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Dear Jesse

  • 1997
  • 1h 22m
IMDb RATING
6.9/10
163
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Dear Jesse (1997)
Documentary

Can you go home again? What if you're a gay man and home is a state where voters keep electing a homophobe to the US Senate? In 1996, native son Tim Kirkman returns to North Carolina to expl... Read allCan you go home again? What if you're a gay man and home is a state where voters keep electing a homophobe to the US Senate? In 1996, native son Tim Kirkman returns to North Carolina to explore the parallels and differences between himself and Jesse Helms: they're from the same t... Read allCan you go home again? What if you're a gay man and home is a state where voters keep electing a homophobe to the US Senate? In 1996, native son Tim Kirkman returns to North Carolina to explore the parallels and differences between himself and Jesse Helms: they're from the same town and college, with media interests, from families blessed by adoptions, Baptists by upb... Read all

  • Director
    • Tim Kirkman
  • Writer
    • Tim Kirkman
  • Stars
    • Nathan A. Barbour
    • Karen Brown
    • Patsy Clarke
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  • IMDb RATING
    6.9/10
    163
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    • Director
      • Tim Kirkman
    • Writer
      • Tim Kirkman
    • Stars
      • Nathan A. Barbour
      • Karen Brown
      • Patsy Clarke
    • 3User reviews
    • 7Critic reviews
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    • Awards
      • 1 win & 6 nominations total

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    Nathan A. Barbour
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    Karen Brown
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    Patsy Clarke
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    Hal Crowther
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    Jaki Shelton Greene
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    Allan Gurganus
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    Jesse Helms
    Jesse Helms
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    Jerry Kirkman
    • Self
    Tim Kirkman
    Tim Kirkman
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    Jerry McGee
    • Self
    • (as Dr. Jerry McGee)
    Ann Pierce
    • Self
    Matthew Shepard
    Matthew Shepard
    • Self
    H. Mitchell Simpson
    • Self
    • (as Dr. H. Mitchell Simpson)
    Lee Smith
    • Self
    Eloise Vaughn
    • Self
    Shane Webster
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    • Director
      • Tim Kirkman
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      • Tim Kirkman
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    xavrush89

    Surprisingly personal and humorous.

    I did not expect filmmaker Tim Kirkman to reveal as much of himself as he did and I loved the part with his old friends "dishing" on him. Believe me, this film could have been A LOT angrier in tone. I'm sure Kirkman did everything within his power to hold back what he really thinks of Helms. The result is one compelling doc. And as for the end, well, that speaks for itself. One question that sprang to my mind: To all these people who believe being gay does not warrant any rights because it is a lifestyle choice, what is a religion if not a lifestyle choice???
    10mermatt

    A plea for sanity

    This is a touching documentary about a young man who lives in New York City but grew up in North Carolina. He addresses his narrative in the film to Jesse Helms, the overtly and unabasedly homophobic Senator from North Carolina.

    The narrator revisits many places where he grew up and interviews friends and family asking about the bigotry that Helms openly displays. The narrator discovers that many people in his home state share his views of Helms. Realizing this, the narrator feels that he is no longer alienated from his birth state.

    He makes an interesting point about the North Carolina motto which states that what is true is more important than what merely seems true. He then applies this motto to the condition of bigotry masquerading as civility.

    One of the most touching aspects of the film is the "PS" at the end.

    This film is a must for anyone trying to teach real family values and tolerance in America. I was touched and moved by the experience.
    7pogostiks

    A touching and eloquent documentary

    Like many people, I know who Jesse Helms is... and I basically despise the man, but coming from Canada I did not really have an idea of what it must be like to grow up in a State that kept his man in the Senate for decades. This documentary is not just about homophobia...that exists more or less everywhere - but it is also a glimpse into the "religious" and racist South - where the film-maker comes from and where he went back in order to make this documentary.

    What strikes me most in this film, mainly - but not only made up of talking heads - is the erudition of the people he interviews. Most of them are talking off the top of their heads, but they nevertheless come across as deep and extremely eloquent. I especially liked the first black girl to go to a white school in the film-maker's town; she reads a poem that she wrote as a student - supposedly for the first black to become a mayor (if I remember rightly) but in fact it is an amazing cry from the heart against Jesse Helms. Wonderful stuff! Many of the other people interviewed were as eloquent, and it was often very touching. Or occasionally more revealing than expected.. One of the best moments is when a Republican supporter of Jesse Helms is asked to explain what it is about Jesse that makes him like the Senator. The man is obviously so used to "knee-jerk" reactions that he is almost incapable of making a sentence... he is totally flummoxed by the question and struggles to find something to say. In his long silences, there is more eloquence than the man intended about what kinds of people vote for Jesse!

    The film-maker himself is also very eloquent, especially in the beginning and ending of his film. He talks about himself openly and simply, but to great effect. This documentary would be an excellent tool for teachers in schools to use to start discussions about so many topics. If it were made obligatory viewing for everyone, Senators like Helms might just not continue to get elected.

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    • Trivia
      Premiered 2 days before Mathew Shepard's murder.
    • Connections
      References The Andy Griffith Show (1960)

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    • Release date
      • September 9, 1997 (United States)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Language
      • English
    • Filming locations
      • North Carolina, USA
    • Production company
      • North Carolina Film Foundation
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    • Gross US & Canada
      • $17,744
    • Opening weekend US & Canada
      • $1,508
      • Jun 28, 1998
    • Gross worldwide
      • $17,744
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      1 hour 22 minutes

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