man Lust and his Greediness. Even if he said that to save from poverty, the first reason always got to do with his "Penis". In Al Quran it self said that a man can conduct polygamy only if it fair to the wife (especially the first wife that 100% will always refuse "dimadu"/ polygamy, that's why the man always never ask for permission to have a second wife with his first wife, because they will says no!) so, it's not a fair deal isn't it....
Btw, Watch the movie...You'll love it! :)
In the movies, polygamy describe without prejudice, just go with the flow, allow viewers to decide is Polygamy a good thing or a bad thing? It has 3 sides of the story. First, a wealthy doctor woman who found out that her husband have more than 1 wife. Second, a rural girl in the city & marry her supposed to be uncle or something (I kinda forgot :P) live in a small house with his other wife & kids. Third, a young Chinese girl fall in love (or in lust?) with her boss who happen to be married. The maker of the movie no doubt have her inspiration from the scene and music from Wong karwai movies, or those kind of typical movies, but still have her own style.
About polygamy it self: Some of the people that conduct polygamy said that they want to help other by marrying them (save them from poverty), some of them said that it's better than cheating (because it's allow by the religion & it's not perceive as sin. For me polygamy is a disguise for satisfying a man Lust and his Greediness. Even if he said that to save from poverty, the first reason always got to do with his "Penis". In Al Quran it self said that a man can conduct polygamy only if it fair to the wife (especially the first wife that 100% will always refuse "dimadu"/ polygamy, that's why the man always never ask for permission to have a second wife with his first wife, because they will says no!) so, it's not a fair deal isn't it....
Btw, Watch the movie...You'll love it! :)
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- TriviaOfficial submission of Indonesia the 'Best Foreign Language Film' category of the 79th Academy Awards in 2007.
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