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Confidences intimes

Original title: Thirteen Conversations About One Thing
  • 2001
  • R
  • 1h 44m
IMDb RATING
7.0/10
12K
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Confidences intimes (2001)
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Drama

In New York City, the lives of a lawyer, an actuary, a house-cleaner, a professor and the people around them intersect as they ponder order and happiness in the face of life's cold unpredict... Read allIn New York City, the lives of a lawyer, an actuary, a house-cleaner, a professor and the people around them intersect as they ponder order and happiness in the face of life's cold unpredictability.In New York City, the lives of a lawyer, an actuary, a house-cleaner, a professor and the people around them intersect as they ponder order and happiness in the face of life's cold unpredictability.

  • Director
    • Jill Sprecher
  • Writers
    • Karen Sprecher
    • Jill Sprecher
  • Stars
    • Alan Arkin
    • John Turturro
    • Matthew McConaughey
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  • IMDb RATING
    7.0/10
    12K
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • Jill Sprecher
    • Writers
      • Karen Sprecher
      • Jill Sprecher
    • Stars
      • Alan Arkin
      • John Turturro
      • Matthew McConaughey
    • 119User reviews
    • 34Critic reviews
    • 74Metascore
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Awards
      • 8 wins & 8 nominations total

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    13 Conversations About One Thing
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    Thirteen Conversations About One Thing: Show Me A Happy Man
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    Thirteen Conversations About One Thing: Show Me A Happy Man
    Thirteen Conversations About One Thing: The Shirt
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    Thirteen Conversations About One Thing: Jealous Of Smiley
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    Thirteen Conversations About One Thing: Jealous Of Smiley
    Thirteen Conversations About One Thing: Life Isn't Fair
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    Thirteen Conversations About One Thing: This Is What A Winner Looks Like
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    Alan Arkin
    Alan Arkin
    • Gene
    John Turturro
    John Turturro
    • Walker
    Matthew McConaughey
    Matthew McConaughey
    • Troy
    David Connolly
    David Connolly
    • Owen
    Joseph Siravo
    • Bureau Chief
    A.D. Miles
    A.D. Miles
    • Co-Worker
    Sig Libowitz
    Sig Libowitz
    • Assistant Attorney
    James Yaegashi
    James Yaegashi
    • Legal Assistant
    Dion Graham
    Dion Graham
    • Defense Attorney
    Fernando López
    • Defendant
    • (as Fernando Lopez)
    Brian Smiar
    • Judge
    Paul Austin
    • Bartender
    Allie Woods Jr.
    • Cab Driver
    • (as Allie Woods)
    Amy Irving
    Amy Irving
    • Patricia
    Barbara Sukowa
    Barbara Sukowa
    • Helen
    Rob Mac
    Rob Mac
    • Aspiring Medical Student
    • (as Rob McElhenney)
    Avery Glymph
    Avery Glymph
    • Intelligent Student
    Elizabeth Reaser
    Elizabeth Reaser
    • Young Woman in Class
    • Director
      • Jill Sprecher
    • Writers
      • Karen Sprecher
      • Jill Sprecher
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    User reviews119

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    7ctomvelu1

    Altmanesque

    A Robert Altman-style film, but written and directed by women. Several characters ponder what happiness means as they slog through their daily lives. The cast is impeccable, and includes Clea Duvall, Matthew Mc., John Turturro and Alan Arkin, who steals the show amid a very large cast. He plays an embittered, divorced middle manager well past retirement age with a junkie son. On a whim, Arkin commits an irresponsible act that will come back to haunt him. Duvall is an accident victim whose life can never be the same. If you like Altman movies, in all probability you will like this one. All others, beware. No wild car chases, explosions or shoot-outs here.
    Buddy-51

    profound and moving

    In `13 Conversations About One Thing,' the `one thing' that everyone keeps having conversations about is whether or not happiness is possible in a world that seems to be made up of little more than a series of random events haphazardly strung together. Just as everything seems to be going your way, an unexpected and unforeseen `event' may knock you completely off course, thereby depriving you of that `happiness' you felt, moments before, lay just within your grasp. This view of life seems to be rather popular among filmmakers this year, having also been explored in some depth in the sci-fi thriller `Signs' this summer. `13 Conversations' takes a more low-keyed approach, providing a series of interlocking vignettes from everyday life that, when pieced together, provide a possible answer to life's ultimate question.

    Writers Karen and Jill Sprecher (the latter also directed the film) have fashioned a complex narrative involving a number of characters whose paths cross in bizarre and often shocking ways. In fact, the film is rather unique in that the structure actually BECOMES the theme, as we discover that events that seem random to us - and indeed to the characters - at the outset actually come together to form a meaningful pattern. As one character says at the end of the film, life really only makes sense when we take the time to look back on it, for it is only from that perspective that we are able to discern the overarching pattern and meaning of it all.

    All of the many characters in the film are struggling not only to define happiness but to attain a measure of it for themselves in a world in which they are made to feel like mere helpless pawns, blown about by the whims of `fortune,' `luck,' `chance,' `fate,' whatever one wants to call the `power' that seems to determine the courses our lives end up taking. Matthew McConaughey plays a handsome and successful public defender who feels that he has achieved happiness in his career only to have it ripped from him when he runs over a young woman at a corner and leaves the scene of the crime. The woman herself (Clea Duvall), before the accident, is a sincere believer in a higher power that watches over us and guides us along the path it most wants us to take. Yet, after the accident, she loses that belief, coming instead to see life as a chaotic jumble of chance circumstances, devoid of meaning and purpose. John Turturro plays a college professor suffering from the classic symptoms of major midlife crisis. He abandons his wife (Amy Irving), conducts a meaningless affair with a coworker, and finds no relevance or fulfillment in his teaching job or in the students he could be guiding and helping. As a Physics teacher, he knows that the universe is NOT random, that it does, in fact, operate within a series of finely proscribed natural laws. Perhaps this is why he is the one character who actually tries to buck `fate' and to take proactive measures to change the course of his life. The problem is that the course change brings him no more satisfaction than did his previous life path. Perhaps, most fascinating of all is Alan Arkin, a businessman so unhappy with his own life that he takes pleasure in ruining the life of a co-worker who seems somehow to have attained the happiness that has eluded the rest of us.

    `13 Conversations About One Thing' is definitely a movie that grows on you. Like `Go' a few years back, the makers of this film respect the intelligence of their audience. They gather the strands of their story slowly, thereby allowing us to make connections and to eventually come up with the theme on our own. As the film's director, Jill Sprecher never hurries us along. In fact, much of the profundity of the screenplay is brought out by the elegiac, lyrical tone she establishes throughout. The quiet, unhurried pacing of the scenes puts the audience into a reflective state of mind that helps us see beneath the deceptively simple surface of the film's action.

    McConaughey, Duvall, Turturro and Irving are all outstanding in this film, but it is Arkin who soars in the key role of the disgruntled businessman. His sad-faced, understated portrayal of a man so caught up in petty bitterness that he will willfully destroy a harmless fellow human being to make himself feel a bit less miserable is shattering in its brilliance. He has truly never been better. Ditto for the other actors, for this is a great ensemble cast, even though most of the performers never appear in any scenes together.

    `13 Conversations About One Thing' is a film that feels like it has REALLY BEEN THOUGHT OUT ahead of time, not thrown together in haphazard fashion as so many other films appear to be. And that, given the theme of the film, is exactly the point.
    7rosscinema

    Very interesting story

    The structure of this film is familiar as we see different stories with characters that in some sort of way are connected to one another. The structure is reminiscent of a John Sayles film but this is top notch writing and character development. Directed by Jill Sprecher who also wrote the script with her sister Karen and has a number of very good actors who help raise the level of the material. The film seems to be about characters who make decisions then have to live with the consequences of their actions. Matthew McConaughey is a lawyer who after winning a big case and celebrating hits a woman (Clea DuVall) with his car and leaves the scene of the crime. John Turturro is a teacher who decides to have an affair. Alan Arkin gives the strongest performance in the film, which is no surprise. He works in an insurance office and must let someone go and decides it will be a man who is always happy. This has always irritated Arkins character. He simply cannot understand how anyone could be happy all the time. Later, he feels guilty about his actions and tries to get him another job at another company. Sprecher does a good job of keeping the script simple without going over the top to satisfy a more shallow audience. This is a film that gets more interesting when viewed on more than one occasion. Definitely a film that can be discussed at great lengths considering the realistic and flawed nature of each character.
    tedg

    The Dancing Expositor, the Fluttering White

    It must be quite something to know about screen writing and sit down to a blank sheet of paper. You can start with images, or characters or situations. You have to choose the type of thread and how you trace it, including the key decision about who you are. These sisters take a different approach, very writerly, very clever. They start with the simple question of happiness in a life and come at it from multiple directions, surrounding and probing it. The characters are secondary to the writer's curiosity, and the 'stories' even more incidental. Sometimes you have a film that works with the viewer to grow a world and ideas; here you simply watch as ideas grown on a page are revealed to you. Quite different, precious, but never close to lifealtering or even viscerally engaging.

    The film itself superficially resembles a 'Short Cuts' or 'Things You Can Tell' in that many story lines are interwoven. But the differences are profound. Altman's projects are driven by characters and situations that touch because they ramble. The 'Things You Can Tell' project is similar to this one in that its several components are all about the same idea. But 'Things' uses the device of one woman in many bodies, each with a different actress. In this project, the device is deliberate diversity of the characters, each facet having a discernible face.

    I liked it. Its not highly cinematic, rather small theater. Its not the stuff that changes one's imagination. But it is literate, refined, and well woven in terms of the words.

    As to the actors and their roles, one thing all these multifaceted projects have is the option for the viewer to select a backbone. As a matter of hardwiring we reflexively choose one thread as foreground and the others as background. For me, the anchor was Beatrice, which probably tells you a lot about me. The resurrection from disillusionment (with the opening of the doll's eye!) was a bit heavy so far as the character, but DuVall as an actor really impressed me. All of these actors played characters with an unrecognized inner life. Some, like Turturro work with more self-referential techniques, but with her it seemed true.

    Ted's Evaluation -- 3 of 4: Worth watching.
    bsilvey

    A Terrific Ensemble in a Provocative Conversation Starter

    My wife and I launched immediately into a conversation about this film before the end credits had even finished rolling. It's the kind of film that makes you want to apply some of its ideas and themes to your own life and experiences.

    At first I was worried. When the film began, I thought it was going to be an episodic experimental piece, with 13 different scenes each dealing with an aspect of happiness. This bothered me, because the first segment of the film left me wanting more of the same story and I would have been disappointed if the screenplay had never come back to it. However, the first few segments that seem at first to be unrelated begin to mesh in a fluid way (but never in a way that feels forced), and what happens in one begins to illuminate the actions and feelings in another.

    Because of it's episodic nature, the actors don't get a lot of room to flesh out their characters, but the performances are still strong. Alan Arkin is especially good (he always is).

    This one comes highly recommended.

    Grade: A-

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    • Trivia
      The film's story is inspired by two different head injuries that director Jill Sprecher endured.
    • Goofs
      Walker writes the formula for acceleration incorrectly on the blackboard. It should be f/s2, where he writes (f/s)2. Then, a student says: "Don't you have to assume that the velocity is constant during the deceleration period?", and Walker partly agrees. Deceleration means that the velocity (or rather the speed) diminishes - constant velocity means there is no deceleration or acceleration. A physics teacher should never make these mistakes.
    • Quotes

      Richard 'Dick' Lacey: I wish, I wish we could see into the future sometimes.

      Richard 'Dick' Lacey: That's the problem, isn't it?

      Richard 'Dick' Lacey: I mean, life - it only makes sense when you look at it backwards.

      Richard 'Dick' Lacey: Too bad we gotta live it forwards.

    • Connections
      Featured in Siskel & Ebert & the Movies: The Best Films of 2002 (2003)
    • Soundtracks
      Wohl denen die da Wandeln
      Music by Heinrich Schütz (as Heinrich Schuetz)

      Vocal arrangement by Richard Erickson

      Sung by Holy Trinity Lutheran Church Parish Choir

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    • Release date
      • July 5, 2002 (United States)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Official site
      • Sony Pictures Classics
    • Languages
      • English
      • German
      • Italian
    • Also known as
      • 13 Conversations About One Thing
    • Filming locations
      • New York, USA
    • Production companies
      • Stonelock Pictures
      • Single Cell Pictures
      • double A Films
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    Box office

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    • Budget
      • $4,500,000 (estimated)
    • Gross US & Canada
      • $3,288,164
    • Opening weekend US & Canada
      • $89,499
      • May 27, 2002
    • Gross worldwide
      • $3,706,652
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    Tech specs

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    • Runtime
      1 hour 44 minutes
    • Color
      • Color
    • Sound mix
      • Dolby Digital
    • Aspect ratio
      • 1.85 : 1

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