The Affair

No pun intended - it is quite tough to be in love with someone who does not seem to be so sure about their own feelings. Or who just wants to be free - in more than one sense. The main character (female) is gorgeous, so you can understand why her boyfriend (at least he thinks he is and wants to be) fights for her - tries to be a good boy - well as much as possible without losing too much of his own dignity.

There is a word for what she does to him - begins slowly but then without a shame more than flirting with other men. You may feel that he should not allow this to happen ... but maybe he is a glutton for punishment ... also we are all different ... the (s)low budget movie has not much to tell, but if you can dig the drama that evolves ... and the almost philosophical questions that do occur ... well you may have something on your hands here ... just don't try to tie it down ... no pun intended.

The film is a fresh breeze of 70th-style realism in our screen. The magnificence of the film is that it's deeply philosophical without being snobbish. In a few words the film shows how craziness of modern-day life destroys families without putting blame on either gender, but instead emphasizes on the affect of the society on relationships probably best described in the monologue of the "Frenchy". But the film perfectly avoids the diseases of many philosophical films: it does not fall into a "statement" movie shoving the ideas down your throat nor does it "artistically" over-complicates them. What makes it great that the film walks the fine line never falling into either of these categories. It's perfectly dynamic, watchable and enjoyable without compromising integrity. Did we become too dumbed down by media and rotten with all the aliens, vampires and violence garbage that we cannot watch a "normal" story anymore? I have no other explanation how this terrific film that received 4 golden awards went unnoticed by public and is even out if print now. Some user comments here confirm my point. What probably does not add to its popularity is that the film is rather gloomy and does not have a happy ending, it's simply truthful. On top of great plot and directing the film has an outstanding cast which is also probably out of the favor of the media. I have no other explanation why I never heard of these terrific actors. First and foremost is of course Kelsey Oldershaw who seemed to have no limits. She can show such a variety of emotions just by the expression on her face - it's amazing. Another great actor is Andy Mackenzie who has a wide palette of his own. My overall score: perfect 10.

Nice video quality, some pretty places and pretty faces.

Writing was almost as good as an after school special written by high school students.

The acting wasn't.

Couldn't force myself to finish yet another bad movie.

. no one talks like these people ... no one acts like these people ... from one moment to the next they're continually doing-saying things not making much of any sense ... evenly inconsistent throughout ... not the worst film of whatever genre it is, yet coming very-close to being unwatchable

... take-a-way the unnecessary pauses and half the film gets chopped-off ... film's been around now couple decades and never have come across it before now... kinda wishing had not at all ... twenty years and with little more than one hundred thirty IMDb ratings.. that'll tell ya more than anyone putting required number of characters to print.

Besides the Hollywood star-power I found this very grown up story great to watch and amazingly true to a society that needs to accept the power of passion and love. A commitment to finding an inner truth in a women of the present day! Kelsey Oldershaw convinces and finds great company with Andy McKenzie and Horatio LeDon. The look of this movie is so perfect and the mood is so unpretentious as I did not see it in a long time since the best relationship dramas from France at their peak in the early 70- s. The whole environment is so very true to the contemporary situation in a troubled or maybe every relationship as questions and situations of truth and motivation come to a surface and find adults often unprepared. A very beautiful film that does still leave a lot of room to enjoy and listen and reflect into personal experiences.