Only Humans

Only Humans I must admit that I was nervous, watching Only Humans. I wasn't sure how the subject matter will be handled. However, Director Vanessa Knutsen was masterful of handling such a topic. It took guts to make such a film. This is a film about loneliness, emptiness, guilts, needs, and acceptance. It's not about sex between a teenager and an older man. Only Human is an honest film that deals with the complexity of emotions that exist in every one of us.

While sometimes people can be disturbed by what they see in movies, unless a documentary, they are fictional stories exploring human traits, depths, and relationships. "Gigi," the Oscar-winning film of 1958, was about a man who falls in love with a schoolgirl. She puts him off when he wants to marry her after she grows up from a girl to barely a woman but ends up falling for him. A bit reverse to this premise of the teenage girl falling for an older man, but this premise does happen quite a bit, and this film explores the journey's ups and downs, to present that love or the idea of love can happen in the most unconventional ways. It also makes us think about the nature of love and human emotions, of right and wrong, and to consider if there is ill intent on anyone's part. Whether or not we agree with the movie's intent or outcome, I enjoy indie films that get us talking. That's when you know the filmmaker has captured the audience. "The Graduate" is another film of a similar genre that still has people talking about it today.

Initially, my instinct was to react harshly and condemn the idea that a 36 year old and a 16 year old coming together in this way was an obvious felonious act of a shameful nature to be glorifying. How could this be anything but a cautionary tale of watching your children and vetting everyone they come into contact with, I wondered.

But, once I was able to think about it on a very realistic level, I considered the possibility of this occurring in real life. Vince wasn't trolling for teenage love and Sarah wasn't trying to score from a middle aged man; this evolved organically. It also brings to mind the notion to have real, honest dialogue with your children about sex, relationships, and situations that can induce physical moments like what took place in 'Only Humans'.

Artistically, philosophically, and thought-provokingly good film.

A very well observed indie drama. The performances are compelling and honest and the script is packed with subtlety which is so refreshing. Coming of age and complex relationships at its finest.

Major eye roll to all the reviews claiming this film glamorizes pedophilia. Do you write reviews about what a terrible person Tarantino is for glamorizing murder? No. It's entertainment, people. Geez! If you don't hold a microscope up to these sort of issues, you will never understand them. And if you don't understand them, then you can't stop them from happening. This film examines relationships without being judgemental or preachy. It takes an honest look at the human condition and I truly appreciated that. I really enjoyed the ride this film took me on. It was well acted and it had a beautiful story that was delicately told.