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I'm Losing You

  • 1998
  • R
  • 1h 40m
IMDb RATING
5.0/10
525
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I'm Losing You (1998)
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Nearing his 60th birthday, a movie producer discovers that he may have less than a year to live as a result of inoperable cancer. The effects of his disease take the toll on him and his dist... Read allNearing his 60th birthday, a movie producer discovers that he may have less than a year to live as a result of inoperable cancer. The effects of his disease take the toll on him and his distressed wife. However, his dysfunctional family are not told and their soap opera-ish life ... Read allNearing his 60th birthday, a movie producer discovers that he may have less than a year to live as a result of inoperable cancer. The effects of his disease take the toll on him and his distressed wife. However, his dysfunctional family are not told and their soap opera-ish life goes on. His son, a has-been actor, has to deal with a precocious daughter and a drug-addl... Read all

  • Director
    • Bruce Wagner
  • Writer
    • Bruce Wagner
  • Stars
    • Frank Langella
    • Daniel von Bargen
    • Rosanna Arquette
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  • IMDb RATING
    5.0/10
    525
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • Bruce Wagner
    • Writer
      • Bruce Wagner
    • Stars
      • Frank Langella
      • Daniel von Bargen
      • Rosanna Arquette
    • 12User reviews
    • 8Critic reviews
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Awards
      • 1 win total

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    Frank Langella
    Frank Langella
    • Perry Needham Krohn
    Daniel von Bargen
    Daniel von Bargen
    • Dr. Litvak
    Rosanna Arquette
    Rosanna Arquette
    • Rachel Krohn
    Andrew McCarthy
    Andrew McCarthy
    • Bertie Krohn
    Aria Noelle Curzon
    Aria Noelle Curzon
    • Tiffany 'Tiffi' Krohn
    Salome Jens
    Salome Jens
    • Diantha Krohn
    Don McManus
    Don McManus
    • Jake Horowitz
    Gina Gershon
    Gina Gershon
    • Lidia
    Rick Zieff
    Rick Zieff
    • The Dentist
    Phyllis Lyons
    Phyllis Lyons
    • Dentist's Wife
    Buck Henry
    Buck Henry
    • Phillip Dagrom
    Julie Ariola
    Julie Ariola
    • Melanctha
    Alexandria Sage
    • Perry's Assistant
    Amanda Donohoe
    Amanda Donohoe
    • Mona Deware
    Norman Reedus
    Norman Reedus
    • Toby
    J.B. Gaynor
    • Zephyr
    Gary Watkins
    Gary Watkins
    • Ted Kressler
    Elizabeth Perkins
    Elizabeth Perkins
    • Aubrey Wicker
    • Director
      • Bruce Wagner
    • Writer
      • Bruce Wagner
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    User reviews12

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    NS-5

    This movie lost me and others watching.

    To me, this movie was a "been there done that" type. There was nothing new or revealing in any manner of its presentation or otherwise. I tend to agree with reviewer on several movies that I rent but this movie was really hard to watch without prematurely rewinding.
    10telebob

    Slice of death in L.A.

    A thoughtful movie can be influential and instructive in guiding us through the obstacles and sometimes true horror of life. This is that kind of movie, and, if not a great one....certainly a very fine one. It deserves a 10.

    A few years ago I had read Bruce Wagner's novel with horrified fascination...and I was suddenly shocked to be seeing it as a movie here, late at night, in little flyblown Costa Rica on the Movie Channel...at first I thought it looked familiar, and then..."my god, it's "I'm Losing You!" I had not even known it had been made.

    Such a sad loss to have had "Eyes Wide Shut" or "Blair Witch" suck all the air out of the room and leave "I'm Losing You" to the video cutout rackjobbers. This is a strong and corrosive movie, and so sad. Perhaps it is no wonder it had no 'hit' potential....but if one ever wants a slice of the LA urban dystopia as a part of their research project in the year 3000, they couldn't do better than "I'm Losing You."

    Rosanna Arquette and Elizabeth Perkins are truly remarkable, but then so is almost everyone else who is in this very real, very serious, melanomadrama.
    8Toad--

    Everything that movies should be about, but rarely are.

    I truly enjoyed watching this movie, which is driven by the people in it - I'm looking forward to reading some of Wagner's books now. The cast and characters are excellent, and I love it when I discover a movie that is driven by the people in it, rather than the explosions or car chases. Highly recommended.
    3lazhuward

    Good Book. Bad movie.

    This is an almost stereotypical example of a good book being turned into a bad movie. However, there are three interesting details that make this case unique: 1. The guy who wrote the book is actually the same guy who made the movie! 2. The book mocks Hollywood culture in many different ways, so making the book into a movie is somewhat ironic. 3. The movie is really, really bad.

    Why isn't the movie as good as the book? There are too many reasons to list. Bad casting, the movie lacks the humor of the book, key scenes in the book aren't in the movie, etc. Pretty typical stuff.

    If you've read the book, it might be worth it to see the movie though. It's almost unwatchable, but you might want to tough it out just so you can puzzle over it and ask: "What was Bruce Wagner thinking?"
    matt-201

    Oncoglamorama

    Bruce Wagner's Hollywood novels have a particular horror-movie frisson: a can't-turn-the-page-but-can't-stop-turning tension. A dark bill of goods read by a sardonic M.D. to a terminal patient, the typical Wagner story is L.A. loserdom braced onto a Renaissance canvas--a gossipy Movieline-magazine horror story given epic proportions. Wagner so loathes the calmly powerful, not-so-bright people who thwart him that he visits every kind of calamity on them--crack-induced strokes, cancer, AIDS, tabloid sex-torture. It's as if the power of his imagination and the boil of his frustration crashed into each other and made a monster hybrid--insider bitterness raised to a Mailerian scale, where the felicities of a crashed deal take on the properties of the goings-on in a Nazi death camp, or a terminal ward. A blurb in the jacket for Wagner's masterly "Force Majeure" read, "Wagner lavishes on Hollywood the kind of attention that novelists once lavished on sex, or the Second World War." Ain't it the truth: Wagner turns bellyaching into high opera.

    Wagner's 1996 novel "I'm Losing You" was described by John Updike as "inhabiting a universe so cratered it's hard to turn the pages." The novel is a Boschian cry of despair from the bowels of Century City. In his new movie version, that Munchian shriek is turned into a soft, Cronenbergian whisper. The has-beens and never-weres of Wagner's ultimate dystopian L.A. are viewed not with sadomasochistic coolness here, but with gentleness and, dare I say it, love. There's nothing sentimental in this picture, and not a frame that isn't perfumed by death, but there is a quality that took me off guard. I'M LOSING YOU is a reminder, almost inaudible in this cratered blockbuster universe, of the humanistic potential of movies--the possibility of art as a guide for human beings to navigate their way out of hopeless predicaments. The insider edge is off the movie; unlike the book, it isn't about the perfectly poised name-drop. The movie might as well be taking place in Ohio: the substance of it is in its insight into beleaguered characters trying to buttress themselves with fame and money against catastrophes that claim the Hot 100 and Joe Nobody alike.

    Wagner has assembled the strongest ensemble cast since BOOGIE NIGHTS. Rosanna Arquette is a strange overlap of the luminous and the feral as an art evaluater who makes a melodramatic discovery about her roots that leads to a reconnection with a mystical Jewish practice. Andrew McCarthy, as a fallen eighties actor, goes places you wouldn't imagine him capable of--he suggests a warmer, less remote Edward Norton. As a fortyish Hollywood rich kid who's HIV-positive, Elizabeth Perkins fairly scorches a hole in the movie--the rage of a magnificent woman pushed out of the box before her time lights up every scene she's in. And Amanda Donohoe, Buck Henry and Laraine Newman all have potent brief moments.

    The pitfall to Wagner's genius is generally that he uses his gift for conjuring catastrophe only cruelly--it sometimes feels as if there's no possible response to his books except to faint. Here, he's put that talent to use: he questions the tactics we use to deal with the undealable. In a stroke of ill fortune endemic to the characters in Wagner's books, I'M LOSING YOU was released on the same day as EYES WIDE SHUT and THE BLAIR WITCH PROJECT. I can only hope someone within the sound of my voice will see this beautiful, almost-great movie before, like its characters, it passes into the ether.

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    • Release date
      • September 3, 1998 (United States)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • T'estic perdent
    • Filming locations
      • Los Angeles, California, USA
    • Production companies
      • Killer Films
      • Lionsgate
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    • Gross US & Canada
      • $13,996
    • Opening weekend US & Canada
      • $7,027
      • Jul 18, 1999
    • Gross worldwide
      • $13,996
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      1 hour 40 minutes
    • Color
      • Color
    • Sound mix
      • Dolby
    • Aspect ratio
      • 1.85 : 1

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