{"id":816,"date":"2012-01-01T03:00:54","date_gmt":"2012-01-01T08:00:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.theminimalists.com\/?p=816"},"modified":"2024-06-12T23:00:53","modified_gmt":"2024-06-13T04:00:53","slug":"failure","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.theminimalists.com\/failure\/","title":{"rendered":"Resolving to Learn from Failure"},"content":{"rendered":"

I failed last year. A lot. I failed more times than I can count. No matter how often I fail, failure is always sharp and cutting\u2014it never feels good.<\/span><\/p>\n

I made <\/span>my first-ever New Year\u2019s resolution<\/span><\/a> at the beginning of 2011: I resolved to not purchase anything for an entire year. A lofty resolution.<\/span><\/p>\n

Two months after making my resolution, my thought process regarding buying stuff had changed significantly. At first, when I wanted to purchase an item, I would think<\/span>, Hey, look\u2014that thing looks cool. I think I’ll buy it.<\/em><\/p>\n

But, eventually, I was forced to face the fact I couldn\u2019t buy those things. And, by the end of the fourth month, something beautiful had happened: I no longer wanted to buy new things. My entire thought process regarding impulse consumption had changed.<\/span><\/p>\n

I had accidentally reprogrammed myself.<\/span><\/p>\n

My resolution was to prove I didn\u2019t need to buy stuff for a year. But I learned I could actually change myself<\/em> <\/span>in the process. After four months, I no longer wanted to buy material items on impulse. The persistent desire to consume was gone. It was\u2014and is\u2014a phenomenal feeling.<\/span><\/p>\n

And then, six months into the experiment, something unfortunate happened: I spilled tea all over my computer. It wouldn’t power on. It was ruined. Thankfully, my first thought was not, I guess I’ll go buy another computer. <\/em>Instead, my first thought was, How can I live without this item?<\/em><\/p>\n

I went the next several weeks without a computer. I wrote essays longhand on yellow legal pads. I wrote fiction by hand, and it looked like the musings of a madman. I accessed the Internet at libraries, at friends\u2019 houses\u2014anywhere except my tea-soaked MacBook.<\/span><\/p>\n

After a few weeks, Ryan offered to give me a new laptop for <\/span>my 30th birthday<\/span><\/a>\u2014an offer I turned down because I felt it was cheating. So I soldiered on, computerless for several more weeks.<\/span><\/p>\n

Eventually I realized I was less productive without my computer. I was writing less, I wasn\u2019t enjoying writing as much, and I didn\u2019t feel as good about what I was writing. I realized I was depriving myself of an essential tool. For me, minimalism has never been about deprivation; rather, minimalism is about getting rid of life\u2019s excess in favor of the essential. For me, a computer was essential, so I got <\/span>a new one<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

And, throughout the rest of the year, I purchased a few other tools I needed as well. But I never returned to the impulse-driven consumption of my past. I was reprogrammed. And I will be forever changed by the experience of not buying stuff impulsively this year. I strongly recommend not buying anything for the next four months\u2014see what it does for your impulses.<\/span><\/p>\n

At the end of the day, my experiment was, by definition, a failure. But it was a beautiful failure that provided invaluable feedback and insight that I\u2019m thankful for.<\/span><\/p>\n

This year’s resolution? Well, I don’t have any goals<\/a>, but I plan to continue to learn from my failures.<\/p>\n

If you find value in The Minimalists, consider donating a dollar<\/a>.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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