3 hours ago mod
Removed Comment Because obviously every queer person is totally on board with the project to validate 'droneswarm' as a gender. by spacesatan @leminal.space reason: gatekeeping
22 hours ago mod
Banned WoodScientist @lemmy.world from the community reason: Ongoing gatekeeping
23 hours ago mod
Removed Comment I'm fine with new genders. But while everyone likes to say that gender is a social construct, they tend to parrot the line without actually considering its meaning.
Yes, gender is a social construct. But that's exactly the thing - it's socially constructed! Genders as social constructs are made by the combined social interactions and negotiations of thousands if not millions of people. If you just sit down by yourself and try to invent a new gender to describe yourself, that's not a gender. That's just a nickname. Social constructs can only be made socially. That's the entire point of a social construct - a bunch of people getting together and coming up with some new label to describe some aspect of the world. Without that social element, you're just writing fanfiction. It's like that wiki of thousands of genders that was recently deleted. In truth, almost none of them were true genders, as they were almost all just created by individual teenagers acting alone. by WoodScientist @lemmy.world reason: Gatekeeping
2 days ago mod
Removed Comment Tranny, for short. by modus @lemmy.world reason: transphobic slur
10 days ago mod
Banned BlackLaZoR @lemmy.world from the community reason: Transphobe
12 days ago mod
Removed Comment I mean, I'd say idk man to a woman too, because it's just a crutch word at this point. But some people actively dig for something to be offended by. by WorldsDumbestMan @lemmy.today reason: "some people actively dig for something to be offended by."
21 days ago mod
Banned Zwiebel @feddit.org from the community reason: pedophilia
26 days ago mod
Banned _β_εγγγζ¦ι @ani.social from the community reason: transphobic spam
26 days ago mod
Banned _β_εγγγζ¦ι @ani.social from the community reason: transphobic spam
1 month ago mod
Unbanned Deacon @lemmy.world from the community reason: Deleted comment and apologised via DM
1 month ago mod
Banned Deacon @lemmy.world from the community 1 month ago mod
Removed Comment How do I teach my children to be white? by BlackLaZoR @lemmy.world reason: white supremacy is an ideology and you know this
2 months ago mod
Banned AmadiohChess @lemmy.world from the community reason: Troll/spammer
2 months ago mod
Banned Boron @lemmy.dbzer0.com from the community reason: Transphobe
2 months ago mod
Banned cassandrafatigue @lemmy.dbzer0.com from the community reason: Invalidation of pronouns, whilst also using "it" when referring to people who don't use it pronouns
2 months ago mod
Banned βπππ @piefed.world from the community reason: Gatekeeping
2 months ago mod
Banned TheReturnOfPEB @reddthat.com from the community reason: Racism/antisemetic conspiracies
3 months ago mod
Banned TWeaK @lemmy.today from the community reason: Not having "dude" is gender neutral debate here
expires: 2 months ago
3 months ago mod
Removed Comment Good Burger should've taught you we're all dudes. by TWeaK @lemmy.today reason: *sigh*
3 months ago mod
Banned bitjunkie @lemmy.world from the community reason: Repeated use of slurs, lack of content warnings.
3 months ago mod
Banned ozymandias @sh.itjust.works from the community reason: Rule 7 since you feel the need to debate this
3 months ago mod
Unbanned ozymandias @sh.itjust.works from the community 3 months ago mod
Banned ozymandias @sh.itjust.works from the community expires: 3 months ago
3 months ago mod
Removed Comment i feel like βnon genderedβ or something is more appropriate than βnon binaryβ and people just latch onto the term because βbinaryβ sounds all futuristic and _information age_.
and before someone explains binary:
βthere are 10 kinds of people, those who understand binary and those who donβtβ
i mean, people are free to associate however they want, it just feels a little forced to me. by ozymandias @sh.itjust.works reason: Don't come in here debating how valid a wildly used label is
3 months ago mod
Banned U7826391786239 @lemmy.zip from the community reason: Ultimately rule 7
Please don't come into a marginalized group's community and tell people they are bad for reposting old memes from a platform you don't like
3 months ago mod
Banned vrek @programming.dev from the community reason: troll
3 months ago mod
Banned Archangel1313 @lemmy.ca from the community reason: Troll
4 months ago mod
Removed Comment a girl without dick is like an angel without wings ππ₯ by blinfabian @feddit.nl reason: Chasery comment
4 months ago mod
Removed Comment Funny how most of the transphobic women I've encountered were absolute trolls, probably some kind of insecure compensating going on there. by JennyLaFae @lemmy.blahaj.zone reason: Feel free to insult JK/TERFs, but go for their character, not their appearance.
4 months ago mod
Removed Comment Jesus, she is an actual ghoul. Like, I don't even like to comment on people's physical appearance in general but she looks like what I'd see during sleep paralysis by LuckingFurker (Any/All) @lemmy.blahaj.zone reason: Feel free to insult JK, but go for her character, not her appearance.
5 months ago mod
Removed Comment Two examples of how people born with a vagina talk to other people born with a vagina and one example of misgendering. If you believe that transwomen are women, you should expect that people will talk to you like you're a woman. by Aljernon @lemmy.today reason: transphobia, trolling, "dude" "man" "guy" etc arent gender neutral
6 months ago mod
Removed Comment My only comment is that as it specifically applies to medical and surgical interventions (which not all trans people want / need anyway) there does need to be a specific bad thing that is being alleviated to justify the risks of treatment under medical ethics. If there's a possibility of a bad side effect, there has to be a possibility of a worse thing for not doing the treatment. For a doctor to provide estrogen or conduct an invasive surgery they have to be able to say well it was worth the risk of causing a blood clot or an infection or whatever else because it alleviated the reduced quality of life / risk of depression etc. Speaking of which ladies please do not use nicotine while on estrogen I've had a couple patients have strokes at shockingly young ages that way. by ethaver @kbin.earth reason: Concern trolling
6 months ago mod
Removed Comment For me, it's [something different](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LCgCeoxToek).
This is the second time a queer space has rejected my praxis, because my strategies [mirror effect](https://mindfulness-supervision.org.uk/what-is-the-mirror-effect-in-psychology/) them.
So Iβm going to live like a sage until I can find others like minded, that do not fear my intellect.
Literally left the last electronic coven with a βI do not want queer fascism. If what you desire is a clique, then an elitist group youβll get.β
One of them in particular is a [tankie](https://codeberg.org/msavoritias), and has [jabber by it's throat](https://joinjabber.org/about/governance/foundation/). by _β_εγγγζ¦ι @ani.social reason: inciting drama, just dont
7 months ago mod
Removed Post (NSFW) Crossing the Southern Barrier reason: not a meme
7 months ago mod
Locked Post I don't have to be trans to appreciate good news! 7 months ago mod
Removed Comment [CW: Charlie Kirk literally getting shot. There is blood.](https://xcancel.com/fuentesclips/status/1965852758097191138)
Mods, if this is against instance rules, feel free to remove. I didn't see it in the community's sidebar. by boonhet @sopuli.xyz reason: gore
7 months ago mod
Removed Comment Looking closer at the art, I see that the paraphernalia on the ground is not as "DIY" as it looked on my first perspective.
I still think the fetishising of taking E is toxic, but apologize for insinuating OP was promoting illegal drug use by Noved @lemmy.ca reason: This community is supportive of DIY HRT
7 months ago mod
Removed Comment This is absolutely fetishizing. It's applying a sexual aspect to the injection of E.
You would say there is nothing sexual about the image here? Portraying two anthropomorphic dogs in their underwear. Implying a relationship between them with the collars on the wall and implied top/bottom roles?
The artist also does NSFW art, so they actively fetishize these characters. by Noved @lemmy.ca reason: This community is supportive of DIY HRT
7 months ago mod
Removed Comment People don't make fetishized art about insulin injections. If they did I probably would say the same thing.
As per my original post, I don't think it should be difficult or illegal to acquire E if you need it, but any type of "DIY" or home remedy E should not be encouraged or recommended, especially as an injection. by Noved @lemmy.ca reason: This community is supportive of DIY HRT
7 months ago mod
Removed Comment I'm struggling to find the words, but this is weird. I feel like we shouldn't romanticize DIY E injections. There shouldn't be anything cute about (unfortunately) illegal drug use. by Noved @lemmy.ca reason: This community is supportive of DIY HRT
8 months ago mod
Removed Comment Is this how the author titled this comic?
I feel like you brought politics into some nice art for no reason. by paraphrand @lemmy.world reason: "just asking questions"
8 months ago mod
Removed Post It takes balls to be a trans woman reason: not a meme
9 months ago mod
Removed Post Host community has now resorted to violence to us. Urgent update reason: Not a meme
1 year ago mod
Removed Comment I've also noticed that the trans community seems to have something of a low-grade hive mind. Perfect comparison! by YaDownWitCPP @lemmy.world reason: Transphobia
1 year ago mod
Removed Post where are we putting these? reason: advertising
1 year ago mod
Removed Post Ooops 1 year ago mod
Removed Post Hate when it happens 1 year ago mod
Locked Post Pretty Easy Choice 2 years ago mod
Appointed Lily [she/her, pup/pup's] @lemmy.blahaj.zone as a mod to the community 2 years ago mod
Removed Post πππ reason: Shit stirring
2 years ago mod
Removed Post A little something I made with gimp reason: Nope