O Que Tiver Que Ser

Great acting by the cast. Great writing. Great dialogue. There are a couple of unforgettable scenes that made my day.

This film gives the viewer a realistic glimpse of what can happen inside a marriage--the challenges, the frustration, the disappointments that the couple have to contend with as they try to make the marriage work as they raise a family. The viewer easily sees himself/herself in those scenes and relate with the characters intimately in a vicarious way.

It seems primarily the story of the male lead as he grapples with the demands of being married and raising a family, and realizing he hasn't done much for the marriage and family. And the realization hits him hard.

Such a situation happens to many of us. And the male viewer develops some kind of kinship with him.

This Swedish film deserves your time and attention.

But so much more. I prefer foreign films, so was drawn to this recommendation on NFLX. It started out as what I thought a peek into a neglected marriage, obviously because the husband was having an affair. With precision reveals, it becomes clearer what could be happening in this family's lives. So well written and executed by the writer, director and lead actress who is one and same person! Without giving away too much, this is a deep, authentic, visceral story that will stay with you long after viewing, as others have written here in the reviews. Why this isn't on everyone's radar as a MUST WATCH, is beyond me.

If you like character driven films this is perfect for you. You see the camera close in on the husband or wife's face and you know what they're thinking. This is a truly natural film about the problems of living with someone you love(d) amidst the stresses and repetitive strains on daily life. Throw indulged and petulant children into the mix, expecting to have their many needs met whatever the cost on their parents' time or patience, then you see the perfect unravelling of a couple and watch their interaction with each other develop.

The actress playing the wife is the most incredibly talented person. She also directed and wrote the film and gives a dazzling performance. This is a beautiful film. 10/10.

Sometimes you come across a movie that just plucks a chord in your life, In your heart, in your soul.

I found this by chance and had no idea what it was about or what to expect. It moved me deeply and not only had phenomenal acting but was made extremely well.

The emotions, the life lessons, the music. It was so real and for a moment felt like it was my own family and I was watching my life go by.

It's so easy to get stuck in the monotonous habits of day to day life. To see the forest for the trees can sometimes feel impossible.

This movie is provoking, inspiring, emotional and evokes thoughts and questions that some of us might have put aside or buried for some time.

I rarely write reviews for movies here, but I had to.

Absolutely beautiful.

I have no idea why this was recommended to me but it feels like the universe knew I needed to see this.

The writing is so real and extremely relatable to me.

I don't want to give anything away. It's a movie that doesn't too much and hits all the right notes. But most importantly, it's just captures so much about marriage, parenthood, growing up, relationships.

A small gem. A little triumph.

Also loved finding out that the lead actress who is amazing in very subtle scene is also the writer and director. It feels like she must have pulled from very real life experiences.

Add this to your queue and make sure to watch it.