Blind Love

This is an interesting TV movie that I saw, naturally, on Lifetime. What's most interesting about it is that it is based on a true story. What's even more interesting to me is that there are probably a lot of stories out there similar to this one.

The subject is big-time bigamy by a doctor who apparently loves all three women he's married to. Like most who deceive, he expends a lot of time and energy moving from place to place, covering up, and not getting caught. It's a tough job, and he's got to do it.

The cast is a very good one - Beau Bridges, Pam Dawber, Joanna Kerns, Kathleen Lloyd. Dawber is the smart one who figures out there might be a problem. There sure is. Bridges is successful as a caring doctor who loves a bit too much.

Pam Dawber portrayed Robyn (the bigamist Doctor's 3rd wife) as a rather nice sympathetic character she was diected to portray. However in my family we did not perceive the real Robyn as the character in the MFTV movie appeared. A cousin of mine was Robyn's 1st husband and father of her daughter Johanna. 1 day she abruptly asked him for a divorce so she could marry this doctor and she took no alimony or community property from my cousin although he did pay child support. When the news story came out about the bigamist doctor dying of a heart attack and Robyn never being legally married to the man my family had the last laugh. Sad indeed.

I worked for the doctor who had Three Wives. I don't want to be identified so please no questions. This wonderful cardiologist performed a heart and lung transplant on a young 7 yr old boy who passed after 103 days post surgery. He was a wonderful young man named David and the doctor was very kind and committed to his patients. I don't agree with having three wives and how deceptive he was but I got to know his personal side and want to tell you he was very personable and had a very good soul. It was a privilege to work for him. I thought Mr. Bridges played him well in the movie but a few of the facts were not correct. I am retired now and have a hard time typing so my apologies for the shortness of my submission.

Then beginning and end of this movie depict what everyone who has not lived through this, expected to be the outcome. The fact that a man could carry this three way deception for so long makes the story interesting. No movie minutes are wasted in the telling of this tale and getting across many messages in as few scenes as possible. The doctor has many needs and much to give. He can give much because he has his needs met in so many ways by so many people. He feeds them and they feed him. But the balance is always precarious and keeping it all balanced it what brings down the house that is not a house of cards but a house of emotions and needs that cannot be sustained over a long period of time. As time takes it's toll the need for further deceptions and lies are needed to keep the original lies flowing. Addiction is the root but it is a good intenstioned addiction that fuels this man and his wives. Rollercoaster rides only last a few minutes for a reason. No one can live with the adrenalin flowing constantly and eventually the other side will come in to offset the high. The movie depicted the long term ride that the doctor took and gave it the adhesive necessary to make one see how it could happen. And it showed the downside effects that were experienced by all of the players who were not running the show. They all got part of what they wanted and contributed to something but in the end no one was satisfied. The human heart may want to fulfill it's needs by attending to the needs of many and be fed by the love of many but in the end the deception led to the early demise of the one who loved too much and left big holes to fill for those who were left behind to deal with the debris.

A doctor charms and marries three different women. The problem is, he doesn't bother to divorce one before he marries the next. Beau Bridges is perfectly smarmy as a bigamist who juggles his time between the women. The doctor employs an arsenal of trickery and creates a landfill of lies. There are several scenes where the doctor has to do some quick thinking in order not to get caught. This is based on a true story; in real life, the wives ended up suing each other to get possession of property and money the man had.