SMILF

This show both stands and falls by the fact that its lead wrote the script and it is based on their life experiences.

On the one hand this makes it a well acted and introspective look at the life and struggles of a single mother, with some original takes on everyday situations and it certainly has a lot to say. On the other hand though there are some things that are a little too self-indulgent or one-sided, and while this may be an unpopular opinion, the perceivable age difference between the creator and the character is somewhat jarring. It comes across like the lead should be a woman in her early 20s, but instead of casting someone of the age appropriate to the story she is trying to tell, she instead cast herself, which may be more ego in this case than anything else. (It was the initial noticing of this that made me question if it was written by the actress in the first place, as the choice would seem strange for any other reason)

Overall this is another example of good modern writing, giving a personal perspective that is interesting and generally entertaining. The show has a nice raw quality that is worth something, it's just possible that the creator should have taken herself out of the equation and cast a more fitting lead. (I'm the same age as the lead and if I was casting a young single father I would go for someone 10 years younger than myself, this isn't about gender, it's about accuracy)

First - I don't care what anyone has to say about Rosie O'Donnell, she is still a terrific actress and comedian with AMAZING timing - and this show more than proves it. EMMY AWARD WINNING Performance, mos def. Second - Frankie Shaw's acting abilities and gorgeous face made me melt WAAAAAAAY WAY WAY before SMILF even aired on Showtime. Brilliant barely scratches the surface when it comes to this girls talents, on screen and on paper. Wow! She wrote the perfect role for herself and its A Maze...zing! Third - Truly, this show is great. I have never laughed so hard at moments in a comedic show before. It's brilliant, well timed, humor is fresh, slick, and often inappropriate. I love it! I find myself already quoting this show - there's so many hilarious moments.

Lifelong Boston Southie Bridgette Bird (Frankie Shaw) is a struggling single mom. Her old dream of playing basketball has faded. Her baby daddy Rafi (Miguel Gomez) is dating hot Nelson Rose (Samara Weaving). Her mom Tutu (Rosie O'Donnell) is unstable. She tutors Ally (Connie Britton)'s kids. Eliza is her best friend.

This is a great character. Her overt sexuality is unusual for a single mom role. She's a terrifically flawed character. She's best when she's striving to be better like when she's trying to stay with basketball. Otherwise, it's wallowing for wallowing's sakes and that happens a lot in the second season. She can't win or the show is not the show but she can't just drift either. The second season is a bit of the sophomore jinx. It seems to be a show in transition. Connie Britton is fazing out of the show. I didn't know why it got cancelled after only two seasons until I read about the controversy. It's a shame especially since Samara Weaving was never meant to be that sexualized character. She's a hot model but she's reserved in that aspect. I hope that Frankie simply let the pressure of show-running get to her.

If you enjoyed the tv programme Girls, check out SMILF ... Different, irreverent, honest and funny. Modern life with larger than life characters, all flawed, warm and fabulous.

SMILF's entire narrative seems so fake and forced that I am not surprised it got cancelled. It is nothing like what most single mother's face and instead portrays single moms as desperate s1uts who endless repeat the same mistake that got them where they are in the first place. Sorry most single moms are not drunken s1uts.

I am also not surprised to see the "progressive message" showrunner, creator and lead actress s herself abusive -- this is typical of virtue signaling hypocrites: "The cancellation followed a December story in The Hollywood Reporter that portrayed a production "plagued by allegations of abusive behavior and violations of industry rules..... "The Hollywood Reporter detailed complaints about the way Shaw managed actress Samara Weaving's nude and sex scenes for the show. Citing "several sources," it also said there were complaints that "writers of color were put in different rooms from Cauca sian writers and felt that their ideas were exploited without pay or credit."