Girlhood

I would like to say here that I have no idea what the other reviewer was talking about when she mentioned a supposed "sickeningly happily ever after ending" for Shanae. I saw no such thing. Her story is a tragedy and her mother's story is a tragedy. I was stunned and deeply saddened by what happened. The fact of the matter is, Shanae DOES seem to have turned her life around. Hopefully it will last. She pulled it together enough, despite all her problems, to be a medical assistant. As for Megan, I really felt for her. She did not have the supportive family that Shanae did. Despite Megan's intelligence, talent, and beauty, it seems the world will be a very hard place for her. I was SO GRATEFUL for my family after watching this movie. I would like to add one thing -- the staff at the facilities where these girls lived are SAINTS. I could never do a job like that -- it would be so hard, so depressing -- and yet it is such an important job! Thank god there are people like the staff I saw in this film -- people who care enough to work with these kids and to do their jobs with honor and compassion.

Haven't we seen this documentary before? Quick - name a Lifetime movie with the same story line. I was set up at the beginning for some sort of documentary on the alarming change in girl crime. But.. I didn't get it. The case studies did not seem to exemplify something alarming or horrifying. Perhaps it was the fact that with both girls the viewer was consistently given hope. Shanae made it. The other girl.. who knows where she is today. The movie I would like to have seen would have shown perhaps a wider variety and a lock-up facility where everyone is not a happy family and there is not violence. I have a hard time believing this is the norm.. but then again, the film maker does not say it's the norm...she just begins the movie with the premise that there is something alarming in the girl hood. We just never get to see it.

I was captivated by these peoples lives. We got to hear there stories, meet there families, and also the staff at the correctional facility's. I wish more movies were like this. This is real life. These are real people. Not all documentary's are good, but I was happily surprised by this one. It was sad, yes, but I also think it is something everyone should see. People struggle, it is hard to survive, some people make it, others don't. I also really enjoyed the commentary on the DVD. I could've watched more bonus features, etc. on this movie since I liked it so much. I kind of wish it was longer, although it did end at an appropriate time, I was just so deep into there lives. Oh, and Megan really is charismatic.

I thought the movie was captivating, it drew me into the two girls' lives and everything they went through. You could hear the emotions and felt the anger, the sadness. But it also made me wonder, why was Megan not looked after in essence like Shanae was? It seemed like there was more of an effort to know where Shanae was and more help was provided for her then for Megan. As for the staff of the Waxter, they were awesome. When Ms. Hill choked on her tears for Shanae leaving - it was heartfelt. That's when you really knew how much time and love were put in for the girls in this particular place. It was so true and it left me with a nice feeling knowing there are people out there that do love what they do.

I think this movie proves this country gives children nothing but lip service. Everything is "for the children"; however, this is powerful evidence to the contrary.

Megan is doing really well now and is in college, despite the damning predictions of the previous reviewers. I never doubted for a moment she could do it. She has a powerful ability to forgive, and by her example I have been encouraged to do the same. She is lovely, loving, and worthy of love, and I am proud of her. She is a loving mother, talented cook, avid reader, and a great friend despite what has happened to her. I wish movies like this followed up on subjects later in life.