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Wilbur

Original title: Wilbur Wants to Kill Himself
  • 2002
  • R
  • 1h 51m
IMDb RATING
6.8/10
8.2K
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Jamie Sives in Wilbur (2002)
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The chronically suicidal Wilbur, and his good-hearted big brother, Harbour, are in their thirties when, their father dies and leaves them with nothing but a worn down second-hand bookshop in... Read allThe chronically suicidal Wilbur, and his good-hearted big brother, Harbour, are in their thirties when, their father dies and leaves them with nothing but a worn down second-hand bookshop in Glasgow.The chronically suicidal Wilbur, and his good-hearted big brother, Harbour, are in their thirties when, their father dies and leaves them with nothing but a worn down second-hand bookshop in Glasgow.

  • Director
    • Lone Scherfig
  • Writers
    • Lone Scherfig
    • Anders Thomas Jensen
  • Stars
    • Jamie Sives
    • Adrian Rawlins
    • Shirley Henderson
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  • IMDb RATING
    6.8/10
    8.2K
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    • Director
      • Lone Scherfig
    • Writers
      • Lone Scherfig
      • Anders Thomas Jensen
    • Stars
      • Jamie Sives
      • Adrian Rawlins
      • Shirley Henderson
    • 52User reviews
    • 63Critic reviews
    • 69Metascore
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Awards
      • 10 wins & 21 nominations total

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    Jamie Sives
    Jamie Sives
    • Wilbur
    Adrian Rawlins
    Adrian Rawlins
    • Harbour
    Shirley Henderson
    Shirley Henderson
    • Alice
    Lisa McKinlay
    • Mary
    Mads Mikkelsen
    Mads Mikkelsen
    • Horst
    Julia Davis
    Julia Davis
    • Moira
    Susan Vidler
    Susan Vidler
    • Sophie
    Robert McIntosh
    • Taylor
    Lorraine McIntosh
    • Ruby
    Gordon Brown
    Gordon Brown
    • Wayne
    Mhairi Morrison
    • Claire
    • (as Mhairi Steenbock)
    Andrew Townsley
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    Coral Preston
    • Jenny
    Colin McAllister
    • Male Supervisor
    Owen Gorman
    • Porter
    John Yule
    • Alan's Father
    Anne Marie Timoney
    • Night Nurse
    Martin O'Connor
    • Suicide Patient 1
    • Director
      • Lone Scherfig
    • Writers
      • Lone Scherfig
      • Anders Thomas Jensen
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    9rainking_es

    A celebration of life... and suicide

    "Wilbur wants to kill himself" is a (so)moving parable about how easy is to let yourself die when everything seems meaningless and how hard is to live when a disease is mining you.

    Wilbur looks like a nice guy, the kind of man women like, he's good-looking, he has a brother who loves him... it doesn't seem like his existence is that miserable. Nevertheless he wants to leave this world, that's one of men's last rights so he'll try to kill himself in any possible way. On the contrary, his brother Harbour is full of life, he's an enthusiastic person, he's in love and he's just get married... how ironic, he has an incurable cancer, but that won't stop him from clinging to life till the last consequences.

    Scherfig has moved away from the stupid DOGMA corset, and creates a perfect balance between the smile and the crying, tenderness and misanthropy, between life and death. She reduces the roughness of the hardest moments with a sarcastic turn or relying on the darkest sense of humor (that's always the best antidote against tragedy). Step by step she shows Wilbur the right way (and to all of us). No moral judgments, no dogmatism... there's no need to. Wilbur is a celebration of life, but is also a show of respect for those who don't wanna live anymore. Eventually it is a celebration of the best cinema: the one that makes you feel better.

    *My rate: 8.5/10
    10film_ophile

    A BIG 10! -quirky,lovely,just delightful

    i think sense of humor is just SUCH an individual thing. perhaps the more subtle the comedic approach, the more difficult to identify and align with. I myself found this film totally engaging, amusing and lovely. i did not know, at the time of viewing, that the director had made 3 or 4 other of my favorite films, On Our Own and Italian for Beginners being the most recent. The story itself is small but it's the screenplay and that quirky funny pervading sense of humor, that IS the film. two handsome, intelligent,gentle, interesting brothers have a deep love for each other. one is the older and responsible one, who runs the inherited family used book shop. the younger one makes a career out of trying to kill himself. a sweet sad woman- with- daughter comes into their lives and the shag rug becomes a tapestry. all the acting is spot-on. the TERRIFIC screenwriters (the director being one of the two)had me caring about all of the characters. the silences, as much as the dialogue, are perfectly carried off and i really didn't feel there was a false out-of-place moment in the entire film. i saw the film last night (thank heavens for good public-library film-buyers)and the characters are in my mind today.i've a delighted smile on my face. a big 10 for me.
    7damienmuldoon

    tender little movie

    If you can get hold of this film it is well worth a look. Set in Scotland and telling the tale of a suicidal man whose life changes when he falls in love with single mother Shirley Henderson, it is both witty and sad in just the right measure. The love interest between the two leading characters is not straight forward and it is upon this dilemma that the film's plot revolves. Carefully directed, it never crosses the line into outright sentimentality although it does come dangerously close. Shirley Henderson is wonderful, as usual, but there are also strong performances from Jamie Sives and Adrian Rawlins. It is a low-key movie but a touching one that proves movies don't have to be violent, fast moving or steamy to entertain. Particularly suitable for lovers of kitchen sink romance.
    sparkle-14

    Twisted, modern take on 'Harold and Maud'

    Interesting film, but this viewer was far less impressed than the Scandinavian reviewers. Performances were great overall, though some deliveries of the clumsiest lines clunked (and Henderson's babydoll voice really irritates) Some great scenes, but the black comedy is uneven (lost in translation?)/ script patchy. All that bloody backstory for Wilbur-- was Harbour meant to be justifying the selfishness of his brother or.... what? Scherfig does a wonderful job in finding the humanity of difficult, odd characters (in 'Italian for beginners' too) Wish she'd cut the stuff that didn't work because it tries to hard to be odd. And more Mikkelsen please... what he evokes in the twitch of an eyebrow-- much more impressive than all that talk. Interesting but flawed... a director to watch, however.
    8ruby_fff

    Is this film really depressive as its title suggests? Not at all.

    This is one helluv a title, isn't it? Why would anyone want to see a movie with a seemingly death-impending title? I remember hearing about WILBUR on cable IFC's (Independent Film Channel) "At the Angelika" film previews. It's a film in English by writer-director Lone Scherfig from Denmark. I rather enjoy her previous film "Italian for Beginners" (2000) in Danish, Italian and English. (Might want to check out her mini-bio on IMDb - quite interesting to learn about a filmmaker's background.)

    "WILBUR wants to kill himself" is a small quiet film that actually has much human pathos. The three 'and a half' main leads: Harbour, the older brother who's closely protective of Wilbur, is sensitively played by Adrian Rawlins; Wilbur, the younger brother, is lively played (sounds like an oxymoron considering what the title suggests his role is) by Jamie Sives; Alice, the young woman who came into their lives, is subtly played by Shirley Henderson, and the critical 'half' being her little daughter Mary, aptly played by Lisa McKinlay - the portrayals and interplay were flawless. Didn't realize Rawlins is so talented - he was "Dr. Richardson" in Lars Von Trier's "Breaking the Waves" (1996) with the tour de force pair of Emily Watson and Stellan Skarsgard. (Noticed from the ending credit roll that Lars Von Trier was one of the two script consultants on this film.)

    The music by Joachim Holbek complements the daringly subdued theme and tone of this unusually titled film. Well, let's not be hung up on the title. Kudos to Scherfig for being so venturesome with the story and her script. Isn't life just so - uncertain, risky, not as one might expect all the time? Cheers to the full cast and crew for their willing participation and creative energy on this filmic journey. The film's a tear-jerker - wouldn't you know it - with dashes of bemused humor (little details and vignettes like at the Chinese restaurant, at the hospital ward, or by the river, and of course, in the bookstore and in the bedroom) - it's basically about where one's heart is. The plot creeps up on you - gradually the viewer is drawn into this three and a half-some world we see on screen, caring for the characters, worrying with them, sighing with them, smiling with them, and pulling for the best possible outcomes. We want them to somehow succeed - succeed in what? Now isn't day to day living about coping with whatever comes and listening to one's heart? Grand and unattainable philosophy? Not at all. It's also being attentive to the dear persons around us, in our lives, and give a little - don't wait. Wilbur just might learn to let go of himself, think less of himself, and surrender to loving life. That just might be what the title implied, perhaps? It may not be for everyone - see for yourself. "WILBUR wants to kill himself" deservedly worth your while.

    About the talented Shirley Henderson from Scotland: I've enjoyed her performance as Shirley, the wife & mother and love interest, opposite Robert Carlyle and Rhys Ifans in w-d Shane Meadows' "Once Upon a Time in the Midlands" (2002) - almost a similar menage a trois situation but less assertive than her role in "WILBUR." She's also in director John Crowley's "Intermission" (2003, script by Mark O'Rowe) - taken on, among the stellar cast, the rather offbeat yet still demure role of Sally (the script itself is plucky and unyielding alright - then again, it's probably quite 'normal' in the setting described) - another amusingly enjoyable film from Ireland if you're so gamed.

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    • Trivia
      One of a more or less successful series of foreign language film made by Danish filmmakers using Danish money, after the success of Danish language films around the world. Others include Breaking the Waves (1996), Dancer in the Dark (2000), It's all about love (2003), Dina (2002), Dogville (2003), Skagerrak (2003) and The King Is Alive (2000).
    • Quotes

      Harbour: Wilbur. When you were dead... what was it like?

      Wilbur: Harbour, you've got a hangover. You're not going to die.

      Harbour: Of course not. I know that. But what was it like?

      Wilbur: What do you mean?

      Harbour: Is there anything there? Is there some kind of huge white light?

      Wilbur: It's as dull as ditchwater. There's nothing. Just blackness and utter silence. It's a bit like being in Wales.

    • Connections
      Featured in Det store lærred: Wilbur begår selvmord (2002)
    • Soundtracks
      Auld Lang Syne
      (uncredited)

      (when Wilbur tries to cook the duck)

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    • Release date
      • December 1, 2004 (France)
    • Countries of origin
      • Denmark
      • United Kingdom
      • Sweden
      • France
    • Official site
      • Official site (Spain)
    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • Wilbur Wants to Kill Himself
    • Filming locations
      • Glasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland, UK
    • Production companies
      • Zentropa Entertainments
      • Wilbur Ltd.
      • Scottish Screen
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    • Budget
      • $4,000,000 (estimated)
    • Gross US & Canada
      • $235,294
    • Opening weekend US & Canada
      • $13,747
      • Mar 14, 2004
    • Gross worldwide
      • $1,873,482
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    • Runtime
      • 1h 51m(111 min)
    • Color
      • Color
    • Sound mix
      • Dolby Digital

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