Secretly Pregnant

I am SO pissed right now.....for several reasons. WHERE ARE THE DADS when these women are confessing their pregnancies??!! They are getting chastised about being stupid and irresponsible, but THEY DIDN'T GET PREGNANT BY THEMSELVES!! Secondly, I totally agree these women are STUPID. There is NO excuse for getting pregnant when you cannot afford to raise a baby. I'm sorry, but you either need to find a FOOLproof birth control or keep your legs closed! The show I'm watching right now a girl living with her mother is pregnant with twins with a father that is NOT supporting them. He says she should take up for him because he has CHOSEN to stay with her. REALLY??!! Have these women never heard of child support laws? Another mom of eight who cannot take care of those she has, makes one of her daughters help her tell the other kids. Again, WHERE IS THE SPERM DONOR?? THEN she says she hopes the kids will "be there for her". Are you kidding me? YOU are supposed to be there for your kids MOM, not the other way around. I'm not going to be able to watch this show anymore. Today was the first time I had seen it. One of my major pet peeves is stupid people, and this show is just chock full of them.

99% of the episodes are about people having kids that they shouldn't be having, and I have mixed feelings about it.

While I understand that, "things happen," a lot of this is just plain being irresponsible. I do agree with another review where the mothers are being berated for their choices, but in many of the situations the fathers don't do their part and step up for their child or family. It's so sad and disappointing.

It does get frustrating listening to them, but from my point of view, I feel like it's great insight into family dynamics and how many people are enabled to continue bad behavior. So many of the friends and family just keep helping and allow the cycle to continue, which I feel like people need to learn to stop helping people that are quiet literally dependent on others.

Very interesting to watch.