Lovesong

Lovesong is an intimate relationship drama, lovingly told, the kind of indie that hangs not on the script or dialogue, but on the beauty of the images and the mostly silent performances of its leads. And while the story is intriguing and the actors good, it never really rises up to become something memorable.

Lovesong is, true to its title, a bittersweet love story about two best friends, Sarah and Mindy. Sarah married young and now finds herself isolated as a single mother who only has a toddler to talk to, her husband travelling around the world. She calls her friend Mindy who immediately, like a breath of fresh air, arrives to reassure her, tell her that she's a good mom and to urge her to have fun. The two friends along with Sarah's daughter go an impromptu road trip. But while discussing their past some tension comes up and the two end up pushing their relationship into a more romantic capacity. Things go a bit awry and the movie picks up three years later just as Sarah's relationship is dissolving and Mindy is about to get married.

Writer/director So Yong Kim keeps things simple and naturalistic for her leading ladies (no makeup and a distinct lack of over the top reactions). The two main actresses Jena Malone and Riley Keough both work with her very well. But while the two have a soft chemistry that suits the style of the movie it isn't the kind of burning passion that would have made this film really stand out. And everything feels too subtle, too subdued. I liked this movie well enough while I was watching, but I also have the distinct feeling that it won't exactly stick in my mind.

Still worth watching.

I knew nothing about Lovesong going into it and was initially pleasantly surprised by what was going on. The direction and somewhat minimal dialogue was creating a real vibe that drew me in. The main character Sarah has some things going on inside her but as the film progressed I felt like she was drifting away and I knew her less, not more as things progressed. Then her friend Mindy comes for a visit and things come into focus again. You can tell these two are close but Sarah is the type of person in my mind is kind of hard to be friends with as she seems to always be holding back. Some people are just that way but it was a bit frustrating at times. The ending felt a bit abrupt but overall Lovesong is worth checking out if you're genuinely interested but not essential viewing.

The first thing one needs to know is that the movie has a strong autobiographical element to it. On the DVD, in the 'extras', the writer-director explains that she had similar experiences growing up, some with boys and others with girls, that is what prompted her to make this movie. She is married and has kids, the two little girls who play the same character at age 3 and age 6 are her daughters.

I came across this movie on DVD from our public library. After seeing a couple of Jena Malone movies recently, I wanted to see if I had missed any and this one came up.

Plus we also like Riley Keough. She plays Sarah, a young married woman with a young daughter and a husband that has to be away from home too much for business. Then her old friend visits, Jena Malone as Mindy. At a gathering later they say they have been knowing each other for 17 years so they must have grown up together from their preteen years. They have some low-key time together then Mindy buys a bus ticket to New York. They don't see each other for another three years, when Mindy is getting married.

The movie has all the feel of an independent, low-budget movie. It has a couple of strange scenes that both my wife and I thought were very odd. Some dirty jokes at the pre-wedding party that seemed way out of place for the audience.

Overall both Malone and Keough handle their roles very well but the movie itself is just so-so, a slice of life of two old friends who aren't quite sure if they love each other more than they love their spouses. I suppose things like that happen in real life.

Right from the beginning of the movie I sat with a weird feeling of wanting to participate in the illusion of the film but to never be able to submerge in it. The actors all seemed strangely aware of the cameras - like they throughout the film were trying to conceil an awkward smile - even though we are talking about highly experienced actors (this fact rises a lot of questions: Was there a lot of improvising? Did the actors feel unsafe? Did the director fail? Was the cinematographer of an odd character? All of this popped into my head while watching the film which was quite distracting). The choice of telling the story through mainly closeups feels somewhat misguided since the actors didn't have very much to work with - the storytelling didn't provide them with proper background for their characters and didn't build up the proper emotions within the viewers to justify the astetic choices that have been made. The cinematography promise much more emotional rawness and intensity than the director/script/actors could provide and the movie feels like it's missing some pieces in order to make the audience feel what it so eagerly is trying to make them feel.

I haven't seen any of So Young Kim's other movies, but I am going to make an effort. I understand the varied responses of others here, and make no excuses; it is different for me, and this love story really is a Lovesong, one played in the background over several years, which rises from piano to sforzando, and back to quietness. Remarkably acted and directed, Riley Keough and Jena Malone are just perfect in the depiction of their barely suppressed love for one another. The film both delighted and depressed me, but it has become one that I will buy to keep. I do agree with a review of Lovesong by Justin Chang in "Variety" on 25 Jan 2016: "There's a remarkable truthfulness to the film's acknowledgment that people often make enormous decisions rooted not in fear so much as uncertainty, even laziness, as well as a comfort with their lives as they've lived them until the present juncture." What is left unsaid is the consequences of those decisions, that we are left to look out the window and consider. Well done.