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Ta mère ou moi !

Original title: Only the Lonely
  • 1991
  • Tous publics
  • 1h 44m
IMDb RATING
6.4/10
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Maureen O'Hara, Ally Sheedy, and John Candy in Ta mère ou moi ! (1991)
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A Chicago cop must balance loyalty to his controlling mother and a relationship with a shy funeral home worker.A Chicago cop must balance loyalty to his controlling mother and a relationship with a shy funeral home worker.A Chicago cop must balance loyalty to his controlling mother and a relationship with a shy funeral home worker.

  • Director
    • Chris Columbus
  • Writer
    • Chris Columbus
  • Stars
    • John Candy
    • Maureen O'Hara
    • Ally Sheedy
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    13K
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    • Director
      • Chris Columbus
    • Writer
      • Chris Columbus
    • Stars
      • John Candy
      • Maureen O'Hara
      • Ally Sheedy
    • 70User reviews
    • 18Critic reviews
    • 47Metascore
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    John Candy
    John Candy
    • Danny Muldoon
    Maureen O'Hara
    Maureen O'Hara
    • Rose Muldoon
    Ally Sheedy
    Ally Sheedy
    • Theresa Luna
    Kevin Dunn
    Kevin Dunn
    • Patrick Muldoon
    Milo O'Shea
    Milo O'Shea
    • Doyle
    Bert Remsen
    Bert Remsen
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    Anthony Quinn
    Anthony Quinn
    • Nick Acropolis
    Jim Belushi
    Jim Belushi
    • Salvatore Buonarte
    • (as James Belushi)
    Joe Greco
    • Johnny Luna
    Marvin J. McIntyre
    Marvin J. McIntyre
    • Father Strapovic
    Macaulay Culkin
    Macaulay Culkin
    • Billy Muldoon
    Kieran Culkin
    Kieran Culkin
    • Patrick Muldoon Jr.
    Allen Hamilton
    Allen Hamilton
    • O'Neal
    Teri McEvoy
    • Susan Muldoon
    Bernie Landis
    • Larry
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    • Jack
    John Davis Chandler
    John Davis Chandler
    • Duane Earl Tyrone
    • (as John Chandler)
    Martin Fisher
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      • Chris Columbus
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    7funky_cherry86

    A John Candy Classic , Funny & Heartwarming

    John Candy was one of the most gifted actors in Hollywood having seen his performances in Splash, Uncle Buck, Spaceballs and Cool Runnings he had a great talent for both comedy and drama. Only the Lonely is a funny little gem that also features the great acting of Maureen O'Hara, Jim Belushi & Ally Sheedy.

    The story is simple a lonely Chicago cop in his late 30's finds romance with the daughter of a funeral parlour owner he must also deal with his mother who disapproves of the relationship. Maureen O'Hara portrayed the role of Rose Muldoon to perfection, she comes across as a tight fisted iron willed Irish woman who tells it like it is without any regard of who gets hurt.

    Danny Muldoon (Candy) is a 38 year old police officer who still lives with with his mother in Chicago he is always worried about her to the point of having nightmares in which something bad happens. still single and longing to find love soon enough his search ends up in the one place nobody would expect. One evening at a bar Danny crosses paths with Theresa Luna (Sheedy) the shy daughter of funeral parlour owner Johnny Luna (Greco). The next day he heads to the parlour where Theresa does make up for the stiffs. He asks her out, she says yes. The funniest scene is when they are on the date and he tells an amusing story about his brother Patrick's (Dunn) bachelor party.

    Another plot of the film sees Nick Acropolis (Quinn) Danny's neighbour trying to win the affections of his mother he's been asking her out for years she keeps turning him down. However by the end of the film after accepting her son's choice to be with the love of his life she warms up to Nick's charms.

    Funny & filled with many dramatic moments Only The Lonely is a good gem of a movie for anyone out there. Rest In Peace John you are missed.
    8ccthemovieman-1

    Candy Shows His Human Side

    Roles like this helped make big John Candy somewhat of a beloved figure in his time. He was good at playing big, lovable oafs that usually messed up but had a good heart.

    Many times, as in here, he might appear jovial on the outside but inside he was a very lonely guy, hence the title. I'll bet a number of viewers could identify with him. In this film he plays "Danny Muldoon."

    Ally Sheedy's character, "Theresa Luna," is sweet in the beginning but then becomes unfairly-demanding and annoying by the end. Maureen O'Hara did a fine job playing "Danny's" domineering mother, "Rose." She came out of retirement to do this film and did herself proud. Anthony Quinn's role was stupid.

    This movie is billed as a comedy but I didn't find a lot of laughs in it. It's really more of a sentimental drama, and it works on that level. I always enjoy seeing comedians do drama, because they are so good at doing it. I'm sorry Candy didn't make a few more dramatic roles.
    6namashi_1

    John Candy dominates the show...

    'Only the Lonely' is an okay film, that rides on the late/great John Candy's undeniable talent. The talented actor, pitches in a likable performance, that dominates the film.

    'Only the Lonely' Synopsis: A Chicago cop must balance loyalty to his overbearing mother and a relationship with a shy funeral home worker.

    Besides Candy's likable performance, 'Only the Lonely' also manages to get in some cute/funny moments. The characters are nicely written & the Screenplay overall, has some niceness to it. But, the slow-pace as well as the length, needed some serious persuasion. The pace is slow & the film is lengthy by at least 15-minutes. Chris Columbus's Direction is fair. Cinematography is standard. Editing isn't crisp.

    Performance-Wise: Candy is the life of 'Only the Lonely'. Maureen O'Hara is theatrical. Ally Sheedy is cute. Anthony Quinn & James Belushi appear in brief roles.

    On the whole, 'Only the Lonely' is a yet another example of how great an actor John Candy was.
    8tavm

    Only the Lonely is a fine tribute to the talents of John Candy and Maureen O'Hara late in their careers

    After Maureen O'Hara died last month, I suddenly got the urge to order this-her last theatrical movie-from Netflix for me and my mom to watch when she came back from visiting my sister in Seattle. I was wonderfully surprised to find out my mom hadn't previously seen this as that meant she would watch this with fresh eyes as I had seen this on VHS tape back in the day and remember enjoying this at the time. We both very much loved this just now. I mean, Ms. O'Hara is her lovable self-provided her character is a tad bigoted though she's simply "telling it like it is". Her son, John Candy-another performer who's been missed since he passed away only a few years after this movie-is a cop who lives with her and has been quite lonely as a result. Then one day, he meets Ally Sheedy as someone who does makeup on deceased bodies when they're both at a wake and he bravely asks her out which she accepts. I'll stop there and just mention that some complications ensue but things seem to work out at the end. Fine support from Jim Belushi as Candy's cop partner and Anthony Quinn as a neighbor who is crushing on Ms. O'Hara. Written and directed by Chris Columbus, he does a nice mixing of drama and comedy when the sequences call for it and also makes good use of the Chicago locations (a city I was born in and lived as a child for about 6 years as well as one I visited quite a bit during the '80s). Anyway, Only the Lonely is a fine tribute to the careers of both Candy and O'Hara before their untimely deaths. Oh, and Quinn as well before he passed several years later.
    7Doylenf

    Terrific performances...sentimental comedy on mother/son relationship...

    ONLY THE LONELY gives such rich roles to JOHN CANDY and MAUREEN O'HARA as an Irish mother and son enduring a love/hate relationship while his outspoken mother "tells it like it is" to anyone who stands between her and her son. This includes the girl he's smitten with, a shy, introverted type (ALLY SHEEN) who wants him to stop putting his mother first under any and all situations.

    He's constantly imagining bad things happening to his mother if he neglects her (and this leads to some funny, imaginative moments that have him imagining the nightmarish things that happen when he turns his back on her). All of these incidents are vividly portrayed and given substance and wit by a clever script and some very truthful performances from the entire cast.

    MAUREEN O'HARA is so perfect as the hateful mother with her bigoted view of "that Dago girl" that she should have had at least an Oscar nomination for her feisty portrayal. JOHN CANDY creates a really sympathetic character as the man hopelessly in love with the quiet girl his mother despises. ANTHONY QUINN gives a gentle, finely shaded performance of the man next door who loves Maureen from afar and JOHN BELUSHI is excellent as Candy's worker friend.

    It's a good mixture of comedy and drama that never becomes too mawkish or sentimental and exposes some of the hypocrisies of human nature that are not often shown on screen.

    Well worth watching for the performances alone.

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    • Trivia
      The producers of the film did not include a trailer on location for Maureen O'Hara in their budget. John Candy was furious that the producers were showing someone of her stature such disrespect, and he gave her his own trailer. The producers finally caved in, because they couldn't have Candy, the star of the film, without his own trailer.
    • Goofs
      Danny's brother tells him he got Danny's boss to "transfer him to a precinct in Florida." City police departments are self governing -- there is no way anyone in the Chicago police department could transfer anyone to a precinct in another city.
    • Quotes

      Danny: [Danny has just scored a date with Theresa and runs into some funeral attendees] Yeah! Oh... sorry... but I just got lucky in there with a girl.

      [funeral attendees look shocked]

      Danny: Not in that way... she does everybody in there... not in that way. But she probably did that guy there... I gotta go.

    • Connections
      Featured in The Tonight Show Starring Johnny Carson: John Candy & Maureen O'Hara/Shirley Horn/Jim Valvano (1991)
    • Soundtracks
      Only the Lonely
      Written by Roy Orbison and Joe Melson

      Performed by Roy Orbison

      Courtesy of Sony Music Special Products, a division of

      Sony Music Entertainment, Inc.

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    • Release date
      • November 27, 1991 (France)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Languages
      • English
      • Irish Gaelic
      • Greek
    • Also known as
      • Yo, tú y mi mamá
    • Filming locations
      • 212 S Halsted St, Chicago, Illinois, USA(Dianna's restaurant)
    • Production companies
      • Twentieth Century Fox
      • Hughes Entertainment
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    Box office

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    • Gross US & Canada
      • $21,830,957
    • Opening weekend US & Canada
      • $5,997,993
      • May 27, 1991
    • Gross worldwide
      • $25,092,802
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    • Runtime
      • 1h 44m(104 min)
    • Color
      • Color
    • Sound mix
      • Dolby Stereo
    • Aspect ratio
      • 1.85 : 1

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