Kingdom Come: Deliverance II

What has me frustrated is everyone saying how realistic this game is. I find that to be not fully true. Characters, scenery, style of combat and the world itself, yes, I can agree with that but mechanically speaking, there's been other games that captured better realism for game mechanics. I'm not a big Bethesda fan but they definitely nailed the mechanics for lockpicking which felt real and flowed well for the player using a controller, this system has to be the worst I ever come across, unnecessarily difficult for console players. Same with the pickpocketing, stealth attacks, escaping an ambush on horse, combat setup using the right joystick, I just feel they could have done a far better job organizing the controller setup for gameplay to capture a more fluid and realistic feel to the realistic world they created. This is what kept me from buying the first game and as awesome and beautiful looking the world is, it's brutal struggle for console players has me thinking about calling it quits and shelving this game. If it can't be enjoyable due to it's unnecessary difficulty then why bother, I'm certainly not about to go out and buy a keyboard and mouse just to enjoy it.