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Comment je me suis disputé... (ma vie sexuelle)

  • 1996
  • Tous publics
  • 2h 58m
IMDb RATING
6.7/10
1.8K
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Comment je me suis disputé... (ma vie sexuelle) (1996)
Paul Dedalus is at a crossroads in his life. He has to make several decisions; should he complete his doctorate, does he want to become a full professor, does he really love his long-standing girlfriend, or should he re-start with one of his other lovers? Is he avoiding the despairing life his father can't escape from?
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Paul Dedalus is at a crossroads in his life. He has to make several decisions; should he complete his doctorate, does he want to become a full professor, does he really love his long-standin... Read allPaul Dedalus is at a crossroads in his life. He has to make several decisions; should he complete his doctorate, does he want to become a full professor, does he really love his long-standing girlfriend, or should he re-start with one of his other lovers? Is he avoiding the despa... Read allPaul Dedalus is at a crossroads in his life. He has to make several decisions; should he complete his doctorate, does he want to become a full professor, does he really love his long-standing girlfriend, or should he re-start with one of his other lovers? Is he avoiding the despairing life his father can't escape from ?

  • Director
    • Arnaud Desplechin
  • Writers
    • Emmanuel Bourdieu
    • Arnaud Desplechin
  • Stars
    • Mathieu Amalric
    • Emmanuelle Devos
    • Emmanuel Salinger
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  • IMDb RATING
    6.7/10
    1.8K
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    • Director
      • Arnaud Desplechin
    • Writers
      • Emmanuel Bourdieu
      • Arnaud Desplechin
    • Stars
      • Mathieu Amalric
      • Emmanuelle Devos
      • Emmanuel Salinger
    • 15User reviews
    • 16Critic reviews
    • 76Metascore
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Awards
      • 1 win & 4 nominations total

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    Mathieu Amalric
    Mathieu Amalric
    • Paul Dedalus
    Emmanuelle Devos
    Emmanuelle Devos
    • Esther
    Emmanuel Salinger
    • Nathan
    Marianne Denicourt
    Marianne Denicourt
    • Sylvia
    Thibault de Montalembert
    • Bob
    Chiara Mastroianni
    Chiara Mastroianni
    • Patricia
    Denis Podalydès
    Denis Podalydès
    • Jean-Jacques
    Jeanne Balibar
    Jeanne Balibar
    • Valérie
    Fabrice Desplechin
    • Ivan
    Hélène Lapiower
    • Le Mérou
    Michel Vuillermoz
    • Frédéric Rabier
    Roland Amstutz
    Roland Amstutz
    • Chernov
    Marion Cotillard
    Marion Cotillard
    • Student
    Solenn Jarniou
    • Pascale
    Philippe Duclos
    Philippe Duclos
    • Spiritual Accompanist
    Elisabeth Maby
    • Tatie
    Paule Annen
    • Mrs. Chernov
    Anne-Katerine Normant
    • Esther's Friend
    • Director
      • Arnaud Desplechin
    • Writers
      • Emmanuel Bourdieu
      • Arnaud Desplechin
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    5jandesimpson

    The French cinema in decline

    In my comments on "J'embrasse Pas", a film I much admire, I mentioned the decline of the French cinema in recent years. As an example to substantiate this, look no further than "Ma Vie Sexuelle", a work of gargantuan proportions (3 hours running time) that for me fails to transcend the commonplace it seems to be celebrating and becomes trapped in inertia. On the surface much of it is not unlike a Rohmer film. There is a group of young people living in Paris. Paul, the central character is a University tutor. There are at least three young woman in his life and he moves from one to another indecisively. There are endless scenes in cafes, in one anothers' apartments and at parties; the very stuff of Rohmer. The Master, however, would have made it last half the time with several times the degree of perception. "Ma Vie Sexuelle", on the other hand, has a curious lack of purpose, often losing its sense of directional balance. What to make of the two flashbacks to Paul's childhood that seem to add nothing to our knowledge of his character? And then there is the strange figure of Rabier, a senior lecturer whose return to the University seems to fill Paul with unease over his inadequacy to cope with professional life. Presumably he is intended to play a pivotal role like one of Iris Murdoch's "enchanters". But how can he when he is depicted as a quirky idiot who goes everywhere with a pet monkey? The sudden change of mood to black comedy when the monkey becomes trapped behind a radiator is curiously at variance with the rest of the film. There is a background score that, with its suggestion of unease, would fit better in a Chabrol thriller than these mundane goings-on. To add to all the muddled pretentiousness there is a voice-over narrative so beloved by earlier French masters such as Resnais and Truffaut but here there is nothing perceptive in what is said. It simply supplies the connections that the Taiwanese masters, Hou Xiaoxian and Edward Yang, would have demanded far more subtly we make for ourselves. The film is thus a mishmash of influences completely lacking a sense of individuality. Let those in search of titillation from a film so entitled beware. "La Vie Sexuelle" is almost puritanically staid. It belongs to a much older Wave than the New.
    dan-120

    An amazing film that discusses philosophical issues of mating rituals.

    A fascinating look at a group of post-grad friends as they drink, fight and fall in love. Very philosophical men, very beautiful women (or is it vice versa?) ponder what it means to be in a relationship and approaching 30.
    10kes202

    I think every graduate student must see this movie.

    This movie is hillarious, especially to those who might be taking a good number of years to finish their dissertations. Endless hateful characters, endless fun! Both my fiance (whose favourite movies include Dumb and Dumber and Trains, Planes and Automobiles) and I (a Gone with the Wind and Dr. Zhivago type) managed to find much to laugh about here!
    10BigCombo

    The best French film of the decade

    It's the best French film of the decade and perhaps one of the greatest investigations into young love ever made. Mathieu Amalric is a revelation and demonstrates he's one of the finest young actors in the entire world. I love this film, and it makes me so happy to know it exists.
    4tarouche

    it took almost 3 hours to get to the point

    don't get me wrong, the film had its moments. it had an interesting premise, and engaging characters who had a lot of memorable lines.

    what it lacked was cohesion. it had waaayyyy too many sub-plots which i believe were not necessary for the film to make its point.

    somebody should have taken a pair of scissors to it.

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    • Trivia
      Director Arnaud Desplechin originally wanted to name the movie "Comment je me suis disputé avec Éric Barbier" (How I Got Into An Argument With Eric Barbier), as a dig at former colleague Eric Barbier, also the basis for movie character Frédéric Rabier. A justice decision prevented him from using the full title, hence the ellipsis and the added subtitle.
    • Connections
      Followed by Trois souvenirs de ma jeunesse (2015)
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      Daphnis et Chloé
      Composed by Maurice Ravel

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    • Release date
      • June 12, 1996 (France)
    • Country of origin
      • France
    • Official site
      • Why Not Productions (France)
    • Language
      • French
    • Also known as
      • Comment Je Me Suis Disputé avec Éric Barbier
    • Filming locations
      • France
    • Production companies
      • Why Not Productions
      • La Sept Cinéma
      • France 2 Cinéma
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    • Runtime
      • 2h 58m(178 min)
    • Color
      • Color
    • Sound mix
      • Dolby
    • Aspect ratio
      • 1.66 : 1

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