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Removed Comment A typing mistake when using autoinput on a mobile doesn't really speak to one's language proficiency (especially when I noticed the error and fixed it half an hour before you childishly even pointed it out).
>therefore mentioning both neurodevelopmental and neurological conditions in the same sentence
That's not what we're debating. Is your literacy that low or is this plain old avoidance?
What you said is "neurodevelopmental disorders and neurology are wholly different categories" or words to that effect. They're not.
Not "mentioning both in the same sentence".
>Again, using the word "insist" the way I did was correct.
No, it really, really wasn't. And just because this is my third language doesn't make it better for you. It makes it worse, because youre getting schooled.
>"Why did he insist on showing up when she was alone?"
>Another one would be,
>"Do you want to go to the store?"
>"If you insist."
First one implies almost a stalking sort of action, but on a socially acceptable level. The second one could be replied to with "well I sort of fancy a drink, but it's not a must" (as in politely negating the "insist").
Me casually pointing out you're using language wrong and you taking extra special offense at wanting to be called extra special, because you think "neurodivergent" is categorically different from "neurodevelopmental" is not me **insisting** to insult you. It's just your ego being really weak and you **perceiving** a **casual remark** as **insistence.**
Unlike in that case, there's no proscriptively right answer, and the **most** correct answer will be defined by the author's intent. Who authored the bit you're **insisting** (see that's the correct way to use the word) has insistence? Oh, right, **me.**
Would you care to list any of the things you've perceived to be me **insisting** on an insult? No...? Quelle surprise.
>when I'm objectively just criticising the things you've written
Yeah you're being soooooo objective. Not at all just have your feelings hurt because someone saw right through you and pointed out a mistake you made.
>now you're basically politely calling me r*t*rded
You **LITERALLY** self-identified as "I would prefer being called neurodisabled", when clearly having somewhat functioning faculties (debatable but), and now you're strawmanning that I'm using **ableist slurs** when you literally literally chose to self-identify with the word I'm respectfully using (against my personal dislike of the term, because I've literally never seen it and read **a lot** of neurological literature due to my own disabilities).
>Sure, it's a term used in medical journals, but that doesn't make it a diagnostic term. When I say medical, I mean in a diagnostic sense.
Ah yes, so I should've been able to read your mind when you said that "it's not even a real word, it was invented in the 90's", that you **actually** meant "neurodivergence isn't a diagnosis". Because fuck everything, and you just saying shit that's wrong doesn't matter, because you can just say you actually didn't even mean it and didn't even make a mistake but that it obviously means the correct thing, which is actually very different?
Mmm. Right. I can see that neurodisability showing through again, imo. Mind explaining better this disability you have so I don't say anything offensive about your psychological predisposition to ever admit you're wrong and avoid all the stupid shit you've happened to say?
No, "neurodivergent" isn't a diagnosis. Neither is "neurodevelopmental," "neurological", "psychological", "acute" "first-aid", "resuscitation", "suture" diagnoses either, but still they're every much commonly used in medicine, because they're kinds useful when doing it and talking about it.
>entirely optional word
For you. But for anyone actually practicing neurology, no it is fucking not "optional". That's like saying that "acceleration" is an entirely optional word for physicists. That is **ridiculous**.
>I've never heard someone use that word when giving me any of my diagnoses.
Yes? And I've never heard the word "suture" in any of my diagnosis. I still have a at least 50 scars of them on my body, left by actual medical professionals. Do you believe they could've been using the word even... even when I *wasn't* in the room...? :O
>Yeah, yeah, coined vs created. You literally coin words by creating a new term based on old prefixes, roots, and suffixes. To say that a word is created is still accurate because you're still creating a term that never previously existed by mashing prefixes, roots, and suffixes together.
I genuinely mean no offense in this part, and I probably have to avoid mocking you for that, but is this the neurodisability of yours again?
You're saying "words are coined through the use prefixes, roots and suffixes. This wasn't coined, because it's created by using prefixes, roots, and suffixes" and you don't see how that's an utterly ridiculously contradictory thing to say? You genuinely don't see it? Uff, guess it's more serious than I thought.
>It has been sometimes used to indicate that someone is "one of the good ones" and not like those "disabled guys." I've seen people use it in a similar manner to how people use the word "Asperger's."
I really don't give a flying fuck to your subjective experiences. In what way they use "aspergers"? Mockingly? Praisingly? The "he might be slightly socially awkward" (without an implication as to whether the person is bad or good.)
Perhaps you don't realise but those are subjective experiences of yours. You're just trying to avoid admitting to having made a language mistake. Especially after your **insistent** implication (repeated, stressed, angry, those are hallmarks of insistence, none of which my comments have :))) ) that I must be bad at English because it's not my first language. Must be kinda shameful to realise how badly you know languages.
>If you qualify for a diagnosis that is categorised as a disability, you are disabled. Autism and ADHD, are by definition, disabling.
No, they're not. By definition, they're not. Disabled has actual fucking **well-defined legal** definitions, (most of which are different in different countries) . But no they're not by definition disabilities. You can actually have mild to severe autism and by no definition is all autism and ADHD disabling. **THAT is fucking ableism and offensive af.** Especially on c/autism
It's beyond pathetic going to edit your comments instead of admitting to having made semantical mistakes. "People forget its possible being mildly disabled". Depends on the context and country, again. But YOU are conflating a disorder with a disability. Neurodevelopmental disorders don't mean you're disabled even slightly. They can be disabling, but there is no implied necessary disablement. That's ableist as fuck. by Dasus @lemmy.world reason: rules 1 and 5
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Removed Comment You can prefer being called whatever. It won't change medical or syntactical facts. But yeah, clearly I was right that you hate that others are being called "special" and you need to be "**extra** special."
>people will also just assume I'm autistic, which isn't what I want.
Yeah, ppl are fucking stupid. Just like you are.
"Uh, I'll have a plate of spaghetti and pasta pls."
I can promise you I have more illnesses, both mental and physical than you, and while the doctors aren't even doing what my country's laws require of them, nor being even semi-fucking literate most times, I don't go crying about how I'm not being called extra special and how I disagree with well established semantics.
"I'm not eating noodles and I hate how people assume I'm eating spaghetti when I'm actually eating farfalle."
Have you ever heard of farfalle? Would you get mad at someone who referred to a dish with farfalle as "pasta" or "plate of noodles"? Because that's exactly what you're complaining about. by Dasus @lemmy.world reason: Violating rules 1 and 5.
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Removed Comment >You literally did insist on insulting me
Literally after "Yes, I do understand what the word "insist" means "
Clearly you don't understand it, which makes you complaining about the language use of others even more ironic.
Just because I'm doing something doesn't mean I "insist" on it.
>I get that English isn't your first language, but it is a normal thing to say, "You insist on doing XYZ" after you've done XYZ. You're continuing to insult me, which only concludes my point that you insist on insulting me.
I really hope English isn't **your** first language, because your use of language is so horribly wrong that I hope you have a better one to spare.
Not every turn of phrase is metaphor. If I said "you're as busy as a bee", that wouldn't be taken literally, as it's **clearly metaphor.** Saying someone is **literally insisting** on something means that you think they are LITERALLY INSISTING.
Yes, "literally" **can be** used as emphasis, but especially in a thread where you're complaining that doctors use the wrong prescriptive language, saying that your language is all metaphor is ridiculous.
I haven't even *attempted* to insult you. No, you've just taken offense at me calling you out on being wrong. And because you take subjective offense at something, you can't distinguish it from someone who actually is very much attempting to insult someone, let alone "insisting" on it.
>Also, "neurodivergent" isn't even a real medical term. Literally anyone and their grandma could identify as neurodivergent be there is no set medical usage for it. This term was literally only invented
"I don't understand etymology and how words are coined in medicine"
Yes we can all very clearly see that.
https://journals.sagepub.com/overview-metric/NDY
"hurr durr neurodiversity isn't a REAL word"
There's literally a medical journal with the title "Neurodiversity". To argue its "not a real medical term" is utterly fucking ridiculous.
>Neurodiversity is an international, peer-reviewed, open access, online-only journal providing rapid publication of interdisciplinary approaches to the study of neurodevelopmental conditions and neurodiversity.
Do you perhaps mean "neurodivergence isn't an official diagnosis"? Because "being a real word" and "being an official diagnosis" are two quite different things.. Even more different than dough and bread.
Do you have any idea how many new medical terms there have been in nigh 40 years? "It wasn't some professional doctor" (as opposed to a hobbyist doctor?) who diagnoses autism who created the term."
I **hope** English isn't your first language, but the word youre looking for is "coined", not "created". Seem to be having a little challenges with language. Sure you're not autistic?
>In terms of cars, you could technically say,
>"I'm using a metallic machine,"
Oh how weird you didn't write "a metal machine" isn't it? Or just "honey where are the keys to the metal, I'm going shopping." or "oh give me some of that dough I'll put it in the toaster".
You just can't accept you have problems with categories and you made a language booboo by claiming neurodevelopmental disorders are a different category than neurology.
>There are also multiple types of neurological conditions;
Yeah and they're all a part of neurology.
Saying "broken bones and orthopedics are completely different categories" would be equally stupid as your statement.
Or saying "well I love spaghetti but it's a totally different category from pasta and I hate if people call my spaghetti pasta".
>What you are doing is the equivalent
No, it isn't. You're saying "rectangles and squares are wholly different **CATEGORIES**." I know you're so *neurodisabled* that clearly language doesn't come easy to you, but surely even you understand that a category isn't one specific thing. It's a category of things.
Just like the category of rectangles includes squares, the category of neurology encompasses all neurodevelopmental disorders.
What you're doing is saying "squares don't belong in the category of rectangles", which is just fucking wrong.
 : >I really think you should learn a bit more English before correcting someone else's.
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Removed Comment >I like more specific terms instead of vague terms is my thing. Spaghetti isn't nearly as vague as neurodivergent is.
And why should hundreds of years of established medical literature give a flying fuck what your preference is when your use of the words is 1) prescriptively wrong and 2) very much a personal preference that you personally have?
>It isn't about being special; it's about having accurate language that isn't dreadfully vague.
Again, the language isn't vague. You just don't know how to use it.
You literally said "neurology ans neurodevelopmental disorders are different categories". Which is as silly as saying "spaghetti and pasta are different foods".
And you think that medical literature is wrong.
God if I had one fking euro everytime I hear idiots complaining about things they're wrong about, I'd be so grossly rich.
>Saying that I'm neurodivergent would be like saying, "I'm eating dough tonight," and it's actually a plate of lasagna
See, again. You're simply not using those correctly. **YOU** being illiterate doesn't mean medical literature is stupid just because YOU have misunderstood it and misuse it.
Fking sake. Dough is not pasta. Even pasta-dough is not pasta, it's pasta-dough. That's different. But spaghetti, macaroni, farfalle, penne, etc **ARE** all pasta and claiming theyre "different categories of food" would be **immensely moronic**.
>Pasta is technically dough
No, it isn't, just like a car isn't metal. It's **MADE** from metal.
You're really having trouble with categories. Definitely neurodevelopmental disorders yeah, **WHICH ARE PART OF NEUROLOGY**.
>you sound like the one making this a "special" competition now
If I was competing, sure. And I'd win out fucking right. I'm so sick of morons like you pretending they're better than the still stupid doctors who do make mistakes. But not mistakes as stupid and as clearly wrong as you do.
>yet you insist on resorting to name-calling a stranger.
You don't understand the word "insist" either it seems.
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Survival of the best adapted (to one’s environment).
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Removed Comment It's also a special ability for neurodivergent people to be able to diagnose other people at sight, even if psychological tests cannot find anything.
Pretty much anyone who has neurodivergent friends/family has had them diagnose their neurodivergence at least once.
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Removed Comment it's because mental illness and psychiatric diagnoses have become the new horoscopes of the youths.
they turn to the DSM 5 the way we used to turn to the movements of the stars. you can endless self diagnoses everything about your life the same way you can explain everything by the fact your a Taurus.
it's that that stupid and that simple. it makes people feel important and special.
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Removed Comment they get angry at you because it's rude/weird as fuck to ask that in many contexts. life isn't a classroom and most people are not your professor.
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Removed Comment the vast majority of austic and adhd people are morons too. by TubularTittyFrog @lemmy.world reason: Rule number 1.
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Removed Comment this is classic moronic logic. you can't be seriously this dumb?
logic isn't facts either. jesus. could you be more ignorant and over confident in your vapid and pathetic generalization that is just a guise for you to feel superior?
the truth is you are the moron. and you are angry about it so you make stupid 'smart sounding' 'arguments' about the 'others' that you think you aren't a part of.
buddy, you're just as dumb as the vast majority of NTs you think you're smarter than. They just don't sit aorund agonizing on the internet about it... they are just living their lives. You seem to hav emistaken agonizing and arguing on the internet for some 'superior autistic intelligence'.
I 100% bet you are only interested in a tiny subset of stupid nerdy BS that is irrelevant to the vast majority of life. I doubt you have any curious abotu the chemistry of cosmetics, or the fabric/fashion industry. And think anyone who is 'stupid' because they don't agonize about nerd crap like the details of a graphics card processors. by TubularTittyFrog @lemmy.world reason: Rule number 1.
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Removed Comment What the fuck do you mean. This is normal behaviour. Turning everything into "autism" or "ADHD" doesn't make it actually fit those boxes lmfao.
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