God Bless the Child

Is this a film with a happy ending and "everything is awesome" vibe? No, not at all but it is one about emotions and how we all try to go along in our daily life regardless of the circumstances or age. It is a film for any one who has had less than stellar parents and for someone who has not been the most present and accessible parent themselves. This film lets you be a fly on the wall for ONE DAY in this family's life and how the kids internalize their mother leaving them alone. It encapsulates so many raw and subtle emotions though into this one small glimpse. The nuances how the mother bolts out of the driveway, how Harper just knows that she is in charge of her siblings but for how long, how we are reminded that she is just a young girl in the park talking to a boy, the not so subtle ways how the boys take out their frustrations on each other, and how they just seem to get through the day. I know that some of the other reviews have had a very strong reaction to a scene with the boys. Having been the kid in Harper's shoes making sure everyone is OK and having been the younger sibling where you have this feeling that something is wrong yet no one is acknowledging it and having had to internalize those feelings, I had a very different reaction to the scene with the boys. I think they know something is of and their aggression toward one another is the only way they know how to express those feelings and they just sort of came from deep within. I remember thinking in that moment, wow other kids felt that way too, although I didn't resort to outward violence to express it and turned it inward on myself instead. There aren't many movies out there about depression, and certainly not from the kids perspective. That is what is refreshing about this film, because there isn't anything else out there like it.

I'm halfway through watching this but came to IMDb to see if the children were related. As someone who grew up with a similar age/gender dynamic with my 3 siblings this felt very familiar, casting a real life family was a brilliant move. It brought a depth and authenticity to the relationships in this film, far more nuanced than what would have been achieved with actors this young, had they not been related. The little penis song was too adorable. Very clever idea for a film, not something to watch if you need explosive action to enjoy a film, but if you like intensive intimacy then this is a great choice. The colour tone was really nice too. I had to turn my brightness up but I think it set the tone well.

I was so afraid for these children. Being the mother of two boys, I can say that the situation seemed dangerous. I was glad that there was at least a camera person, hopefully an adult available. The scene where they rode their scooters down the street was frightening. I don't understand how a 13 year old girl could be expected to care for four very young boys; I consider it child neglect. The sister did the best job she could. I could not help thinking that it was bad enough while they were at home, but much too dangerous when they were out on the street. I understand that this is the dilemma for many families where the parents work, and the oldest child must care for the younger ones, but someone should have at the very least purchased some milk and prepared a meal for the children. I would think that there must have been a father somewhere, but I did not see any sign of him.

I saw this film at SXSW it is a charming film, it makes you laugh, it makes you cry. I would give it a 10 because it tells a story of a real social problem in a way that is real and not a Hollywood version of "real life".This movie takes the viewer into a home that has 5 children the oldest is a teenage daughter and 4 younger boys, the mom drives off at the very beginning of the movie, leaving this young teen daughter in charge of these 4 rambunctious boys, there are all kinds of funny boy stuff and some really touching scenes with this teen girl. They are all getting through the day in their own ways. You don't know if the mom is coming back or not, but the daughter is the only one who is really aware that that is a possibility. I would love to see this again, Hopefully someone will pick it up and make it available to the general public.

I have no clue how they got performance like these from very young, non-professional children. It plays like a documentary. You just won't believe how real this movie is.