We Are Who We Are

I'm not even going to add a rating cause THE SHOW HASN'T EVEN ENDED! All of the negative reviews are literally either homophobic, transphobic, or mad about nudity. It's literally a human body get over it and for the review saying it's not realistic cause you've never met a gay commander, my mother's best friend is a gay commander. Even if you've never seen it, does not mean it doesn't happen. Anyways, the first episode (as of me writing this it's the only one out) was actually pretty good. It was a little odd at moments, but the soundtrack was good. The cinematography was AMAZING! The acting was pretty good. The script felt a little off at moments or like forced, but it didn't really bother me too much. Also, it actually made me emotional because of how I have been in a similar position as Fraser. Jack Dylan Grazer is doing a really good job with the role and I feel like the episode will get better and better. It gives me a Euphoria vibe without being anything like Euphoria. I would probably give the first episode a 8/10.

Complete first season dilutes the whole rating-system. The invidual episodes have higher ratings the rating all over.

Only one episode in and I know We Are Who We Are will be a classic for years to come. With stunning cinematography and a score from Dev Haynes (or Blood Orange as many may know him), so far Jack Dylan Grazer shines as Fraser in an ethereally beautiful, Italian-set, indie slow burn. Classy, stunning and poinant. Coming-of-age has never been so raw and sultry.

I watched the first episode and it made me cry. I love it. I learned something from it; about young people that are arriving to the world. And what I learned about them is making me hopeful. It also made me aware of my own age in a different more positive way. In a good way. I feel that I am not only starting to understand and love youth of today, but I am also starting to understand my own perspective, relation to them. I am old enough that they are not reminding me of my own young age so I am free from nostalgia. That feels good. I don't desire to be like them. I can not be. They are radically different and that difference is something unique that I can grasp and admire without feeling regret about it. I was never like them so I am free from bitterness and resentment about lost opportunity. That's truly liberating. I am starting to understand that youth never repeat itself. The way I was young 40 years ago has nothing to do with a way they are young today. And yet, as I am starting to grasp this difference across the generations I am also starting to understand value of where I am standing right now in my own life. Because although my youth is in the past, I am still alive. And as much as they are unique and precious in their age of becoming, I am also unique and precious in mine. No need for comparison, regret and for nostalgia. It is exactly in this unreconcilable difference between us where we can meet and learn from each other. Help one another. After all Luca Guadagino is around my age, and the way he can look at youth of today is exactly speaking about all this. I am grateful for his gaze. It help me see the truth of generations myself. It help me learn to live my life just a bit better. Maybe that's the beginning of some kind of wisdom that belong to my age. I hope it is.

And concerning supposed inaccuracy in the representation of the American army base. This is, luckily, not a documentary TV show about a life in US military base. And beside that, even if it would be, those who claim that they know it better, are misunderstanding the nature of artistic insight into the truth of a place. One can spend all of one's life in such an establishment and yet still not really know it. Accuracy of description is not guaranteeing depth of an insight. On the contrary, such an accuracy usually lead to some form of unwilling reiteration of common wisdom - pure propaganda. Because everything that is grasped on the surface is always already constructed by prefabricated social conventions. To go under it, means to brake rules of representation. That's how art is made.

Seems to be a lot of negative feedback due to the fact this isn't "what it's like to be on a foreign military base" from those who have experience first hand, which I guess we have to respect, however, it's just a tv show and not a one sided documentary, so why base judgement on that? Interesting story for the modern age, felt like a typical Guadagnino to me so enjoyed it quite a lot. From my perspective, people should chill out and not expect a real life 100% factual account of what life is actually like in such an environment, but that's just me. Thanks!