Uno sconosciuto nella mia vita

Major Pike Yarnell (Jeff Chandler) is an Air Force test pilot when the film begins. He seems like a bit of a grouch and when the widow of a fellow pilot comes to ask Pike to come to a memorial service for her husband, Pike is oddly indifferent. Despite her assuming he wouldn't attend, he unexpectedly shows up for the service. And, following the service, he goes to stay with the dead man's rich family. There, you learn, slowly, about the sort of people they are...particularly the dead man's mother (Mary Astor) and grandfather (Charles Coburn)...who are rather awful. As to the dead guy (Peter Graves), you only slowly learn about who he was and how he dies through the course of the film...and Pike tries very hard to spare his family the disgraceful truth about the dead 'hero'.

Thi is a very good movie and the portions involving the dead man are showing using several flashbacks. I liked the mystery about the guy and the way the truth came out. The only portion that didn't quite work for me was the romance with the widow (June Allyson)...which seemed a bit fast and forced. Still, a good film with a few powerful scenes. Worth seeing.

A Stranger In My Arms tells the story of the Beasley family who are trying in every way possible to honor their son who was died in the Korean War. He was the center of the universe for his overbearing and dominating mother Mary Astor.

Peter Graves is the son and he was the navigator on pilot Jeff Chandler's ship. It was Chandler and Graves alone on a rubber life raft in the Pacific. Now Chandler who is a test pilot is being pressured to got Graves's small town where his family are the local Cartwrights have built a veteran's hospital in his memory.

But they want a whole lot more than that and they want Chandler to help them get it. Flashbacks to life on that raft with Chandler and Graves show why Chandler balks at the idea.

Sad that Ross Hunter did not want to splurge for a little color and more than likely his favorite leading man from Universal Rock Hudson was unavailable. But Chandler does well in the part of the test pilot who while he has his own issues just does not want to knuckle under to unreasonable pressure.

One of those pressures is June Allyson widow of Graves and Chandler heard enough from Graves as to how much he really loved his wife. But she's all American wife June Allyson and probably someone Chandler thinks he needs to complete him.

A cruder pressure is that of bribery. Charles Coburn plays the grandfather and patriarch of the Beasley clan. He's a rather ruthless sort used to getting his way. He really gets Chandler's back up with what he wants.

There's a rebel in the clan and it's young Sandra Dee who wants very much to get out from under even throwing herself at Chandler. But she's still a felony.

Finally there's Mary Astor who is the mother from hell. No wonder Graves went to war. She's the best thing in A Stranger In My Arms.

The film is soap opera, but well cast and well done soap opera. The question is that can true feelings that Chandler and Allyson might start can ever grown in such a stifling atmosphere? Peter Graves really expands his casting range with this. Usually he's an all American good guy, even in Stalag 17 he was although he was using that against type as the German planted informer. Here he's something completely different than what you would expect from him.

Some have disparaged A Stranger In My Arms, but I think there's a lot worthwhile in this film.

After working in the Third Reich era (his works were light and neutral) , Helmut Kautner became the best German director just after the war ;those who might attack him for desecrating a would be American hero should see his movies in which he took a firm stand against the Nazis horrors ( Des Teufels General,1955 ) or in which he displays a pacifist attitude ("die letzte Brücke= the last bridge" 1954) or "die Gans von Sedan ".

"Thousands of soldiers were killed in action, says the hero (Chandler) ,only four got this medal!"; this is mainly the story of an over possessive mom (Astor) who seems out of a Tennessee Williams play (Mrs Venable in "suddenlly last Summer " comes to mind when they visit the greenhouse); her house is almost a museum dedicated to her beloved son, mother's pride : his widow (Allyson) is nothing but another piece in it .

Little by little, with flashbacks introduced all along the movie at the right place, one discovers that the picture of the so called hero was not the man the ceremony celebrates .It may sometimes sound soap opera, which Sandra Dee's presence reinforces ,but, all in all, it may also represent a plea for a square deal for the true heroes who died unsung (and for those who survived and to whom the society was not always fair and grateful).

This film was based on a novel entitled "And Ride a Tiger" by Robert Wilder and starred two Hollywood stars with solid careers behind them: June Allyson, petite, with a husky voice, a singer and a dancer in some musicals and always a good choice for a melodramatic romantic role with her honest homely girl look. At her side was the strong Jeff Chandler, always with an air of an intense guy, prematurely graying hair, the look of a biblical prophet and signs of not having much patience to tolerate nonsense.

Another outstanding role was for Sandra Dee, who was at the peak of her popularity as a typical teenager of her time. Daring, mischievous, innocently sexy and a real nightmare to keep under control. But basically a good girl.

On the side of the older ones, we find Mary Astor, a good-looking actress who as she grew older embodied characters with strong personality. And the sensational Charles Coburn. He went from serious to friendly, from stern to lascivious, from kind to incisive, with enormous fluidity. It is impossible to ignore his performance, even though it was brief.

And let's not forget Peter Graves. He really played many roles during the 1950s, some leading roles in Science Fiction, in some westerns and in the transgressive film Bayou alongside Lita Milan. But in 1959 he was still playing supporting roles and Mission Impossible was still a long way off. In "A Stranger in my Arms" he is a key character, although he is dead from the beginning. The fighter plane in which he was acting as navigator, along with pilot Jeff Chandler, had fallen into the sea and both survivors were left adrift in a rubber raft that was barely staying afloat. After many desperate days of thirst and hunger, the rescuers only found one survivor, Pike Yarnell (Chandler), who explained that his co-pilot had been torn from the raft by strong waves and that he had been unable to do anything to save him from death. The entire film revolves around this dark event and we see what happened through Chandler's "flashbacks." The film goes by quickly, the drama is very well narrated and the conclusions seem to be taken from a psychology book, where all the conflicts and misadjustments are rationally explained and all the actors understand their mistakes and promise to do better in the future. I wish it were like that in real life.

Many familiar faces in a melodrama, well written, directed and acted.

High-quality romantic drama from the master producer Ross Hunter, this lesser-known among his hits benefits from a terrific cast, all contributing key scenes and moments.

Not one of German director Helmut Kautner's classic movies, he still deserves credit for getting such a set of acting at top quality. Not just the leads, with Jeff Chandler and Mary Astor providing high drama, but surprising contributions by Sandra Dee as Mary's bratty daughter and Conrad Nagel as Mary's slow-burn husband.

The story of possessiveness and being true to yourself seems like a soap opera vehicle for June Allyson but it's so much more. Flashbacks of Chandler and June's late husband Peter Graves battling in a raft during the war build suspensefully to a final reveal of what actually happened. I was deeply immersed in the problems and secrets of this set of characters, and rewarded with a serious, moving feature.