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Getting to Know You

  • 1999
  • Unrated
  • 1h 36m
IMDb RATING
6.9/10
473
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Heather Matarazzo and Michael Weston in Getting to Know You (1999)
ComedyDrama

A chance encounter alters a teenage girl's perception of herself and her outlook on life.A chance encounter alters a teenage girl's perception of herself and her outlook on life.A chance encounter alters a teenage girl's perception of herself and her outlook on life.

  • Director
    • Lisanne Skyler
  • Writers
    • Joyce Carol Oates
    • Lisanne Skyler
    • Tristine Skyler
  • Stars
    • Heather Matarazzo
    • Zach Braff
    • David Aaron Baker
  • See production info at IMDbPro
  • IMDb RATING
    6.9/10
    473
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • Lisanne Skyler
    • Writers
      • Joyce Carol Oates
      • Lisanne Skyler
      • Tristine Skyler
    • Stars
      • Heather Matarazzo
      • Zach Braff
      • David Aaron Baker
    • 12User reviews
    • 9Critic reviews
  • See production info at IMDbPro
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Awards
      • 1 win & 3 nominations total

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    Heather Matarazzo
    Heather Matarazzo
    • Judith
    Zach Braff
    Zach Braff
    • Wesley
    David Aaron Baker
    David Aaron Baker
    • Dr. Clarke
    Catherine Anne Hayes
    Catherine Anne Hayes
    • Large Woman
    Craig Anthony Grant
    • Ticket Clerk
    Michael Weston
    Michael Weston
    • Jimmy
    Richard Bright
    Richard Bright
    • Elderly Man
    Celia Weston
    Celia Weston
    • Bottle Lady
    Bebe Neuwirth
    Bebe Neuwirth
    • Trix
    Mark Blum
    Mark Blum
    • Darrell
    Bo Hopkins
    Bo Hopkins
    • Officer Caminetto
    Tom Gilroy
    Tom Gilroy
    • Jimmy's Father
    Tristine Skyler
    Tristine Skyler
    • Irene
    Sonja Sohn
    Sonja Sohn
    • Lynn
    Richard Alliger
    • Blackjack Skeptic
    • (as Rich T. Alliger)
    Chris Noth
    Chris Noth
    • Sonny
    Kevin Black
    • Brady
    Dilyn Cassel Murphy
    • Young Mother
    • Director
      • Lisanne Skyler
    • Writers
      • Joyce Carol Oates
      • Lisanne Skyler
      • Tristine Skyler
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    7simon_sparrow

    Matarazzo shines in Lisanne Skyler's labour of love

    It is obvious that director Lisanne Skyler has tremendous respect for the writings of Joyce Carol Oates. She weaves several stories together in this intriguingly conceived film about lost souls meeting in a bus station. Heather Matarazzo follows up her amazing performance in Welcome To The Doll House with a more measured, but nonetheless brilliant, essay of a displaced teen trying to make sense of what is left from her life.

    Zach Braff is phenomenal in the confined role of her brainy and equally depressed brother. Bebe Neuwirth also shines as their mother, Trixie. Only Mark Blum as the father seems badly miscast.

    Bo Hopkins does a wonderful supporting turn as a security guard, and Chris Noth and Celia Weston also bring great panache to their supporting characters. Skyler does a masterful job weaving the different stories and diverse characters into her quilt in the first 60% of the film. However, the pacing slows down considerably and her directorial rhythm falters when she focuses solely on the narrative explaining the siblings' predicament which quickly decays into a study of repetition.

    However, viewers who persevere will be rewarded. Upon returning to the bus terminal, the characterizations are bestowed dimension in quite skillful and unexpected manners.
    8mjneu59

    quality film never found its legs

    Scrape together a few thousand dollars, call in a few personal favors, enlist your friends and family to work nights and weekends, and the result might be a movie like this: too small and personal for widespread theatrical release, but ideal for any discriminating cable TV network devoted to showcasing true independent cinema.

    The film is set (for the most part) in an upstate New York small town bus station, where every glancing encounter has a story behind it. Private narratives of this sort are what define us to ourselves, and because the screenplay was adapted from the writings of Joyce Carol Oates these particular stories describe a series of downbeat, dysfunctional family dramas.

    At some point in its evolution the project might have been intended as a stage play, with the wordy, meaningful script and one-act location (opened up by flashbacks and speculative digressions into the overheard lives of passing strangers) suggesting a small theater piece. Sympathetic characters, natural performances, and a welcome lack of hyperbolic direction make it a quietly devastating experience, but with at least a token glimmer of hope in the final scene to help relieve the often oppressive details. Michael Brook's delicate guitar études add just the right touch of atmosphere.
    9alanjj

    Engrossing and involving

    I was totally involved in this movie. It was so intimate--frighteningly intimate. I loved the way that the characters stories slowly evolved. I also loved the settings in the down-and-out areas of New Jersey: neighborhoods on the verge of falling into complete collapse, but not there yet.

    All the actors were remarkable, particularly Heather Matarazzo and the actor who played Jimmy. My only criticism is that everything is tied up so neatly: people resolve problems by remembering and admitting the awful things that happened in their lives. It's not so easy in real life. Oh well, that's the movies, and this is a very good movie.
    10a.v. boy

    A powerful movie that sneaks up on you, highly recommended.

    This is a film drawn from the literature of Joyce Carol Oates, a synthesis of several short stories written into a powerful script which really highlights the talents and abilities of this cast. Well-acted, well-directed, and technically excellent, this film has superior production values in every way.

    Heather Matarazzo is brilliantly believable in her role as Judith, an apparently quiet and vulnerable young woman, who we find is strong and resilient once we get to know her better. She, Zach Braff as her brother, Wesley, and Michael Weston as Jimmy, the denizen of the bus station, form the core of this powerful ensemble piece. The characters are played with real personality and a lack of stereotype.

    Judith and Wesley are the above-average children of Trix and Darrell, two initially likable, but dysfunctional, parents outstandingly depicted by Bebe Neuwirth and Mark Blum. In its way, this is the antithesis of many "teen" movies, and refreshingly so. Part of the strength of the movie is that nothing is obvious, nothing gift-wrapped, the complex characters never fully explained.

    The supporting cast is uniformly excellent, a tribute not only to the actors themselves, but undoubtedly to the fine directing as well.

    A brilliant piece of writing, the story is both simple and complex. It is slowly revealed, rather than simply told, and at every point along the way, you are engaged in its unfolding. Vignettes carry the story along, some told from the point of view of Jimmy, the mysterious kid in the bus station, others through the recollections of Wesley and Judith. Slowly, the characters, and we, come to understand their own reality.
    10sinatra_ska

    great film, a favorite.

    this is now one of my favorite films of all time. the way everything played out was amazing. not to mention, the movie kept my interest the entire time. this was, without a doubt, heather matarozzo's best work.

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    • Trivia
      The movie Dreamland, also directed by Lisanne Skyler, appears on a cinema marquee.
    • Connections
      Featured in Siskel & Ebert & the Movies: The Perfect Storm/Getting to Know You/Trixie/The Adventures of Rocky and Bullwinkle/Butterfly (2000)

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    • Release date
      • September 17, 1999 (Italy)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Official site
      • Official site
    • Languages
      • English
      • German
    • Also known as
      • Getting to Know All About You
    • Filming locations
      • New Jersey, USA
    • Production companies
      • Mainline Releasing
      • SearchParty Films
      • ShadowCatcher Entertainment
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      1 hour 36 minutes
    • Color
      • Color
    • Sound mix
      • Mono

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