Going Home is a pretty upsetting movie, so I caution only those who can handle it to rent it. I thought it was going to be one of those "ex-con makes good" stories, but it wasn't at all. Robert Mitchum does start the movie getting out of prison, and he does try for a fresh start in life, but there's a lot more to the story. His teenage son, Jan-Michael Vincent, has a whole mass of problems because of what Bob did. We never learn why, or even if he did it, but he went to prison for murdering his wife. As a little boy, Jan-Michael witnessed the tail end of the crime. Understandably, he doesn't want anything to do with his father upon his release.
Except, he does. He tracks his dad down to the trailer park where he's living and tries to get to know him as an adult. Full of angst and feelings he doesn't even understand, Jan-Michael is an absolute mess. Bob tries to be friendly, but he knows they can't have a normal relationship. Bob's girlfriend, Brenda Vaccaro, also tries to be friendly. She's closer to the son's age than the father's, and since she doesn't know or understand the whole story, she thinks a few family dinners will mend everything. Unfortunately, she learns the terrible lesson that no good deed goes unpunished. I really like her performance in this movie. I believed her at every moment, from blending into her trailer park surroundings, to trying to make a go of a relationship with a broken man because she knows they're on the same level, and finally, fear and disbelief when Jan-Michael shows his true colors.
This story is so interesting because obviously Bob is the villain in the story, but he doesn't really act like it. Jan-Michael is far meaner, inconsistent, and out for revenge. Bob is merely trying to get by the best he can after fifteen years in prison and forfeiting any relationship with his only child. In fact, I found Jan-Michael so horrible, every time I've seen him in another movie I shrink back behind my pillow and say, "Oh no, the rapist!" Bob does have a chill that washes over his entire performance, which is very effective. He has lived through so much, there just isn't room for regular, raw feelings anymore.
Part of the reason why this movie is so hard to watch is because of the flashbacks. Not only do we have to watch the murder over and over, but we see some very touching flashbacks of their relationship before Bob went to prison. It's sad to see him in a different stage in his life, contrasted with the way he is at the present timeline. If you can handle this extremely dark, adult movie, you'll see some very good acting and a realistic storyline.
Kiddy Warning: Obviously, you have control over your own children. However, due to violence and an upsetting scene involving a child, I wouldn't let my kids watch it. Also, there may or may not be a rape scene.
