The code of conduct at the Maintainers Summit

Posted Nov 1, 2018 8:49 UTC (Thu) by Wol (subscriber, #4433)
In reply to: The code of conduct at the Maintainers Summit by bfields
Parent article: The code of conduct at the Maintainers Summit

> The more frequent case is that it's one of those technical disputes where people are just talking past each other.

"Just listen to what I'm actually saying, not what you're hearing". You need a 3rd-party to step in and moderate, and say "this is the real issue".

That's one of my big bug-bears in normal life too - people assume they know what I'm going to say, and never wait for me to say it (when actually, I'm usually going to say something rather different ...)

Cheers,
Wol