Christmas with the Singhs

The movie started with a lot of promise. The leading couple, Anuja Joshi and Benjamin Hollingsworth were young adults starting out in their careers and had good chemistry, and the development of their relationship from their surprise meeting years after graduation, up to the proposal was reasonable, warm, and believable. I had high hopes for the movie at this point.

... and then we met the parents. With the possible exception of the bride-to-be's (Asha) mother, the parents were, to put it mildly, unpleasant. They were stereotypes of a suburban WASP couple and an immigrant couple. They expected absolute adherence to their own personal or cultural standards, and were unwilling to see the other side in any way. They were utterly competitive in their quests to win some kind of Christmas decoration prize. They portrayed the worst of inlaw characterizations.

This has been done before, with sensitivity and humor. But in this movie, it came off as bullying and was so unpleasant to watch that this was one of the few Hallmark movies that I simply turned off without watching to completion.

One last thing, Why was the movie called "Christmas with the Singhs"? It could have just as easily be called, "Christmas with the O'Briens".

This movie is a total cliche, It is a rehash of all the movies where an engaged couple spends Christmas for the first time with their families bringing both of them together. Samuel Singh is the prototype of the difficult father-in-law. His wife tries to dull the rough edges but plays it a little too close to the cultural stereotype of an Indian wife. Jake's dad is a little difficult, but compared to Samuel he is a pussycat. His mom, although a competitive Christmas decorator is the most diplomatic of the group. Given all this, the story is mostly predictable right down to the last scene.

An interesting exception culturally is that the Singh family are generational Christians even before leaving India. So the climax is especially disappointing in a face off which leave's Samuel looking anything like the best of Christianity. Fortunately, forgiveness is one of the more important aspects of Christians since they all know how much they have been forgiven.

The acting isn't bad and really neither is the story other than being so derivative. I failed to find all of the conflict funny, so I will not want to watch this again.

Well, not without ALL the daggers.

A WASP young man and a woman whose heritage is from Christians from India have (almost) love at first sight, bumping into each other after they knew each other in High School, where she tutored him in Chemistry.

After a year of happy dating, he proposes and she cheerfully accepts. Then comes the issues ... meeting each other's families and the families meeting each other.

The daggers? Looks the two fathers give each other over the preference for baseball or cricket.

The poison? The extra spicy food the young man gets (sort of) tricked into eating at a family dinner in the Indian home.

Eventually, family issues threaten the relationship, and that happens all too frequently in real life.

The conclusion is satisfying. I'm not sure this will bear repeated viewings, but we wouldn't avoid it. Thre are a few truly amusing moments.

The 'Singhs' truly hit all the marks of a Hallmark movie at Christmas-time. It weaves the complexity of joining two distinct cultures with the signature kindness that makes a Hallmark movie pleasurable to watch.

Each character had valid concerns, while still managing to remain endearing for me. Even Mr. Singh, with his gruff insistence, was likeable and pretty hysterical. I loved both Moms, and the dynamics of each family. It was heartwarming to see the added element of Jake's parents reuniting. Regarding casting, the cast was absolutely brilliant; I can't imagine a better selection of people. I also loved the little details, like the montage depicting the passage of a year of time, to help the viewer accept the fact that they were ready for engagement. These are really great touches that make Hallmark the top player among similar networks.

Reading these reviews, I knew that there would be criticism of the movie's attempts to depict Indian culture. I disagree, as it's honestly refreshing to see this effort happening. It's not perfect, it is progress. They did get much of it right, in my experience. A favorite scene was the simplicity of Asha's family playing Indian music together in their living room.

More than all things, the movie was not just empty feel good moments; it taught most of us something about picking battles, reaching compromise, and learning to accept things that we can't control, for the sake of having lifelong love and valued relationships.

This is a movie that delves into territory that isn't always super-common on Hallmark, and it also was such a comforting movie to watch. I would recommend this to anyone who enjoys a side of realistic drama/conflict with their helping of effervescent Hallmark Happiness.

This film uses the joining of two families over Christmas to rerun the Meet the Parents theme, while showcasing Indian celebrations of the holiday.

Ultimately dry and lifeless, this effort is not worth your time. I felt uncomfortable for our leads for having such annoying families who spoke in long, robotic and way-too-complete complete sentences.

One bright side, our leads. They could have carried the movie alone, had they not been busy playing caricatures of "regular white guy" and "modern Indian woman."

Change the channel on the Singhs.

Measuring Christmas magic: no magic, but good representation of Indian culture.

Cast Kudos: I'd like to see Anuja Joshi given another lead role, but with less responsibility than representing the entirety of her culture.

Alternative titles: Christmas engagement clash; Blending Culture Christmas.