Exhibiting Forgiveness

No matter what anyone might say, and regardless of how virtuous its impact may be, extending forgiveness to another is nevertheless often difficult. While it's true that the benefits to come from it can be considerable, reaching that point generally requires overcoming significant pain, resentment and disappointment. Such is the case for Tarrell (André Holland), a gifted and successful artist whose work is in great demand. However, the profound artistry behind his paintings stems largely from his difficult upbringing, having been raised mostly by his loving mother, Joy (Aunjanue Ellis-Taylor), after she booted Tarrell's abusive, drug-addicted father, La'Ron (John Earl Jelks), from their home. Despite the departure of the source of that agony, the pain of Tarrell's existence has lingered ever since, and his painting has served as an important form of de facto therapy. But the roots of his anguish remain, and he has difficulty getting past his past - that is, until his long-absent dad reappears in his life. Trying as it might be, this unexpected reunion presents an opportunity for Tarrell, Joy and La'Ron to work through their ordeal, but are they up to it? That's what writer-director Titus Kaphar's debut feature seeks to do, a story drawn in part from his own experience and featuring paintings created by the filmmaker himself. Through this story, the act of forgiveness is explored from myriad angles, unflinchingly depicting the pain and difficulty involved in achieving it. The picture also shows how the impact of such torment can "unwittingly" extend to others, including ostensibly innocent bystanders like Tarrell's wife, Aisha (Andra Day), who puts her own career as a musician on hold while she attempts to help her husband sort out his issues, a simmering source of strain in their marriage. This is all effectively brought to life through an artistically beautiful, gorgeously photographed production, backed by an emotive and engaging soundtrack. Admittedly, the pacing could use a little shoring up in spots, and the emotional depth that seemingly should have infused the writing for certain scenes doesn't quite reach the peak that it could have, but those drawbacks are well camouflaged by the fine performances of the ensemble, especially Holland and Ellis-Taylor, who deliver some of the best work of their careers. Most importantly, though, "Exhibiting Forgiveness" is definitely a movie with a powerful message, and it makes no effort to conceal it. It drives home its point with forcefulness and clarity, as well as fearless, unapologetic candor, successfully avoiding the pitfall of sugarcoating, soft peddling or sanitizing how challenging a process extending forgiveness can be. We could all learn a lot from that - and, considering the state of affairs in our world these days, it would behoove us if we did.

In his feature film directorial and screenwriting debut, artist Titus Kaphar has confidently created a semi-autobiographical work that deserves a wider audience than it has received. This powerful, unsentimental 2024 film tenderly explores a familiar movie trope, a father-son estrangement, but through an unflinching lens of toxic masculinity, familial rage, and generational trauma. A stellar quartet of accomplished actors fully embodies the often painful story of Tarrell, a burgeoning artist whose father La'Ron, a recovering crack addict, re-enters his life at the behest of his endearing, religious mother Mama Joyce. While Tarrell pushes Joyce to pack her house and move closer to his own family of three, she remains steadfast in realizing a reconciliation that proves devastating for all involved. Still memorable as Kevin in "Moonlight", Andre Holland is riveting as Tarrell as he manages to convey fierce resentment and anger with palpable currents of loss and exhaustion. John Earl Jelks maintains potent gravitas as La'Ron desperate to be forgiven for his past sins, and Andra Day plays Tarrell's musician wife Aisha with economic precision. It's no surprise to me that Aunjanue Ellis-Taylor ("Nickel Boys") handily dominates the film with her gut wrenching performance as Mama Joyce. Special mention should be given to Ian Foreman's heartbreaking turn as young Tarrell in the painful flashback scenes. There are a few flaws. While the details of past traumas are unpeeled effectively, they add marginally less to the story as they function more as reference points. Also, some of Kaphar's dialogue is too on-the-nose to be fully resonant. Regardless, the commitment of the superb cast takes this film to the next level.

I'm truly at a loss for words. Exhibiting Forgiveness is a powerful and emotionally charged film that dives deep into themes of healing, reconciliation, and inner strength. It's incredibly realistic, heartfelt, and soulful-every scene feels genuine and impactful. The storytelling is layered and thought-provoking, prompting reflection on one's own experiences and relationships. It left me sitting in silence, processing everything I had just witnessed. A beautifully crafted piece of cinema. Kudos to the entire team for creating something so profound and moving. I will gladly be looking out for more.

I saw this at a surprise screening so I walked in not knowing what I was going to watch. The movie started and it wasn't the movie I guessed was going to screen. Thought about leaving, but decided to give it a chance. I'm so glad I did!! This movie is a powerful and heartbreaking story about the need and power of forgiveness. Hats off to everyone involved! The writing, directing, and performances were all top notch! After realizing it was a story about a difficult father/son relationship, I wondered how they would avoid cliches. This movie masterfully navigated the ins and outs of their relationship. It was tough to watch at parts, but it was so well done that it didn't feel preachy, condescending, or taking the easy way.

Cried multiple times throughout! Absolutely loved this movie!! Definitely a top 5 favorite of the year!

If you haven't had any reason to forgive than count yourself lucky & go watch the born identity or oceans 15.. Those who understand this movie will understand its necessary experience in film. Its a movie about life not a movie to forget life. Although i wish for those who brought this narrative to film would have found the ultimate expression of forgivness for their own father... as an autobiographical inference is unavoidable.. i understand the journey is personal.. regardless the experience was important, however gut wrenching some of its content for the experienced.. like a stone pulling you to the bottom of the ocean. I can only hope for those on this journey they find the path to forgiveness so they can learn to float.. God bless the team of creators that had the courage & the stomach to portray this important work in an unapologetic & honest exhibition of the human condition.