To me sonder is pretty much the realization that everyone else around you is living a life just as complex and difficult as our own which is pretty much the actual defintion , but it gets deeper than just that, we as individuals usually never think about the other persons life what they may be going through how they are living and what they have been through but once u realize that their life is probably just as complex if not more than ur own u tend to understand people more u become an...