just my 2 n half cents..
if someone mengadu keluh kesah putus cinta / patah hati / hati rawan~ what so ever laaa...
don't simply
"alaa biasa la tuh... toksah layan sangat cintan cintun nih ..sampai masa kawen la ko.."
"geli aku..pasal cintan pun nak tergolek2 kat dalam bilik tuh"
at least ...pada masa tu tanya..
" how are u now?" ..." are u okay? " " polan..jgn sedih yer...blaablaa.. " or anything that can soothes..
ye memang betul..sampai masa.. sampai jodoh kawin la depa...
but people don't simply turn to a strong person in a blink..!
being stupid..hurt.. childish..are natural parts of being a HUMAN..
if they come to u ..with broken hearted.. sebodoh mana pun alasannya pada pandangan kita
just lent them ur shoulder or ears at the very least..
don't simply take that as ''masalah remeh'' geli geleman...
put urself in their shoes...
try ko kasi orang pinjam kunci kete..then orang tu calar kete ko dalam2 punye pakai kunci tadi..sakit tak hati?
pe lagi kalo bab hati..bila orang rabak2kan pijak2 pas smackdown2kan...
try la ape rasa..?
nurin paling anti dgn statement
" aku tak pernah patah2 hati ni.. aku cinta pastu kawin je terus..! "
come on..
first.. Alhamdulillah.. bahagian kome.. rezeki kome.. dapat kawin terus dgn gf/bf pertama..
tak pernah rasa di lukai terluka..terpunah terrhancur..terblender..terhempas...
second of all.. its TAKDIR...! jangan sombong dengan ketentuan takdir kita if kita beruntung..
but to whomever it may concern...
to heartbrokenians... :)
sebenarnya kita beruntung bila kita berpeluang merasai
fasa yg nurin panggil ''zaman kegelapan" :P
yep its hurt..
but those wounds..help u to become a better person...
don't simply cop diri as malang...
bila tuhan temukan kita dengan orang yang salah...
ade hikmah n sebabnya...its for u to learn...
bila kita melakukan kesalahan...kebodohan...
its a turning point utk kita patah balik pada jalan yg betul...
jauh perjalanan luas pengalaman... bukan hanya utk mereka2 yg merantau pusing dunia..
tapi jugak utk orang2 yang terpaksa melalui jalan sukar utk sampai ke titik hidup yg sepatutnya..
ade orang beruntung jalannya mudah..
jumpa cinta kawin beranak pinak ~~~~~
yes mereka mmg beruntung macam senang je..
tp mereka juga ade kesukaran tersendiri...
and mereka juga rugi tak merasai pengalaman yg kita rasa...
mereka tak akan faham apa yg kita belajar...
i never believe in " FORGIVE n FORGET"
i think to forget is almost impossible..unless ko kene amnesia..
and forgive its not as easy as it seems..
the biggest lesson i ever learned in my whole life is...
how to cantum those shattered pieces of heart and how to forgive...
for certain matters..ya.. mudah utk memaafkan..
tapi ada satu tahap dimana....
kita bertemu dgn jalan buntu...
u don't know how to move ..not even a bit..!.
kita rasa macam takde dendam dah n sudah memaafkan...
tapi cuba check balik
at the deeeeepeeest part within ur heart..
ubat patah hati sebenarnya...is to FORGIVE YOURSELF...
...the hardest lesson ever..but worth it..
seems easy but its not ...to forgive..u need bravery..
to brave...
we must have faith to Allah swt...
kita manusia bersifat baru...
setiap saat masa berganti baru ..
apetah lagi manusia...
anggap la kebodohan2 silam as kepompong yang kita da tinggalkan
and now we are pretty butterflies..
bila kita tersilap langkah....
yang paling berhak menerima permohonan maaf dari kita ...
ialah Allah swt n diri kita sendiri...
so be strong beteh..!
p/s: cinta monyet - tak termasuk dalam entry ni..sbb for me ia bukan kategori cinta..
♥'s
~
nurin