Die Poesie der Liebe

"Shot with a nimble-fingered, compulsively twirling and rotating camera, MR & MRS ADELMAN freewheels in an almost mercurial form through the tonal discrepancies derived from a mishmash of components: a heady rom-com about a girl sets eyes on her Mr. Right and never let him go, a cynical satire on a writer's block (Victor's unpremeditated fixation with being Jewish, he even alters his bourgeois, Gentile surname de Richemont to Adelman), fame and egregious ego, an astringent matrimonial drama plumbing a husband's sexual frustration and a wife's desperation to hold onto the breadwinner of the family, or a reportage on gender politics within a nuclear family, but between Victor and Sarah, the one who gets the oneupmanship is evident along the way, as the story is as much an affirmation of a wife's high-wire maneuver of molding her husband into the man she wants (if not necessarily she worships) him to be, even without that final volte-face, as a no-holds-barred dissection of a tumultuous relationship that often blights a middle-class union where self-efficacy is foregrounded."

classic french cinema, full of psychoanalysis. fast moving witty and indiscreetly correct dialogue for those needing subtitles. what comes as surprise is the revelation, or at least the unmentioned-until-absolutely-necessary of who the madame is. this gave a entirely different, while parallel, level of information about madame and her extended family. we see only what we are allowed to see, but only once the viewer had been prepared. the essence of what is communicated can have other sources, other motives. as expected sex is in full Freudian motion and this particular French relationship is more passionate drama and manipulation than romance. poor guy was out of his league. viewed as unstated confirmation it will be liked in Hollywood New York, but, what with the state of things, it worries me. if possible, see the most excellent 2014 Turkish film Kis Uykusu, to understand how compassion is missing in the French film.

it is definitely worth seeing both as entertainment and education. could even change your world view. 7 of 10

This film veers between Woody Allenish interactions and social observation, "Scenes from a Marriage" and "The Wife". (If the latter film had not come out so soon after this one, it would be tempting to find a distant model for it here.) Sometimes it is wickedly funny to the point of biting satire, sometimes it is idly absurd, for long stretches it is touching in the way of any intimate look at a marriage. While it has many comic moments, it is distinctly NOT a comedy. It is rarely unwatchable, but does go on too long after a while. While there's a lot to be said for the different sections, they don't always add up to one film. A surprise for American viewers is Ronald Guttman in a colorful and very ethnic turn.

A movie as we never seen in the french landscape. A beautiful story of love. Doria Tillier is a great actress. Furthermore, the twist at the end show the genius in the Bedos' direction.

In March, I was looking forward to seeing 'La Belle Époque', the second and latest film by French director Nicolas Bedos, which was due to hit our local screens just in the week when the world stopped and cinemas closed. I had to postpone the meeting with that film, but I recently discovered that I had recorded his 2017 debut film in which Bedos also plays the lead role with his real life partner, Doria Tillier as his screen partner. The two are 'Monsieur & Madame Adelman'. He, Victor, is a famous writer, member of the French Academy and recently deceased. She, Sarah, is his fresh widow, who shares with a reporter, on the night of his funeral, the story of 45 years of love, betrayals, successes and disappointments. It is one of the films that I liked the most of all I saw lately - a romantic story, a social comedy, a critical look at the French intellectuals, a satire of racist prejudices, a feminist story but above all a sparkling and witty film, as French filmmakers know how to make when they are struck by inspiration.

The first third of the film is formidable. WOW! The old but still beautiful and elegant Mrs. Adelman remembers the love story between her, the Jewish student at the Sorbonne and the aspiring writer coming from a wealthy bourgeois family. We follow the first years of their relationship, the first books, the path searching, the failures and the successes. At one point we have the impression that we are watching a French version of 'The Wife' (which was released on screens in the same year - 2017) but the French film has more. Comparing the two films with similar themes - the lifelong connection between a famous writer and his wife who is something else and more than a supporter in the shadows or a muse - I think the the French film starts from a more original point of view. Victor needs security and inspiration, Sarah helps by lending him her name and part of her identity. Once success is achieved, the confrontation with routine begins. This movie is the story of a marriage. In most marriages, the first third is the stormiest and most interesting. The same goes for 'Monsieur & Madame Adelman'. From a moment on, the film loses speed, even the story seems to enter into a relative routine and fails to completely avoid the clichés. The audacity of the screenwriter returns only at the end, which holds a few surprises.

Nicolas Bedos is the director, the screenwriter and also plays the lead role. I don't think it's a coincidence that a cinema hall screening a Woody Allen movie appears at some point in the background. Woody is currently much more appreciated and influential in France than at home. Bedos borrows some cinematic elements from him, including the division of the story into titled chapters, but especially the insertion of situations and character traits that allude to his personal biography. Doria Tillier, the screen partner is also the director's life partner, and as spectators we can ask ourselves how much the two bring to the screen from their real life relationship. They both play very well in a story that spans almost the entire history of the 5th French Republic in the post-De Gaulle period, from Pompidou to 2016. They certainly gave a lot of work to makeup artists and hairdressers, but the result is almost perfect. The Parisian intellectual environment with its snobbery and rivalities is excellently presented, with ironic arrows at some of the sacred monsters of French literature and culture, including Jack Lang in a cameo appearance in which the former minister plays his own role as a speaker at funerals of the members of the French Academy. The feeling of authenticity is accentuated by the use of television reports of the time, documenting changes of regime and personalities at the helm of France. 'Monsieur & Madame Adelman' manages to be at the same time sincere and sophisticated, witty and critical, comic and moving. Judging by this debut, Nicolas Bedos is one of the most promising filmmakers of the generation of French filmmakers which is now reaching adulthood.