Her Story

The film explores the modern day challenges of women in China and especially being a single mother. On a deeper level, it explores the ability for women to courageously live the life they wish to live. The expectations placed upon them and the relationships between mothers and daughters, and between women and 'womanhood'. Extrapolate this out though it's also about people in general living within the confines of social expectations set for them instead of chasing after the things that bring them joy - and the real costs of that.

Every so often a movie leaves me with thoughts and feelings beyond the plot that makes me want to watch it again. This is one of them.

The movie feels like a kindhearted friend telling you stories about ups and downs realities of a life well lived. I found myself laughing and crying with the characters and entranced by the connections, chemistries that they shared.

Unclear to me though if watching as a non-mandarin speaker will be able to understand the nuances of what's said.

If I have one complaint about the film it would be that it tried to tackle too many themes. Because of that points it felt like some of the commentary was a bit shallow. Nonetheless, it still got me thinking and apparently now writing about it.

Too many movies settle for just scratching the surface of deep topics, whereas "Her Story" jumps right in. This film is a triumph across the board; the playful artistic choices, colorful dialogue, and effortless flow from scene to scene. The dinner conversation may go down as one of my favorite film moments of the year. The film explores a variety of topics from motherhood to childhood education to depression without judgement and without pandering, respectfully leaving audiences to ponder them. It's a joy in English, even better if you know a little Chinese. Her Story (Hao DongXi) will rightfully go down as one of the best films of 2024.

NOTE: Minus 1 point for a depiction of a jobless single woman drinking Singleton straight out of the bottle, you must be joking single malts ain't cheap people..

Wow a movie with an outspoken feminist female character? And two simps around her? Championing female autonomy and independence? That's bold in the land that calls females over 27 leftover women I guess. A country that still holds women up to patriarchal ideals of sacrificial motherhood. But anyway I think what's bold is using these concepts and ideas in the dialogues. The mentality is already very prevalent among urban women, whether they call it feminism or not.

It's funny how desperate the government has gotten trying to encourage marriage and childbearing.

Anyway, it was a fun and frustrating movie at the same time. I had terrible subtitles, probably machine translated or something and it was clearly not what was being said a lot of the times and it took from my enjoyment of watching it. It also probably made some of the characters more obnoxious or unpleasant then they're meant to be in certain scenes. The second dinner scene was very funny though, even with the bad subtitles. The one with the "feminist performing men" line. I didn't get what her ex was after with that behaviour. And I'm sure I missed a lot of the humour and the warmth again cause of the subtitles. I felt the movie's intentions and the point the characters were making, it just didn't really reach me as it should have, and I don't know if the subtitles are the only thing I can blame here.

Was that really Mark Chao? Damn...

At the Berlin screening, the audience was 99% Chinese, with 95% of them being women. Walking out of the cinema with my friend, I just felt utterly refreshed. It's been a long time since I felt, "I paid for the ticket and truly got an excellent experience in return."

The film isn't perfect-there are moments where you wonder if it's not deep enough, or if its structure feels limited, loose, and incomplete. Yet, that doesn't take away from the fact that it's light, joyful, and entirely comfortable-what a rare and precious quality that is. Every ten minutes you'll laugh along with other audience. It talks about feminism and women's self-discovery, but it doesn't feel detached from real life or overly dramatic. Neither does it rely on empty theories. Unlike some films, it doesn't give you the impression that the director is portraying an imagined version of life, but rather something genuine and relatable.

This movie has been highly praised in my friend circle, but due to scheduling conflicts, I missed the theatrical experience and ended up watching it at home. Unfortunately, I found myself somewhat disappointed.

The director attempts to build up the characters, but much of it is done through exposition rather than organic character development. As a result, the emotional impact falls short.

If judged purely on its storytelling and execution, I would rate it a 5. However, I do appreciate the film's intent, which in many ways feels more significant than the movie itself. The message is powerful, even if the delivery leaves something to be desired.