Outnumbered

I came across this series by chance, after browsing the BBC I-player site. What a discovery.

The whole thing is so true to life, it's scary. Parents who are so involved in their own world they mostly overlook the gems of information their kids come out with. Kids who actually behave like real life kids rather than the usual spoilt little brats (or worse, sugar sweet fakers) that most shows portray.

For me, the star of the show is Karen. The brilliant Ramona Marquez deserves every TV award going..she steals the show every episode. (Her impression of Fiona Bruce in series 2 is hysterical!!) For someone so young she very clearly understands her character, and makes the most of every scene she is in.

IF you haven't seen this show yet, please please please take the time to watch..and then set aside a whole day to watch the full 2 series as I promise one episode won't be enough.

Don't listen to that t*** who gave it 1/10 this is an amazing sit-com and it is one of the reasons I am proud to be British. It may be predictable and clichéd but that is part of its charm. Karen and Ben (the younger ones) are the best part their clashes are so funny and their logic is insane. What I mean by that is Karen is so literal and Ben is borderline nuts and thats great. The fourth series is on soon (When this review was posted) and I for one can't wait to see it and if you see this before Friday WATCH IT. Oh and one more thing that guys says it 'depressing' but it's not it deals with issues that any English family would face and I think it is a good mould for parenting you will not believe how much stuff my parents has taken from it (except they don't work cos we know how to get around them)

There have been lots of attempts to show the comic side of so called "ordinary life" but they always fall into the trap of trying to create gags, as opposed to reflecting what we all know, which is that real life often throws up comic moments if only you let it. This is exactly what the producers, writers, directors, actors have got together to do. After watching 2 episodes I thought these kids are absolutely brilliant - they are being allowed to express themselves with none of the stiffness that a script would bring about. This is especially true for the young actors but it is also true for the excellent Claire Skinner and Hugh Dennis, and you can see the delight on their faces as they react to the children's spontaneity. It just shows how powerful the technique of improvised and semi-improvised filming can be, and whilst it's not a new device, I personally believe it's greatly underused. We all know about Mike Leigh, Ken Loach, Woody Allen etc, and we constantly hear about great moments which ended up in a film which were the result of some spontaneous improvisation, and yet we steer away from this dangerous approach. I don't want to put writers out of a job, and in Outnumbered we can see once again the originality and creativity of Andy Hamilton's and Guy Jenkin's style, but they appreciate that they are part of a creative team which produces an end product greater than the sum of its parts. Let's use the technique more in 'adult' drama and comedy and not think that it only works where there are cute kids!

A word too about the subject matter itself. It is so extraordinarily well-observed and accurate; I recognise 99% of what's going on on screen. Now I realise that this is a portrayal of one particular life style, and not all the truths are universal ones, but the fact that the choice of family is relatively specific should not lead to it being dismissed as a comedy for the chattering classes, as though that somehow negates its worth.

What makes 'Outnumbered' stand out to me is that it's a very realistic portrayal of what life is like for many working parents that are trying to navigate the day to day stresses and challenges that come with it. It's not dressed up or made to look fancy for TV, it's just a family being a family.

Sue and Pete, the parents, are constantly questioning their ability to parent (and what parent doesn't?), trying to do the best for their children whilst simultaneously worrying that they're failing them and all in all are very normal people that could easily be someone's neighbour, family friend or colleague.

Jake, Ben and Karen, the kids, are unique kids with their own personalities that all pose their parents with different challenges. Unlike kids on most other shows, Jake, Ben and Karen are actually allowed to be children. They're not given two or three lines and then told to play quietly in the background, they're central and important characters just as much as Pete and Sue (if not more so). The improvisation aspect of the show really works well with the kids and adds to the realness of the show by allowing the children to say and do what they feel is natural. I also enjoy the positive spin the show puts on the children by taking what would usually be stereotyped as naughtiness or bad behaviour, and instead portraying it as individuality and misunderstanding of character. Ben, who is considered a 'problematic' child in the early seasons proves himself to be a very kind, generous, intelligent young man whose over-zealousness, curiosity and enthusiasm for life causes him to get carried away. Karen, who is a 'diva' or 'brat' is a highly analytical, clever out-spoken and self-assured little girl who is determined to be exactly who she is.

And this is what 'Outnumbered' does so well - it shows that all children are their own people, with their own thoughts, feelings and opinions and although parents are there to guide and discipline their children, it's important to also let them grow into who they're going to be in their own time and in their own way.

Putting this aside, the comedy is subtle and effective, although not necessarily laugh out loud funny. The acting is good, even from the young actors that play the children and the dynamics between the family are extremely effective and feel very representative of a real family.

All in all, 'Outnumbered' has been my go to sitcom for many years when I simply need to switch off and have some relief from the stresses of life.

Stumbled across this on an Australian catch up TV website and was just so delighted by the whole series I have recommended it constantly to family and friends. All the characters are beautifully drawn, the children, so normal and so extraordinarily gifted in their portrayals, the adults all flailing helplessly under their skewering questions and inconvenient presence and trying desperately to manage the minutiae and constant throb of everyday "adult" issues. This is a fond and gentle study of a real family where irrational squabbles, thumps and bumps happen regardless of adult conversations and concerns. Unlike any other family sitcom, British or American, the grown up issues and conversations are not "encapsulated" in some weird vacuum where every room in the house is spotless and looks like it has sprung from the pages of a magazine, and where background noise is non existent and problems and issues are all sorted in under 30 minutes. I am a mother myself, and have had a "Ben" of my own, so I completely get the bemused and frustrated love of Dad, Pete, the tired and gentle patience of Mum, Sue, who is also coping with a rat bag sister with no sense of responsibility and a father drifting off into a world of dementia. I just want to give young "Jake" the biggest hug as he tries valiantly to support Mum and Dad quietly and carefully, whilst still needing to do a whole lot more growing up himself. And then there is Karen of the lively intelligence and the never ending quest to see clarity and certainty in a world where grown ups use words like "never" and "always" and just don't follow through. This is a real gem of a series and the writers have captured the real essence of modern family life for lots of parents and have been assisted faultlessly in their portrayal by gifted and intelligent actors who know when not to labour the point. Well done and can I have some more, please?